Why can't my ex-gf act normal a year later?

[darkfoxjj]

Broke up cause she was emotionally cheating.

I haven't contacted her in a few months.

She STILL ignores/blows off any form of contact. You'd think she'd be able to act reasonably friendly/normal now.

What do you think the reason is?

She's still hurt and when she sees me it hurts her.

She doesn't hurt at all and just doesn't want to talk.

She's still hurt and wants to move on.

Another option (please specifiy)

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She acts slightly angry+asif I don't interest her.

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She actually started talking to me when she saw me two weeks ago, but is back to ignoring.

[mshaker]

She acts like a child because she is a child. Aka she was "emotionally" cheating on your right? aka seeking comfort verbally with someone else. Correct?

She acts like a loser towards you, because she hasn't grown up, and is still angry at herself most likely for what she has done. She thinks she's the catch, when really you are. Let her keep acting like a loser, and when her luck runs out one day, that's when her pride will crumble.

[gonyr]

Whatever her reasons, it's never wrong to not talk to your ex again

She has her reasons. She doesn't want t talk to you. Maybe she still has feelings and wants to move on. Maybe she hates you. Maybe she emotionally cheated because she didn't like you anymore. Regardless, she doesn't want t.

Why talk to her anyway?

[RealDeal]

She still cares on some level. Whether she doesn't have closure, hasn't let go, or feels resentment towards you. Feelings are still there and she might not have gotten completely over the relationship yet. Hate is love's cousin.

[martyfellow]

She isprobably embarrassed about her behavior..I'm not sure what 'emotionally cheating' means, but it wouldn't be something you'd want to get caught doing, I think.!

[yaddayaddayadda02]

She's done and over you. For whatever reason, it's a moot point. Just let her be and stop trying to contact her.

[mike5150]

I think she just doesn't have any interest anymore in contacting you.

[asianfreak]

Looks like she's beyond redemption, and you should probably move on