I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months now, but recently I've been thinking that maybe I don't fit his life style.
He's 2 years older than, has a job, and generally has a lot of things going for him right now. With his job, he works when he has breaks from school, so I don't really see him. He's entering into a few programs that I don't really understand, but it's going to help him a lot with his future [if he gets accepted into one which is likely]. He also said if he does get accepted, then he's going to be busy during the summer. He lives an hour away from me by train, so I hardly see him at all, but we talk every single day. We don't go to the same school either. So a LDR I guess?
Question is: where do I fit into all of this? We care for each other, but I don't know what I would call what I'm feeling right now. I haven't told him any of this [just started thinking about it]. Does this mean I wanna break up?
Also: he canceled once and forgot another time about dates because of his work, parties are a no good [he said couples + parties = disaster--from experience], and he would try to make plans but majority time something would come up.
He's 2 years older than, has a job, and generally has a lot of things going for him right now. With his job, he works when he has breaks from school, so I don't really see him. He's entering into a few programs that I don't really understand, but it's going to help him a lot with his future [if he gets accepted into one which is likely]. He also said if he does get accepted, then he's going to be busy during the summer. He lives an hour away from me by train, so I hardly see him at all, but we talk every single day. We don't go to the same school either. So a LDR I guess?
Question is: where do I fit into all of this? We care for each other, but I don't know what I would call what I'm feeling right now. I haven't told him any of this [just started thinking about it]. Does this mean I wanna break up?
Also: he canceled once and forgot another time about dates because of his work, parties are a no good [he said couples + parties = disaster--from experience], and he would try to make plans but majority time something would come up.
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We talked about my birthday plans [its a week from Friday] and we were supposed to celebrate it the following Saturday. Turns out his mother is hosting a dinner for their family. He said I could still come over and meet them...I'm confused now.
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