Is a little weight gain a deal breaker?

[Rolyat1117]

So I've gained about 20 pounds in college. I played 2 sports on high school and had the best body. I modeled half naked for a spring break billboard my senior year of college. Guys used to stare. But now that I've been out of sports for 2 years... I've gained a little weight. It's noticeable, but I don't think I look unattractive. My boobs are now huge but my thighs are now bigger and stomach is not so flat. I'm changing my eating habits and working out to tone back up but it will take a few months. I'll have my body back by summer. I still get hit on, but it's not the same. In the mean time, is that a deal breaker?

[Anonymous]

Probably depends on how fat you are, and if you're really pretty. If you used to have a model body, and you've gained 20 pounds then you can't be that big. You're probably still an average weight, and not likely overweight. I'm thinking a model body would be between 100 and 120 pounds, which only put you at 140 at the most.

[prophecy]

you wouldn't gain a POUND under my watch.

when I give once in a lifetime opportunity to a woman to be with me I expect from her to show appreciation by staying fit.

it's not only a deal breaker, it's disrespectful.

[Rolyat1117]

That's quite uncalled for. I'm not currently in a relationship therefore I have no one to "disrespect" as you call it. I'm sure you're not perfect and have your imperfections.

[prophecy]

no one is perfect. but if you have control over something (like how fat you are) and you don't do anything about it, that's another story.

btw, I keep my fat percentage below 10% at all times.

[celestialdaeva]

Lol. So how's that mentality working out for ya?

[joystickhappy]

I definitely don't think that's a deal breaker. It wouldn't really bother me at all.

[Anonymous]

honestly depends how fat you are now.

[rizzo389]

No. Shows at least you care about your body.

[helloyes]

i think its cute