I don’t want to come off as shallow cause I really want it to be a little bigger. Mainly cause When she sits in my lap she slides off and it hurts because the bones jab into me. It can be hard to cuddle as her back is wide and she is very upside down pear shaped. When I try to cuddle sometimes my pelvis lines up on her back and it makes me feel disconnected. For reference she is 23.
Just as @_Maya_ states, you simply don't ask a person to do something that is perhaps against her wish just because once in a blue moon she sits on your lap and it hurts you. I have never heard of such a silly request.
Basically, you want her to live unhealthy, to put on weight so that her buttock gets bigger. Once you are fed up of her, she will have to fight with that extra weight just because you wanted a "softer bum" that does not hurt you for those 2-3 minutes every once a month.
You will come off as shallow, believe me!
Well, you can ask, but remember... we don't always get what we want
u You don't ask her to do that. Adding fat which is the only way she is really going to get a bigger behind is not healthy. We spend hours and hours a week working out just to keep fat off. Unless she is open to unnecessary surgery then there really isn't a way to do it. She also my be offended at the suggestion and then become really self conscious about it. Just love her for who she is. Don't try to change her.
"hey, i'm a shallow piece of shit, it okay if we break up?" should work fine.
Why stay with her if you’re not happy with her body?
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