Girls only answer, I'm a guy and I need help

[Anonymous]

again I only want girls to answer. this year I've starting January 7th up til a few days ago I've lost 74 lbs. and I'm happy about it.i was 341 lbs on January 7th and I'm now 267. I've been fat all my life and I feel that with this weight I'm being born. I'm 19, my second year of college started recently and I've been really down and upset. motivation is there but its sometimes not there. there's been so much change in my life and exercise wise I'm happy but in general I've been upset. one thing that is on my mind is a girl. its a long story and ill summarize with key points. senior year of high school, there's a hot girl in class, I wanted her but I was fat. she motivated me to lose weight but I have never spoken to her. but I wanna tell her. and I found out she has a boyfriend. and I really hope they break up but I want her to be happy. with that and things like school workouts meeting new people staying in touch with friends that are at another college its tough. can you give me some courage, maybe some advice and I really want to know your thoughts. thanks girls. bye

[Anonymous]

Well taking care of yourself and making a change in your lifestyle is definitely worth it! It's not easy to do so congrats! Perseverance is always key, keep doing what you're doing and you'll find a girl who likes you for the great guy you are. As for this girl, well make small talk with her for starters. Say hi, smile, etc. then become real good friends with her and go from there. If you don't see it's going anywhere at least you know you tried and won't regret not doing so. Regardless of what happens there are many other girls out there and plus you should be happy because you are improving your health. And before liking someone else, you have to like yourself so keep being motivated and be happy with your results! Best of luck to you!