You think it'll be nasty?

[Anonymous]

I just started dating this guy a week ago and he looks alright. I mean he has a nice boby. He's a good guy but he smokes and his breath seems to stink all the time. Even when he brushed his teeth, I still smell a little funk so its hard for me to want to kiss him cause his mouth just seems dirty. And one day I picked him up at wrk from a restaurant and he was all greased up dirty, sweaty lookin and his smell just turned me off and I can undertsand that workin in the kitchen makes you smell like food but lately after hangin out with him almost everyday, I don't really like his smell. Its not that he stinks bad. Its just he smells funny and when I first went to his apt which he lives with his mom and sister, I didn't like how it smelled in there either but it was a very nice apartment, clean and all but the smell smelled old and sweaty. I don't know. Now its been a week and we have not had sex yet and I'm really not sure if I want to because I'm afraid he may taste bad when I give him oral. He's attractive and I like him but he just seems to me that maybe his hygein won't taste good at all. Like I said its not a really bad smell. I just don't like his smell. So do you all think the sex may not be good like maybe he'll stink down there based off of what I told you?

[holycow]

haha this reminds me of of Justin Bobby from The Hills.

but yeah he probably would not smell good down thereeee, maybe if you're getting down and dirty with him (no pun intended) then rub scented lotion all over him in a sexy way, he'll enjoy it and so will you.

thats all I can think of atm , hope that helps =]

[Asker]

I'm more worried about what the come may taste like cause its comin from inside him and I do not like his smell.

[Anonymous]

I don't think I would want to have sex with him too because of the smell. I think you should tell him about it like his breath after smoke and the kitchen smell but in a nice polite way. Then he can put perfumes or probably eat gum that can actually helps to eliminate the smell.

[Asker]

I told him very nicely that his breathe stinks all the time and he immediately brushed his teeth and it still had a little smell and then we went out last night and he was freshened up for me but I stilll don't like his smell. I don't know if its a certaing lotion he is using and like I said its not a really bad smell and he doesn not stink. I just don't like how he smells. He doesn't wear cologne so its like he takesd a shower and puts on some kind lotion or maybe it is cologne.

[Asker]

And his breath still stinked. man, he is really turning me off to where I don't want to see him no more. I don't really think I'm that interested in him like I was on the first date. He's a very good man tho, treats me like a lady but I can't see myself being sexual with him. His hygein is not so good to me.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ic, I know what you mean. Have you asked him to change cologne??? Well, if it comes to a point where you can't stand the smell, just stay as friends seem to be a better option.

[Asker]

Well, actually, he did a 180 on me this past saturday. We had made plans earlier in the day to go to the movies later on and he suggested we go to sleep next to each other after the movies. I said ok and if he wanted to come to my place and he said yes. So at 9pm we went to the movies and he would kiss on my neck and try to put his hands down there and I told him not to do that anymore. So after the movies I told him that maybe it wasnt a good idea for him to come over tonight. he was not happy

[Asker]

And I explained it to him that I changed my mind and that I wanted to date him a little while longer before we go there. Also, girl, I was kind of losing interest as well cause of his smell and some other things. So I took him back hm, we hugged and kissed and I went home. he texted me minutes later did I get hm safe? and goodnight and I asked him if he wanted to go wrk out monday and he said yes. the next day, surprisingly I get a text at 2pm from him and he was insulting me for no reason .

[Asker]

He said first thing I need to get my hair done and step up my gear and shoe wear and that I kind of look like a man and that I need to walk and act like a lady(I didn't even give him sex ever) and that I'm a fu!?kin oreo(black girl that acts like a white girl) and do I even own a pair of heels? lol, I thot it was funny. and I did not add fuel to the fire either. I just said lol! you take care and be easy and that was that. It was obvious what he wanted and I'm glad its over cause I was losing inter

[Opinion Owner]

You handled that insult nicely ;) Yeah, no need to add fuel to that. But he's weird by insulting you for no reason. Did he send another text to you after you said take care? Anyway, hopefully you will find your Mr. Right :D

[Asker]

Yes and he said he will and for me to grow up. lol! And then his last text to me was Do I even own a pair of heels? I mean he was really trying to hurt my feelings and it did not wrk. haven't heard from him since and glad cause I was not that into him at all.