you are NOT FAT! in high school I was 5'3 185 pounds. no guys gave me the time of day. then I lost weight... I was 5'3 130 pounds... I had guys knocking down my door to ask me out. I always thought I was so fat because of the image I had in myself that I distorted to. well, after I was depressed about a boy and broke my ankle and tibia I couldn't walk for over a year and now I am 5'3 and 227 pounds. I hate myself. no guys look at me, and I feel so ugly. I am just now starting to work out and get back into shape after my accident. and now I look back at the pictures I took when I was "skinny" but I never thought I was.. and I look at them saying to myself."omg I was so skinny and I thought I was so fat' and really.. id give anything to be that weight again, it was the best time of my life. enjoy it.. don't worry about it. its hard for us, because it really affect our confidence because we are always the "fat" girls.. but just have confidence in yourself, and think highly of yourself and let that shine through and then weight won't matter to them at your size. xo
for some. I think its cultural too. like white guys like smaller girls than black guys generally.
my ex was into really thin chicks and I'm curvy. he went out with me for my personality but we had issues with him not liking my big butt and asking me to lose weight. I was like um you're sweet but this is how nature made me. I'm not going to starve myself so I can look a way that isn't even attractive to me. so we broke up over that essentially. lol some guys care, others dont. some guys have a specific type, others dont.
Yes. Weight is a factor for me and most men I know. We all have different standards, though. I actually know a guy who purposely goes out and has sex with bigger women because he feels sorry they aren't getting as much love and he takes it upon himself to satisfy their hunger. I, however, expect a different standard. I agree there is more to a person than their looks but I consider it a serious character flaw if they don't have the discipline to keep themselves in relative healthy shape by either working out or maintaining a healthy diet. That being said, 5'3 and 136 would be a little overweight for my personal preference. But I also factor in how they present themselves. If you always smell nice, your hair is clean, soft and flowing with loose curls and your makeup and clothing are both tasteful and appropriate I will almost always give an opportunity for personality to win me over.
If a guy is attracted to a girl they are attracted to their whole. What I mean by this is that an attractive curvy girl is more attractive than an unattractive skinny girl just based on the fact that they are attractive. What kind of shape a girl is in is a factor when guys decide how attractive she is and it will factor in. I don't find myself thinking a girl is attractive but she is a bit heavier so I don't like her. It doesn't make sense because obviously I wouldn't be attracted to her in the first place if her weight were so much of an issue. The same must go for girls as well right? The majority of guys girls find attractive won't be overweight but there may be some. The same goes for guys.
A little curvy is always OK and is usually preferred in my case but when it gets to the point when the girl is no longer attractive, weight would obviously be an issue.
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I think it depends on who you ask. I've dated a couple girls who weren't on the slim side and I loved them just the same. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
But the most important thing is being comfortable with yourself, and if your not CHANGE IT. If you think your overweight start a dieting and exercise program and stick to it.
personally I like both. I've dated both sides of spectrum. Of course the ONLY thing I am picky about when it comes to physical aspects are their eyes. She MUST have a beautiful pair of eyes to look into, everything else don't matter besides her personality of course, but then again, I am only one guy, millions could disagree with me aha
There are us guys who actually like a girl who has more curve and not so much the 'chicken leg' look. I have seen some girls who are a size 14 that were absolutely drop dead beautiful and VERY nicely built. It is obeseity that I would prefer to avoid. It isn't healthy either.
No, that's not that heay to me at all, just maybe a little extra meat on the curves like you said. THAT'S SEXY! And to myself & decent guys, no, weight is not that big of an issue, but girls came by their concern honestly. Society in geheral makes it seem like for a girl to gain 5 pounds is sonme crime, & that really sux! I've battled weight my whole life, and to me no amount of weight gain can make a beutiful person ugly...
I've dated a fair few girls on the curvy side, and as far as it goes, it's better to be with someone funny, smart, sensitive and overweight than a lunatic with a slender body any day. Ask how many guys would want to go out with Naomi Campbell and see the response you get.
Sweetheart, your (basic) BMI is 24.1
That's well within the "healthy" range.
If you are healthy, then there is NOTHING to worry about. If you feel like you're out of shape, then exercise more, but don't think you're overweight AT ALL at those numbers. And throw away the magazines that tell you otherwise. They are lying to you.
Total Dealbreaker! I prefer skin and bones! She can't be able to fight her way out of a wet paper bag, and struggle to death opening jars.
You must be the minority. I pity the curvy women, have they any hope?
Weight means nothing to me. Truthfully I think girls with a little weight on them are more attractive than one who are skinny, but I have dated both. To me a girls personality is the most important thing.
Yes, weight does matter. Pics help show more than just a number. My last ex was only 5 foot though she was about your weight. She has a beautiful chest but relatively no butt. You might be a bit skinnier than I go for.
I don't think most guys care in the slightest how much you weigh, so long as you look good doing it. My ex was 5'6 and about 135-140, and I thought she looked fantastic.
I don't find too much extra weight attractive, a little bit is okay, possibly even sexy lol.
Girls take it too far sometimes though. Weight isn't a huge issue as long as you look healthy.
yes it matters! you aren't bad but slim down and guys will be all over you. try to get to 125 at the most
lol we are to samei'm just shorter... but no matter how curvy you are hon.. show it off.. like I said real women have curve
I am 5'2 & about 123 & somehow I could never reach 127(minimum weight 4 my height 2 be able 2 give blood :( ...) As a female I think curvy women with small waist are sexy & extremely attractive as oppose to a really skinny woman. I think most guys can't accurately match a weight to a girl just by looking at her. Hmm how much do you think kim kardashian weigh? If she's really 5'2 like me I would guess she's about 130 since she has a bigger ass than me.Guys have guessed that I am about 100-110.
lol you weight just fine for your height...put on some skin tight cloths and rock it
You alright. Curvy is a good thing. Don't want bones for a girl lol.
No not at all , there's more to girls than just looks . If a guy judges you as a whole based on your looks he is indeed a dumbass .
yes, weight does matter as much as women tend to think that it does
Thats not too bad if properly proprotioned. Now 5-3 and 236 would not work for me.
I'm 105 and weight matters a lot to me
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