I had braces when I was 16 basically a minor. He stayed quiet when I asked if he just thought i looked cute with braces on because I was skinnier why did he stay quiet? I have no idea what his ideal body type is. Ever since I started college it’s like everything has gone downhill including my weight I don’t know how to lose weight anymore and I haven’t been able to get a job that’s not factory or warehouse related. Ever since I turned 18 reality hit me in the face, working this labor jobs, having financial issues, everything. And my weight is really bad I am approximately 77kg and I used to be 55-56 kg when I was 16 I’ve really been struggling everything has been going downhill :( I don’t want to keep gaining weight but I’ve been too depressed to exercise.
My boyfriend told me that I should go back to braces and I asked him if he just saying that because I was skinnier back then and he stayed quiet?
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by the way I am like 5’2 with a curvy/ chunky body
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It’s unrealistic to stay the same weight that you were as a young teen. You don’t have a young teenagers body anymore. It’s very normal to gain weight as you get closer to your 20’s.
I was on birth control, stopped (still gained weight), and now I decided to go back on it again because my boyfriend was complaining about condoms. Please pray for me 😭
Yeah but I even ate only once a day while working at a factory and my weight didn’t even budge
I kinda want you to leave your boyfriend because the person you’re with shouldn’t shame any version of you.
He’s not shaming me he tells me that I’m pretty every time that he sees me. I know that he probably thinks that I’m fat but he doesn’t say that to me. In reality I don’t even know if I’m his type. Everyone that he has dated has been white except for me, I have more curves, and completely different features and none of them even had brown eyes.
Okay but if you are fat so what? Does he have a problem with it? I don’t think he should
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