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I used to love her more than anything and now she's broken up with me, what do I do?
"I loved her so much I still feel the heat of it." It is difficult to get over a relationship of three years but convincing yourself how dramatic and wonderful it was makes it even more difficult.... Relationships
Guy gave me a card, I tried to act smart?
This is a great illustration of the consequences of playing that game of holding back and trying to make your interest not too obvious. If you had just told him that you were interested, you... Dating
Do you think it's bad to avoid LGBTQ because you don't like them/ feel uncomfortable around them?
We are all shaped by our life experiences, and the things that happen to us when we are young have the most profound and longest-lasting effects. Don't apologize for being human. I am not... Society & Politics
Is there something going on?
How many people have suggested to you that he is either a married man or living with a girlfriend? Relationships
He played me so I got my friend to finesse his sisters boyfriend. Thoughts?
So, did everything that you did undo the harm of being played? Dating
When is it the worst time to dump someone?
Dumping someone at a funeral is the lowest of the low! Break Up & Divorce
What are the most attractive features on girls?
Attraction is a very subjective reaction. Some guys like girls with big boobs and some like little boobs. Some like blondes, some like redheads, some like brunettes. Some like short girls. Some... Dating
Should you test your relationships?
Testing a partner implies distrust and lack of respect. If I discover that a partner has been testing me, we are probably finished. . . regardless of whether I passed the test. Relationships
When will borders open for travelling again?
The borders are wide open now unless you are an American. If you are Guatemalan, Venezuelan, Mexican, Nicaraguan, etc., those rules about the border don't apply. Society & Politics
My friend asked to hook up when he was drunk?
He is being confusing because he does not know how to approach you without taking a chance of scaring you away, so he vacillates but gets scared as he gets closer to approaching you. Alcohol is... Flirting
Why do people still believe in the idea of "the one"?
When I talk about The One, I do not mean to suggest that there is only one person on this planet with whom I could be happy. The One means the woman with whom I will ultimately find lasting... Relationships
Have you ever fallen for your supervisor at work or has someone fallen for you as someone who is in charge?
Dear Penthouse, I never thought I would be writing to you, but. . . Before law school, I worked as a mental health counselor in Tampa. I worked an evening shift in an inpatient unit. The staff... Relationships
During a rough patch in a relationship, would you stay and work it out or leave your partner?
Every relationship has rough spots. If you always leave when that happens, then you will never have a long term relationship. Relationships
Guys, what do you look for in a woman if you are looking for a girlfriend?
A few years ago, I wrote an extensive Take about selecting a partner for dating and eventually for marriage. Assuming that your long term goal is a stable relationship and possibly marriage, a... Other
If you chase pesky cats out of your property are you bad?
You have the right to exclude the cats from your property, but there is a right way and a wrong way to accomplish that result. Other
Girls, how would you feel about your boyfriend having a topless picture of you as their phone wallpaper? Guys, would you have such a wallpaper?
I have had one female send me nude pictures of herself and I always protected the privacy of those pictures. When it became obvious that a relationship was not going to develop between us - at... Relationships
Do you think we will have to wait to find a lover in the real world because of CoVid?
I didn't wait, and I found a lady who is very special to me now. We've been dating for five months. Dating
Why shouldn't you date single moms?
"You have to care for a child/children who aren't yours." Why do you get involved with her child in the early stages of dating? Bad idea. "Provide for children who aren't yours." Why must you... Dating
Who is the asshole in this situation. Wife aborts child because its going to be a boy, husband divorces her for it?
He was stupid for marrying her but that doesn't make him an asshole She killed his baby. That makes her an asshole. If I was him, I would have divorced her sorry ass. Break Up & Divorce
Boyfriend doesn’t know that I’m cheating with his best mate?
Go to the nearest state hospital and confess that you are an incurable sociopath in need of immediate commitment! TROLL! Dating
