Why was my boyfriend searchlng lingerie for someone else ?

[Anonymous]

I looked through my boyfriends search history and I saw Detroit Lions lingerie . I do not like football at all ! We have been together 4.5 years and this is about all I can take. He told me he was watching football and liked the cheerleaders so he googled lingerie for the team. I feel like he's trying to play me for a fool. I love him but I think I may have to end this. Is he cheating ?

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+1 y

I would believe that except for the fact that the whole 4 years we've been together he has never bought me lingerie, I always have. He also knows that I hate football.

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We've had issues in the past guys and girls..too much to write. I've caught him flirting a couple times and I did catch him emailing some chick whom I've never heard of before.

[DanAG]

You are reading waaaaay too much into this. He searched lingerie, so what? What makes you think he was even planning on buying lingerie?

You are way too suspicious and you are spying on him. Those are both bad qualities. There is absolutely nothing in what you've said to raise any kind of suspicion.

He emailed a chick you've never heard of? So what?

Loosen up the reins a little and stop being so possessive and suspicious. He has a heck of a lot more to complain about than you do.

[xpertadvice]

relax..he is not cheating .. no guy would hold on to a 4.5 year old relation unless he is serious about it..

besides would you give up on such a nice guy ? I believe you and year boyfriend are meant to be together ... so don't worry he is not cheating on you ..

he may be hiding something but no he is not cheating.

[crystallinegreen]

Sounds like he was just absent-mindedly clicking through a train of thought and ended up there. I wouldn't worry about it - certainly I don't think it's a good basis for assuming he's cheated on you - unless you count the brief yet steamy affair he had with a Detroit Lions underwear model in his imagination. Try to practice trust and allow him his privacy, it will make your relationship stronger.

[TwinkleTwilight]

i wouldn't comsume aything as there is not enough, to me it seems that maybe he was going to buy it b.c its his thing to see you wear it, but now you ruined the surprise. Don't leave him after something like this its not like he was messaging some one... hang in there keep us posted!

[TwinkleTwilight]

can you friend me and send me a message explaining some things we can talk !

[Racez]

He's not cheating. I think he's looking for the lingerie to buy them and make you wear it.

The cheerleaders are all very attractive and the lingerie fits them perfectly, and I think he just wants to see it "live" in front of his eyes by making you wear them.

[raineydaygurl]

i agree with this you are way overreacting in my opinion. he just wants to see you in it

[ArabianPwincess197]

I don't think he's cheating on you but its your subconscious mind making you read too much into the situation because you feel he is hiding something. Leave what's in the past in the past because it will only cause more quarrels. Most importantly you should try to build some trust since, that's what is lacking in the relation [but that's just my opinion]. Though lack of trust can lead to a lot of misunderstandings!

[vmw2008]

I don't think it was for anyone else that he knows in person. He might have been trying to find pictures of women wearing that lingerie online to look at (kind of like p*rn), or buying it for you.

[vmw2008]

Then why are you stil with him? If there's no trust there's no relationship. Even if the lingerie wasn't for another girl, you're so suspicious of him that I think you should break it off regardless. Find a guy who won't break your trust so badly.

[kambo_trick3y]

Maybe he was buying lingerie for himself, I know I do from time to time.