I have an ugly face ... should I even care about my body?

[Anonymous]

All taking care of my body does is attract more men for casual sex/friends with benefits. With an ugly face, you cannot improve your dating success -- you'll always be a kind of runner-up. Should I ever care about my body anymore or just eat what I want because the only guys I will get will be desperate anyway?

[rocksongwriter]

Is there really a such thing as an ugly face? Isn't it subjective? I'm seen/heard people call Sarah Jessica Parker, Jennifer Aniston, Claire Danes, & Scarlett Johansson ugly, yet a lot of people think they're hot, so I think it's up to the eye of the beholder.

[abra_b]

Yes ... Is it subjective by how far up the "ladder" a guy can get? Perhaps...

[rocksongwriter]

Hmmm...?

[Asker]

I wonder that too?

[rocksongwriter]

I think she's saying that a guy will think a girl is hot if he can score with her.

[Asker]

I mean, a guy only settles for the less hot woman because he CAN'T get with the better ones.

[christian2724]

Link a picture.

YES, you should care about your body. If you think you have no chance with an ugly face... imagine if you had an ugly face AND an ugly body...

[beerY33]

What? Of course you should! You should take care of your body for yourself, not guys.

[Asker]

I can be healthy and weigh 10-15 lbs more than what would suit a guy's visual desires.

[beerY33]

sure, so weigh whatever you're happy with.

[abra_b]

Well, how bad do you think the guys will get if you let yourself get fat too?

[advicegiver]

You should care about your health. A better-looking body is usually a sign of health.

[Anonymous]

of course. you weren't given a cute face, so try to make your other features more attractive

[Shaun]

trolololol

[Shaun]

10 or 15 lbs will probably make you MORE appealing to the average male. Men generally like more meat than women think they like.