Should I take him being busy so personally?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend is crazy busy right now with exams, sports etc. we have barley had any time together lately. Between all of his commitments lately, he has no time. He barely has time to text me. I have been very supportive and have just let him do his thing. I've been OK with it, but the last day or so, I can't help feel like I am getting blown off. My head knows he is busy, but my heart misses him. I don't want to add more stress to him, so is it best that I just sit back and let him get through what he is going through?

[italykam]

Just as long as he is busywith school and sports and that's it. But You do need to be able to get some time with him. Well exams should be done soon, so that should free up some of his time real soon! I hope it all works out for you. But yes, a little understanding is important. Let him know you support him with what he is doing, but give him the needed space he must have to study or practice.

[Asker]

thank you :) I have done all of the above. I still havnt seen him much though. His busy time is over, so time will tell! Thank you

[italykam]

Awww well I hope it all ends up alright for ya anyway.

[TyroneJayJackson]

Space is good but too much space can turn bad, Make it feel there's no love, And end up with someone cheating. Don't let there be too much space. If needs be just make 5 or 10 minutes between you where he can talk to you. I mean, What's more important; You, Or his sports? Can't he take 10 minutes to ask you how you are and let you know that he loves you?

[Asker]

thank you:) I agree with you. And no lately, he can't take 10 minutes. The time spent apart is starting to affect how I feel for him. This has been an issue for a while. He was not this way for the first few months we dated. It has changed over the last 2-3 months. He is less considerste and more moody and hangs with his old crowd a lot. I've talked with him about it, and he panicks and says he can't live without me, then it goes right back to him being way to busy:(

[TyroneJayJackson]

If you asked me he should share the time he has with his crew, With the time he has with you. That way he gets his own time and you get your own time and you both get time together and the relationship works out.