Should I meet this girl I met online or not? HELP?

[detroitcaliboy5]

So I met this girl in my area on facebook that wants me to come over to her house and talk and see if we hit it off. NO SEX GUARANTEED. we are both virgins and she's 20 and I can tell is real because of her facebook and I've been texting her.

Anyways I'm a virgin and I get crap for it all the time by my friends, and I'm afraid if I go over to her place and get head or something like that my friends could find out that I hooked up with a girl who's kinda overweight. I'd get ripped on if I ever let it out that I got my first bj, because then they'd want to know from who?

What do you think? any advice about me going over to her place for coffee and seeing what happens? How should I handle all of this?

she already said she would meet me in public

IM sick of not getting any action ever...and I try

i know she's real cause she's friends with some I don't kno at my school...they graduated together

[hkygirl]

personally, I wouldn't. I don't trust things online, hell I don't trust anyone XD but, honestly, the thing I don't trust the most is internet. too many people set up fake profiles, have people talk for them, post up editted or fake pictures, and I just don't trust that.to get a BJ or have sex because your friends are making fun of you is a stupid reason. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18. it was the month before I graduated high school. I knew who I was going to lose it to and I waited for a good year and a half or 2yrs for him (long distance relationship) and we ended up engaged. well, I took people making fun of me for AWHILE because I was a virgin and it sucked but I'd do it all over again because it was COMPLETELY worth it. luckily, I was a little hellion that snuck out at night and would go to parties (yea I was a dumbass) that took a little attention off of the fact that I was a virgin. people, honestly, didn't believe I was but when they found out it sucked to be me. if your friends are making fun of you because you haven't found someone you trust with something THAT personal, then you need to find new friends:\ after I lost my virginity, I started hearing about how they hated the way they lost it. I NEVER knew they hated the way they lost their virginity. one of my friends lost it because she wanted to make her exboyfriend jealous. sh*tty right? once you lose it, that's it. there's no undoing it. I knew with my luck I'd get pregnant my first time (I didn't) and who wants to get knocked up in high school all because their friends were making fun of them? I didn't want to end up "stuck" with someone strictly because being a virgin is socially unacceptable now.

[Kizza]

meet her :)

if you want a bj, get one. you don't HAVE to tell anyone

but if you don't want a bj, don't worry :)

same goes with anything else, (bj, hj, sex, etc etc)

u don't HAVE to do any of it, unless you want to :)

not all girls always think about sex (or sex related stuff) all the time

so go over there, and just chill :)

[Chamita]

If you're worried about what people will think, or how you'll get ripped on because she's overweight, you're not mature enough to be getting involed with anyone sexually.

[toulouse]

So you dint want to fool around because your friends will know she's overweight?

I think you got problems, beyond getting head,

[Anonymous]

You're worried about what your friends think and you just called this girl overweight. Don't even bother going. Try growing up first.