Not sure myself, but let's just go with some sort of subconscious belief, as that seems to fit the bill. I wouldn't say I find hugs undesirable its just...(can't think of the right word now)
I am much taller than most people. So I often get hugs around my waist. So sometimes I have to go out of my way to get down on my knees to hug people so I can put my arms around them, and my head on their shoulders, also to squeeze them close to me.
@EABsTUQ Yes! Lack of affections, made emotionally numb to other emotional needs and broken in a way, that I fail to express myself or my emotions, and my affection towards someone.. I am too much guarded emotionally and have failed to emotionally get involve with anyone till this date.. Basically emotional dis-function
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Every year I got a handshake from mom on my birthday
Yes but I did not look forward to it due to why it was happening in the first place.
I've only been hugged if my dad did something wrong which made me upset or mad
I hated it I don't like it, even now it's just a thing that's reserved for a few lady's I've been comfy with
⚫Nope I think I was not that much hugged a lot, so that is why the beast of hugging in me is now on rampage.
I have been kissed more than hugged. Even when I was hugged, it didn’t feel genuine but forced. .
My therapist says I may have suffered from emotionally distant parents. Interesting to discuss.
I don't remember much, but my mom and grandma kissed me a lot more than they hugged me.
Momma boy
@anni_jane: Not really. But I do love my mother.
Awwwn... that's so sweet
A lot but thinking about it now, they weren't really genuine.
Nope. From my father I remember it happened only once 🤔
Probably not but I've never been a hugger either, my twin is but I'm just not.
Why not? What beliefs you have make it undesirable? Subconscious beliefs
Not sure myself, but let's just go with some sort of subconscious belief, as that seems to fit the bill. I wouldn't say I find hugs undesirable its just...(can't think of the right word now)
Nope. My parents avoided me most of the time
I'm sorry.
Ah don't be.. It was a long time ago. Since than I've learnt valuable lessons in life, and honestly.. Im glad I did.
Not even once after age 7 or before age 5
Yeah when I was little
Yup.
Lots of hugs, kisses, & affection 🥰
During the holidays, that’s it.
Not even close. That's why I want it so much now.
I am much taller than most people. So I often get hugs around my waist. So sometimes I have to go out of my way to get down on my knees to hug people so I can put my arms around them, and my head on their shoulders, also to squeeze them close to me.
I was hardly ever hugged.
Do you think that has altered your life or personality in some way?
@EABsTUQ Yes! Lack of affections, made emotionally numb to other emotional needs and broken in a way, that I fail to express myself or my emotions, and my affection towards someone..
I am too much guarded emotionally and have failed to emotionally get involve with anyone till this date..
Basically emotional dis-function
Nope I wasn't I missed it a lot
Probably. I recall too many hugs.