Obese but people tell me I look skinny?

[Anonymous]

I'm a female 5'10 I weigh 205lbs... when I look at myself naked in the mirror I can fully tell that I'm obese & that I could definitely lose 40lbs... I've lost & gained about 15lbs in the last 2 years... but after I lost those 15lbs again... people around me started telling me I should lose too much weight because I'll look too skinny.. & even my friends say that I look small.. but I mean I have obvious rolls & fat.. so I never understand why people tell me I look so skinny when I'm statistically & in my opinion literally look on the verge of being obese.

[Honesttguy]

I dont know if its some trolling, but here question i would ask to bring your attention to.
1. Are those people fat/obese themselves?
Cus i can't imagine fit athletic people saying stuff like "ooh dont lose too much fat u will look skinny."
My obese mother used to comment on how skinny i looked my whole life, but it comes from her own insecurities about her weight it has nothing to do with me.
Friends simple, when i stoped drinking alcohol my friends would comment about it as well, saying weirdest stuff. Its what people do cus they feel like losing u.
If u have obese friends and people around u, so as long as u are obese u fit right in. When u start losing weight and become "too skinny" u no longer fit into their group, they might even start hating u for looking better now, and call u attention seeker or selfish. Its all manipulation games so they can feel better about themselves wich is actually selfish thing, real friends would say wow u losing weight good job girl keep going.
I hope this clears things up a bit.

[FreyaRed]

Of course they are being sarcastic when they tell you're skinny.

[In_Trance]

So what's your question?