Stick it out or say goodbye?

[Anonymous]

I currently have a nice boyfriend right now. We have been together for about 3 months and no fights or disagreements. Like I said, he is very nice. However, his personality has seemed to of gotten stranger as time has passed. He literally has no friends. When I went out of town, he went to see a movie by himself. Then, he does odd stuff like working out to the point where he is really sweaty, laid down on the concrete, took a pic of the sweat print & uploaded it on FB. This was the highlight of his weekend I think. Also, I am lucky is he brushes his teeth once a day. He is nearly 27, I shouldn't have to tell him that his yellow teeth are gross. But, I kinda have (in a nice way, I swear). I just don't know what to do. I feel like I want to spend less and less time with him. Are these reasons to break up?

[Droosilla]

Sounds like you're nitpicking, but most likely because you really aren't interested in him anymore. He's just nice and you never have disagreements... i.e. boredom? His personality hasn't gotten stranger, you're just actually seeing him for who he is rather than what you want because you wanted to be with him. None of the reasons you listed are deal breakers, other than the teeth brushing, which can be fixed.

I can't answer if these are reasons to break up, because deal breakers are a personal thing.

Maybe ask yourself what do you LIKE about him? What made you start dating him in the beginning? Stop focusing fully on the flaws.

[SuperCurious]

If you want to change the person you are with after only 3 months then I think that he may not be the right guy for you...and if you wanna spend less time with him then definately break up, a happy relationship is never being able to get enough of that person..

[SuperCurious]

:)

[Anonymous]

SOUNDS LIKE HES COMFORTABLE WITH HIS SELF AND THE FACEBOOK PHOTO SOUNDS KINDA WEIRD AND TELL HIM YOU DON'T LIKE HIS HYGIENE OUT TAKE AND TO BRUSH HIS TEETH CUZZ THATS VERY GROSS WHO WANTS TO KISS A YUKMOUTH IF YOU FEEL HE PURFECT STICK IT OUT AND ITS ONLY BEEN THREE MONTHS WHEN YOU ACUALLY FIND EVIDENCE OF FOUL PLAY THEN YOU SHOULD JUST LET HIM GO BUT DONT GO SEARCHING FOR IT AND I HOPE YOUR GUY SHOWERS ON A DAILY BASIS CUZZ IF NOT I WOULD GET RID OF HIM THAT DOWN RIGHT NASTY SO GOODLUCK ON YOU RELATIONSHIP AND HOPE ALL GOES WELL

[sedwar3]

Yes these are reasons to breakup. Honestly, they are very good reasons to break up. You have less and less respect for him. The number one thing men need from a relationship is respect. There's really no good way that this can end.

[italykam]

If it's just how he is and you are not liking who he is...end it. You shouldn't hafta pretend you like someone if you know there is nothing there.

[WaleedHassanien]

yup

[Anonymous]

Without judging him, yeah they are good reasong because simply you're not feeling comfortable. but break up nice because he seems like a good man.

[Kendrasmama]

If you want to spend less time with him, try it. If it's not what you want then stay with him. If you can live without him, then he isn't the one. Look at pros an cons. Is there more good than bad?