Do you like fit, skinny or curvy girls best?

[Anonymous]

Do you like girls who are a bit muscular, with abs and a low fat percentage? Do you just like the way they look or do you also think you'd like cuddling with them?
What about plain skinny girls, with a modellike body?
Or do you like curvy better, with a soft belly and love handles and all that comes with it?

I've had an eating disorder and mostly beat it. Now my weight is healthy (bmi is 20) but Im still rather skinny. I dance a lot and am not really muscular or toned but Im fit enough. Lately I've been hearing more and more people say Im too skinny, or cuddling is nicer with people who are a bit softer. The guy I like said he wasn't used to having so much leftover space between his arms and a girl I love a lot said she's always afraid to break me.

Health reasons aside, what physique do you like most? I focus mainly on female bodies but answering the other way around is fine too.

[CathyLiz11]

Oh, please Gentlemen. I am a naturally curvy women who lost close to 100 lbs as a drug addicted semi-homeless street hustler after my fiancee dropped stone dead from a congenital heart defect at the ripe old age of 35 years old.
I am here to tell you that the difference in the level of attention and sexual interest from guys of all ages, ethnic backgrounds and walks of life that a size 0 - 3 woman receives minding her own business vs the attention the same woman at a size 12 + is staggering. Men prefer skinny girls, no matter what they like to say in public.

[Asker]

Not all men. That guy I described has been dating a girl twice my size for years (shes amazing by the way) and I know he prefers her body type.

[Drapetomaniac]

Fit girls, seeing as I'm skinny myself. There's something hot as hell about a girl who's fit.

[Goldilocks24]

Women can be curvy and fit. It doesn't just have to be one or the other.

[Asker]

I meant the body type with more fat and less muscles, where she looks and feels more soft. Chubby might have been a better description but that sounds so negative.

[Goldilocks24]

I get it.

[Browneye57]

It doesn't matter what everybody else likes. What matters is finding someone that likes you for who you are - physique aside.
There are much more important aspects to a man-woman relationship - time for you to do some more study on that. For example, what exactly do you bring to a relationship besides a vagina? Be a success in whatever you do - pursue your aspirations with vigor, make something of yourself. THEN you'll be in a position to want to share your life with someone special.
Choose wisely. Treat kindly.

[Asker]

Of course, I know that. But that's not what the question's about :)

[Browneye57]

The question of whether some guys like skinny or fit or curvy is not relevant. Everybody is different. My point is there are much more important considerations. You're completely missing the point.

[Asker]

Of course there are more important considerations. But that doesn't mean this one doesn't exist anymore. Initial attraction already weeds out a lot of potential partners as it steers who you start talking to and who you never actually meet.

[Browneye57]

While that may be true, it still doesn't make any difference what some people prefer as to physique. You are what you are. Sure, you can change it a little bit, but most important is that you eat right and stay in shape. And you can't change what a potential meet-person might like either, so none of it is relevant.
Anyway, we're not getting anywhere, you're focused on this one thing. So I'm out.
Enjoy your time here!

[Asker]

Thanks, you too!

[Browneye57]

I think you just like to argue. LOL. So after all that you pick me as mho. Good for you, and thank you. Perhaps you've improved your overall opinion and confidence in yourself.

When we love ourselves while still being objective, then we're okay either way, and we don't let other shame us or be affected by it. We are who we are and have to be solid and accepting of that. For all my years I thought I was too skinny, so pumped iron and got big. Some things can be changed, some cannot. For now I have no hair - it was shoulder-length when I was young. When it started to fall out I just cut it short. You have to play with the hand you're dealt.

Good luck and enjoy your time here on GAG.

[mjashin]

well for me personality matters more. i'm not into skinny, nor fat. let's say anywhere in average. but she has to be curvy, not average like boring or not fuckable :P if she is beautiful it's all that matters. a girl can be beautiful when she is 50kg and can be way prettier if she has 80. same goes for the other way around. that's just numbers though.

[Asker]

With "has to be curvy" you mean she has to have nice breasts and butt? Because that's genetic and not really lifestyle, so I don't want to waste too much time feeling insecure about it.

[mjashin]

don't feel insecure :) it's not weight that makes you beuatiful :) attitude matters way more. there are a lot of guys who like skinny girls. also a lot who like fat girls. but by "curvy" i meant something like... fit :)

[Asker]

Haha you don't have to give me such a pep talk, but thanks :) I generally really like the way I look as I have a skinny waist and larger bottom. But now Im hanging out more with some gorgeous bigger people and it's changing my idea of beauty a bit.

[mjashin]

:D just searched on internet what "pep talk" means because i'm not native :P just wanted to make sure you got my idea :D i personally seek beauty in all people. i strongly think this is what makes you beautiful in the end :)

[Asker]

I do the same. I've dated tall, short, obese, underweight, white, Asian, male and female. I've found all of them beautiful. Still I worry about my own body and feel like it has to be perfect :p but now Im confused at to what perfect would be. Do I need to eat more or less, do I need to work out more or less?

[mjashin]

hm. i'm studying architecture atm. in the first year i had to make an essay about beauty in architecture. i did my research and found out many interesting things about the evolution of beauty throughout history :D if you want we can talk sometime about it

[Asker]

Cool! What kind of things did you find out?

[mjashin]

really can't answer that right now. i have a project to do and show it to my professor in like 2 hours lol. i hope ill remember when i come home :)

[Asker]

I hope so too

[greenhouse_mischief]

Appearance ain't nothing but a thing of you truly love someone. Now love aside, I am drawn to the athletic type because I know she takes care of her body and wants to maintain her physical appearance. But once you are emotionally attached and committed to someone I think the appearance factor goes away a to a degree.

[AnnoCasher]

Like em all, every type has its own perks and flaws.

[Asker]

Agreed!

[Xfitchick]

I am into the fit girls, but they still should have some curves. No fatless fbb for me.

[ADFSDF1996]

Fit women with curves are my favorite. Skinny girls are beautiful as well.

[Taunt]

Curvy looks the best In my opinion. It's really nice to cuddle with 😊

[RollingBeans]

Curvy for sure, girls getting a bigger butt, thighs, boobs etc all while getting softer features, including a little protruding belly couldn't be any nicer to cuddle with

[Iron_Man]

I've had big pretty girls now I want skinny attractive girls

[J_Shark_Kiwi]

the curvy ones try to be sluts in my opinion and its super annoying

[scragbas]

curvy. no exceptions.

[G-Daz]

Curvy

[Asker]

Could you explain why? And how curvy?

[G-Daz]

skinny doesn't do much for me. feels more like i'm just observing a stick figure, nothing sexual about it. i like thick thighs, ass and boobs. can be thick but not bad

[Asker]

Thank you for the clarification :)

[Nerdvana]

Curvy. Somewhat fit, but mostly curvy

[tazman2908]

me personally i like curvy girls always have

[Heemus_Christ]

I like women

[Asker]

Nice!
I like humans :)

[Heemus_Christ]

lit.

[Kolya]

fit and skinny...

[GoldCobra]

How about one with a beautiful face

[Asker]

I totally agree!
However, face is mostly genetics (and a bit makeup maybe) while body shape is something one can influence more. I always found it more practical tp focus on things I can change than on things I can't. Hence this question.

[capturemyheartnow]

I like chubby girls.

[Hogwartsstudent]

Chubby curvy girls

[dsrice]

Fit would be the choice for me.

[Mr_Peters]

Curvy.

[Anonymous]

fit ones