i think not! overweight people need to get their ass in shape! I might be a jerk but if someones not then whos gonna get these people to see themselves as hazardous. not to other people but to themselves. bein overweight is prob more dangerous than smokin because people say not to smoke but they don't tell the other person to quit eatin and start excersizin!
No you are not turning into an arsehole. Your reaction is quite understandable but you can turn it into an attitude for good.
Try thinking back to the excuses you must have made when you were fat and how you had the strength to begin your weight loss. Turn your thoughts into understanding the wining and winging of the overweight and then think of ways in which you can help or advise the overweight. This will make you feel good about yourself.
No not at all. You understand where they are comming from when they complain, but from you being there at a point can make you seem annoyed at it, now that you have over came what they think they can't. Even if you do see overweight people in a diffrnt way, a thing that might make you seem less of a jerk is if you tell them what you did to change. Any posstivity can help anyone. (:
No, because the people you see day to day that are overweight remind you of who you used to be. I know a guy right now who is a lot like I used to be and it makes me sick, because he just won't dare stand up for himself, and just takes a lot of abuse from people, and I don't consider myself an ahole or anything, I just hate seeing people being treated as such.
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I think you are transferring how you felt about yourself when you were overweight onto them. Remember, you were once in their shoes. You weren't always 100 pounds lighter. Maybe another person who used to be obese lost a lot of weight and then looked down on you in disdain before you lost your weight.
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I think it's a normal reaction but you also realise fat people a lot more because you used to be one, I know where you are coming from I used to be a bit overweight but now I have lost that and when I see fat people and when I hear them complain it makes me want to punch them I have no tolerance for it and yes it makes me a bitch but tough luck
No your not, your thinking logically now. I have never been fat, but I can't stand people that complain about their bodies, because what their really complaining about is actually owning up to the fact that they solely put themselves in that conditon, and that it will take hard work getting out of it.
No your just living breathing proof that their excuses they make are worthless since you did lose the weight! :) It reminds you of what life used to be like 4 you ur not a jerk its only human to feel that way
I think that you should try to help them. They may just need the encouragement because you're right if you can do it why can't they? I'm sure they feel as if it's hopeless...maybe you can give them hope?
That would be a trip lol.He had the same thing going on for him, he was heavy dude his whole life untill this summer when I visited him after 9 years.It's crazy becuase he is a nice guy but girls always say he is a jerk, but I don't se it it him and probly never will.Maybe women want that jerk guy who know
No, you chose to change your life style, you took charge of your wait, so it's natural to get annoyed when some one else who is heavy set complains about it but dose nothing.
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i think not! overweight people need to get their ass in shape! I might be a jerk but if someones not then whos gonna get these people to see themselves as hazardous. not to other people but to themselves. bein overweight is prob more dangerous than smokin because people say not to smoke but they don't tell the other person to quit eatin and start excersizin!
No you are not turning into an arsehole. Your reaction is quite understandable but you can turn it into an attitude for good.
Try thinking back to the excuses you must have made when you were fat and how you had the strength to begin your weight loss. Turn your thoughts into understanding the wining and winging of the overweight and then think of ways in which you can help or advise the overweight. This will make you feel good about yourself.
Congratulations on your success.
No not at all. You understand where they are comming from when they complain, but from you being there at a point can make you seem annoyed at it, now that you have over came what they think they can't. Even if you do see overweight people in a diffrnt way, a thing that might make you seem less of a jerk is if you tell them what you did to change. Any posstivity can help anyone. (:
No, because the people you see day to day that are overweight remind you of who you used to be. I know a guy right now who is a lot like I used to be and it makes me sick, because he just won't dare stand up for himself, and just takes a lot of abuse from people, and I don't consider myself an ahole or anything, I just hate seeing people being treated as such.
I think you are transferring how you felt about yourself when you were overweight onto them. Remember, you were once in their shoes. You weren't always 100 pounds lighter. Maybe another person who used to be obese lost a lot of weight and then looked down on you in disdain before you lost your weight.
I think it's a normal reaction but you also realise fat people a lot more because you used to be one, I know where you are coming from I used to be a bit overweight but now I have lost that and when I see fat people and when I hear them complain it makes me want to punch them I have no tolerance for it and yes it makes me a bitch but tough luck
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No your not, your thinking logically now. I have never been fat, but I can't stand people that complain about their bodies, because what their really complaining about is actually owning up to the fact that they solely put themselves in that conditon, and that it will take hard work getting out of it.
No your just living breathing proof that their excuses they make are worthless since you did lose the weight! :) It reminds you of what life used to be like 4 you ur not a jerk its only human to feel that way
I think that you should try to help them. They may just need the encouragement because you're right if you can do it why can't they? I'm sure they feel as if it's hopeless...maybe you can give them hope?
Nope... ur seeing how the other side thinks... Nothing wrong with you. Just don't forget where you came from...
I think its pretty hypocritical yes...and kind of jerkish.
honestly I don't think you being an asshole.
but more of that you have bettered your self
so much you feel you as just better then others
your just having a big head about things
just think how others feel that wish they were
in your place.
This sounds like my cusin jonny
I can assure you I'm not your cousin jonny.
I was thinking the same thing. He totally sounds like your cousin.
That would be a trip lol.He had the same thing going on for him, he was heavy dude his whole life untill this summer when I visited him after 9 years.It's crazy becuase he is a nice guy but girls always say he is a jerk, but I don't se it it him and probly never will.Maybe women want that jerk guy who know
No, you chose to change your life style, you took charge of your wait, so it's natural to get annoyed when some one else who is heavy set complains about it but dose nothing.