if u ever forgive ur bully then ur the type of person who will continue to get bullied all through out ur life for jus being a pushover.., hell no u dont forgive an ashshole, wtf?
I disagree. I was bullied in high school and I do forgive them. I was strong minded when I was bullied and did not feed into them. I forgive but that does not mean I will sit down with them at a party and party with them.
It takes maturity and confidence to forgive somebody to have done you wrong. You don't have to forget what happened but if you want to and what you should do is forgive them for they do not know what they have done to you. To you it may seem like they do but as they get older and as they age they're really going to regret what they did to you. I know in your text you seem to be hurt by what they have done to you or that person. You hang it on to that anger for so long is hurting you it's not hurting them cuz they're on with their lives and you're still thinking about the past still living in the past is still in the present the present is called a gift for a reason
@Ammi_goldie806 agreed. Stooping to your Bully’s level is just as bad. I gained closure of the dark times of my life from forgiving those who have done me wrong.
@Kyleelyn199723 yeah I learned that as I aged when I was in elementary school because I really terribly and elementary School but all the bullying did was tear me down and build a whole different person made me stronger better made me voice my opinions more and I would really like to give my bully a hug for tearing me down and building a whole different person that I didn't know I had and all of this changing was going on in elementary school in elementary school not Middle School not high school not even college I learned this as a very early age and I'm glad I learned it so early because it would be very hard for me to let things go now do what I used to do.
@kyleelyn199723 if someone is ever a bully that means they are an asshole for life... and u dont forgive asssholes... unless they made a change n became caring all of a sudden.. but with a bully that dont usually happen... once heartless.. always heartles. s.. u dont forgive psychopaths
but if u think forgiving people who deserve to be forgiven makes u a good person... go ahead n think that, i jus totally disagree.. nothing to do with maturity..
I was bullied but I let it happen. When I wanted it to stop, I knocked the kid out and ended it. I don’t have to get an apology; I made them regret it without one.
Yeah i have been bullied by both boys and girls in school.. I grew up watching them be low life dead beats.. Never forgave them, but took satisfaction at the fact that they are all low value worthless adults..
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I was bullied for years for being poor and actually wanting to learn. I developed a bias against men from it.
Though my self esteem was never an issue for me, I'm still angry and bitter from it... but not as much as I was in the past.
I'm sorry man that's hard
It's okay. My life is pretty good now :)
Well that's good about it but did u move on
I suppose that depends on what your definition of moving on is.
You're never affected or any emotions that can provoke no more
Oh no. I'm not easily goaded, but I still have trouble forming relationships with men as a whole despite having a few good guy friends.
Oh I understand shi girls bullies me too and now I don't have girl friends sucks
I hope you don't let that stop you from making friends in the future.
Forgive them, holding a grudge only hurts you. Forgiving does not mean forgetting.
Yes That's why I want to forgive so I can move on doesn't mean they deserve it
You can do it
You are beautiful.
Don't let any tell you otherwise.
Thank you ☺️
if u ever forgive ur bully then ur the type of person who will continue to get bullied all through out ur life for jus being a pushover.., hell no u dont forgive an ashshole, wtf?
would u also forgive someone who killed ur mum?
I disagree. I was bullied in high school and I do forgive them. I was strong minded when I was bullied and did not feed into them. I forgive but that does not mean I will sit down with them at a party and party with them.
It takes maturity and confidence to forgive somebody to have done you wrong. You don't have to forget what happened but if you want to and what you should do is forgive them for they do not know what they have done to you. To you it may seem like they do but as they get older and as they age they're really going to regret what they did to you. I know in your text you seem to be hurt by what they have done to you or that person. You hang it on to that anger for so long is hurting you it's not hurting them cuz they're on with their lives and you're still thinking about the past still living in the past is still in the present the present is called a gift for a reason
@Ammi_goldie806 agreed. Stooping to your Bully’s level is just as bad. I gained closure of the dark times of my life from forgiving those who have done me wrong.
@Kyleelyn199723 yeah I learned that as I aged when I was in elementary school because I really terribly and elementary School but all the bullying did was tear me down and build a whole different person made me stronger better made me voice my opinions more and I would really like to give my bully a hug for tearing me down and building a whole different person that I didn't know I had and all of this changing was going on in elementary school in elementary school not Middle School not high school not even college I learned this as a very early age and I'm glad I learned it so early because it would be very hard for me to let things go now do what I used to do.
@kyleelyn199723 if someone is ever a bully that means they are an asshole for life... and u dont forgive asssholes... unless they made a change n became caring all of a sudden.. but with a bully that dont usually happen... once heartless.. always heartles. s.. u dont forgive psychopaths
but if u think forgiving people who deserve to be forgiven makes u a good person... go ahead n think that, i jus totally disagree.. nothing to do with maturity..
people who dont deserve i mean
They may be assholes for life, but I couldn’t move on from my past without doing lots of forgiving
I never said it made me look like the good person here. I am the victim in this situation and it gives me a sense to move forward in life.
I was bullied in hoghschool. By my childhood best friend who was jealous of me. I forgive them but I also do forget them
I was bullied but I let it happen. When I wanted it to stop, I knocked the kid out and ended it. I don’t have to get an apology; I made them regret it without one.
Fuck that. Focus. your energy on yourself and the hell with them.
Voted best answer of the day!
Yeah i have been bullied by both boys and girls in school.. I grew up watching them be low life dead beats.. Never forgave them, but took satisfaction at the fact that they are all low value worthless adults..
Mostly forgave the bullies. Not the people who tortured me. Plus there's no statute of limitation on torture and I haven't pressed charges yet.
Yes... I’ll Never forgive anyone for bullying...
Fact- They’ll never be sorry that they’ve bullied you...
Not bullied I was tried but since I started swinging On him he backed off
I have been bullied before for long time. I never forgave them to their face. I forgave them though and forgave myself inturn
I used to because I had huge boobs in jr high and in high school.
Yes I have, and honestly it was 10-15 years ago. I forgive them lol.
Yeah. And no, I don’t usually forgive anything worse than a minor slight.
Everyone has been picked on before but not everybody has been bullied before if that makes sense.
In order to be bullied, you would have to care about what stupid people say about you. Sure you can forgive them - by just ignoring them.
My brother bullied me growing up. I got bullied at school, but I ignored them and they stopped
Yes in past, now I don't even care about it
Update - same here, proud of you
Aww thank you 😊
I've never been bullied I was always the biggest one
Well good for you
Thanks