I had some questions about my boyfriend that died and talked to the Corner. Before we hung up she said "He is watching over you". How does she know?

[sage2021]

I think she was the Coroner that handled him when he came to the office where they do all the tests on the deceased people.
She had a tone in her voice like she knew who I was asking my questions about.
When she said he is watching over me, she said it like a matter of fact, like she knew.
Wouldn't a Coroner know something like that from experience?
She also agreed with me when I said deceased people can do things after they die; especially electrical things. I felt my blanket like he was tapping it the other night. She agreed again that they can do things like that.
What do you think?

[Finchie40]

Everyone experiences grieving in their own ways , there is no right or wrong answer as to why. She said that to you to help comfort you , to help you be at peace in your own life , letting you know he will always be a part of you, no matter what happens in your life going forward , he will always be a part of your memories and have a space in your heart Death is a very tragic thing when we lose a loved one , it changes our whole outlook on life at times , especially if that person impacted your life and brought you a lot of positive energy and happiness into your life , when they were here , I have lost a lot of great people through out my years in life, and each and every one of them impacted me in different ways. Again every one grieves differently , there is no right or wrong way to grieve about someone that mattered to your life. So hearing words , they are still looking over you is comforting words knowing they will always be a part of your life even though they are no longer here by your side on Earth. Whether to believe in religion or not that person will always have a special place inside your heart from all the memories you had together. Losing my Mom last year was the hardest death I ever experienced , I thought I would be ok but sadly I was wrong , losing my Mom has completely changed my whole outlook on life compared to all the other loved ones I have lost through the years. Not to sound disrespectful but sadly the only people that kind of know what I am going through are people that lost their parent as well. So again their is no right or wrong answer to what you are feeling and going through , There really isn’t any words someone can say to make you feel better , only you can make that happen. My advice is to focus on you and understand your boyfriend would want you to be happy and live the rest of your life as positive as you can.

[sage2021]

@Finchie40
Everything you said is true and thank you for taking your time to write this for me. I could feel your deep feelings as I was reading it.
There are certain programs on TV I cannot watch because we used to watch them together. Like the game Jeopardy that comes on. He was so good at that because he has so smart in so many ways. I used to wonder to myself how does he know all of that stuff. Amazing.

I did lose my Mom in 2007. But she had a really hard life and so I was glad when she finally got out of her struggle with living.
I also cannot listen to any music at all or I'll start crying.
Well, enough about me. Hope you are well. Thanks again for comforting me 💌

[Finchie40]

Yea those triggers and memories will always be a part of your life , don’t ever let someone tell you that you should be over it by now , that person has no clue what they are talking about and has no clue how much that loved one impacted your life. Only yourself can determine that , again everyone of us grieves in our own ways , and experiences feelings in our own ways. We can’t read each others’ minds and we can’t control each others’ feelings. Just know whatever you are feeling it’s ok , whether you want to cry or you want to laugh out loud , whether you are angry or upset , it’s your feelings , nobody else’s , but if choose to make it someone else’s problem then that’s where you crossed a line , some people like to take their feelings and emotions out on other people, like it was there fault for what you are experiencing and sadly that is wrong for you to do , because you are making it someone else’s problem when it isn’t their problem , All we can do as people is give each other advice but we can’t control anyone else’s actions or decisions, if someone chooses to comfort us or care for us that is their decision and choice but if someone chooses to walk away , that is their decision and choice as well. The truth of reality is we are all alone , we can only do what we feel is best for ourselves , we can only give to each other , hoping to receive the same in return , if you can’t give , you more than likely won’t receive , we all have a choice and suffer the consequences of our actions whether you want that person in your life or not it’s your choice. Someone that actually loves and cares about you will stand by your side no matter what , someone that doesn’t will not. Life in general is a journey , we all come from different paths in life , we all experience things differently , when we meet someone that has similar experiences then ourselves , we feel closer to that person because we feel they can actually understand what we are going through and feel

[Finchie40]

We can help each other out when times get tough. The older I got and the more I experienced in life , the more I realized who is important to me and who isn’t that important to me , I don’t hate anyone but I will remove myself from someone that is trying to bring misery into my life. Life is too short for negative energy , I only choose people that want to bring positivity energy into my life that want to see me smile that want to see me laugh , people that only want to bring misery into my life no longer matter to me , I don’t hate them I just choose to distance myself from them , Bless them , Change Me

[Likes2drive]

I think she was telling you what you wanted to hear, like basically humoring you, they deal with dead people all day long but they don’t usually talk to people about the deceased to often

[sage2021]

@Likes2drive
See, that's what I am thinking too, that they usually don't talk about it. It was the tone in her voice that struck me as odd. I know this sounds crazy, but it was like he was sending her a message from him, to me. Her voice was so assured, like a fact, like she knew it.
I don't know. I just keep hearing his voice saying "I'll never leave
you. Never ever never ever. I will always be here to protect you".

[Likes2drive]

You never know

[FunkyMonkee]

I think she was just saying it to comfort you.
I'm not sure what to think about such things. My ex-sister's house is haunted, that's for sure! And my ex-fiance saw one at her place 3 decades ago but, I've even ASKED my dead relatives for help, invited them to visit and got absolutely nothing!! The only oddity I've found, so far, is that I have a couple postcard type ads from the mail on the bottom of the steps next to the front door and, 3 times now, I've gone down to eat and found them slightly askew when, as far as I know, I never touched them after the last time I fixed them. Without any proof that it's me doing it (I usually come up with the lights out at night), I can't exactly get hyped up about it being something else unless it's a mouse. But, if it's a mouse, why does it only go up 2 steps and back down when I keep a loaf of bread on the 5th or 6th step which I feed to the bunnies in the yard? I KNOW they like bread, too, the little bastards have already ruined 3 or 4 loaves of bread on the 1st floor!! Last spring I started keeping a loaf on the glider under the cover on it so I wouldn't have to keep taking it out for the bunnies every day and the mice got up there and ate some of the bread, too!!

[Anonymous]

If you want comfort seek truth in the scriptures of the Bible. What people like the coroner speak is often New age stuff. Once you discover the truth of what happens when you, only then will you feel true peace.

[exitseven]

maybe dealing with dead people for years makes you a little weird. I think there are things that we cannot detect with our senses but I don't think they are the souls of the dead,

[Juxtapose]

The burden of proof required to prove your claims is so enormous I don't think you really grasp it.

[laly520]

its a phrase they always say

[In_Trance]

She doesn't know

[sage2021]

@In_Trance
How do you know she doesn't know?

[In_Trance]

The same way you're not sure if she does or not