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Anonymous
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Guys do you give flowers on the first date?

Women might say that they would like that, but if it actually happened, most would be weirded out by it, unless she already had a massive crush on the guy, which is NOT the norm. I also don't... Dating

InquisitiveObserver
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Can white guys be seriously interested in Latinas?

Most guys don't care what color your skin is - they care that you are at least somewhat attractive and fit, and they care if you have a nice personality and have a bit of respect and appreciation... Dating

coachTanthony
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Have you ever dated someone so long distance that you had to fly to see them or vice versa?

No, but when I was 20 I dated a girl for a year and drove 240 miles each way every weekend to see her, before moving to be with her. Never again. I can't say this often enough: DATE LOCALLY... Dating

Brainsbeforebeauty
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Do "game players" realize when they lost the "game" even when they "think" they won?

You'd have to be more specific, but, I think that, most of the time, they actually ARE winning - because they're playing a different game than you think they're playing, or think they SHOULD be... Dating

Nazgol
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Why can't love be forced?

Because we can't control or change other people . That's a hard thing for people to accept, but that's realty. And that has an impact on what you must do to both ATTRACT and to KEEP a partner,... Dating

Hellisia
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Is it rude to bring up a friend's ex when meeting their new partner?

Yes, it's rude. But it's not unusual - a lot of women can't stand to see another woman happy, even when their own lives are fine, and they'll drop little digs against her without even thinking... Dating

Dude_777
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What are some of the lamest and silliest excuses you said or heard, to cancel a date?

I've almost never had a date canceled, and of the few that did, I usually knew the reason ahead of time and expected the cancelation. I don't get all shook up over stuff like that; life happens,... Dating

janbie_15
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Is it a turn off to guys if a girl is too invested into them as in if she says she misses him and their cuddles and such?

No. What is a turnoff is when a girl is so clingy and smothering that the guy can't go to work without a 20-minute goodbye, and can't run to the grocery store without her, or even spend 5 minutes... Dating

Anonymous
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Why do guys or men need to have social skills in order to get a girlfriend but girls, women don't? ?

Women have their own responsibilities - they have to be fit, dressed nice, made up, and they have to be at least a BIT social. Yes, men have their share of responsibilities, and, yes, a decent... Dating

OddBeMe
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Are you more attracted to body or mind?

I would say "personality" rather than "mind" - it's great if she's super smart, but that isn't necessary by any means. What's far more important to me is that the has a positive personality - that... Dating

Kate200005
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Are men giving up on women nowadays?

Men aren't giving up on all women, just the "modern women", who are career-driven, have masculine energy, and don't think they need to bring anything to a relationship than their presence. Modern... Dating

jennifer_bloom
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Does having a degree affect your desirability to men?

Most men (not all) do NOT care about your education or your career - those are not things we look for or consider to add value to us. Generally, the more successful the man, the less he is going... Dating

TheSpaceGnome
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Would it be more convenient if you saw a person naked before choosing whether or not to date them?

All that would do is make most people even MORE shallow and MORE unrealistic about what they expect in a partner. Tinder has done far too much damage in that area already. Dating

Anonymous
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Would you date a darkskinned woman if you had the chance to?

I would and I have. A pretty girl is a pretty girl, and skin color doesn't change that. Dating

angeliquedevereux2
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How early on do you have to tell your partner you're transgender?

I can't speak for women, but the majority of men want absolutely nothing to do, romantically or sexually, with trans women. Certainly there are exceptions - and that's great - but they are... Dating

fonduegirl
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If your partner sleeps around with somebody and then excuses 'I thought we were on a break!', would you accept it?

I don't do "breaks". If I ger together with a girl, I make it clear from the beginning that she can walk away at any time, but if she does, there's no coming back. I expect her to act like an... Dating

Anonymous
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Would you still drive someone home if the date didn't go well?

Of course. If I take a girl out, her safety and security is my responsibility until I get her safely back home, unless she absolutely refuses it, which I've never had happen. Even if she... Dating

Anonymous
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Would you guys date a butterface?

I've dated a girl with an 8 body and a 4 face. She had a great personality and was enjoyable to be around and even if she wasn't objectively beautiful in her face, her overall value and... Dating

Chikky
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Have you ever been rejected by a crush because you don't own a car?

I've had a car since I was 17, so that's never really been an issue for me - but that doesn't mean that men aren't heavily pressured (generally) to have a car if they want a relationship.... Dating

Anonymous
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Why do guys like you on Tinder and when you message them they unmatch you?

The main problem with Tinder is that, by design, it's 100% based on looks alone AND because it can easily show you a much larger number of people than you will meet in real life - and because... Dating

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