i personally keep those pictures. not with the intend to show anyone ever. just for my own enjoyment. however i do know one girl, who i know likes guys to show her off.
I promised her that I would delete them and I kept my word.
yeah i did that with pictures of a girl that i shouldn't have had, cause she didn't give them to me... damn morals xD i kind of regret having actually deleted them.
i don't think it would be "stupid". i wold say: www.youtube.com/watch
People can hack your phone. There are people who want to see you ruined. It is very much stupid because common sense tells you not to do it. that's why women screaming about nudes being releases and sex videos and such do stupid. Simply don't do it. An evil person will use and abuse you anyway, they don't care about he law or you. YOU have to care about what you do.
i aknowledge those risks. though they don't scare me much. i mean if someone has urges to see my dick i don't mind so much when they see it. it's not like i lose anything if they do. but i would assume that even if it ends up online, nobody gives a shit. so i'm chill about that.i understand your perspective. but i have a different one. that's why i said that's just your opinion. not to belittle that. you can have your opinion. your opinion does probably make sense for you. but not for me.
So you're saying you want to be a manwhore? That's why women will disrespect you also and then you want to know why many won't take you seriously. They care at that point about your penis, not you as a person. It is again not my opinion. My opinion is you can do whatever you want, but it has consequences. The facts are if you want to be foolish about it, it's still your right to do so. I'm not. Plenty of people cares which is why they teach their children and center their lives based on what YOU DO. Your shaping the world as you shape yourself.
i'm not a manwhore if i send the girl i like a dick pick. i don't send that to everyone. and i missjudged her and she abuses my trust and spreads that, well shit happens. not horribly concerned with the consequences of that, cause as i said previously: i can't imagine someone actually looking up my dick xD and if they wanna see it so badly and they manage to see it, good for them. how does that make me a manwhore?
* a solicited dick pick
Oh yes, you do. You lose respect and you're mocked for it and you think your not. That is how it is for women of the world. You're judged by your penis and your status. You judged for everything. And while you can pretend like it doesn't matter, it wouldn't affect you if it doesn't. What you do and not do will always matter which determines who wants to be with you, around you or not. These women will just use you for their own benefit and use you dry like communism. Your producing what you can't have for yourself. So while wordly men may be lenient how a woman shows her body to the world and him, but that is not the same for women. Either your somebody they see to have sex with or somebody to take seriously. Women nowadays judge based on pleasure and what you have. men care about our partner count. If sex is all a woman is good for, then too many women, the least you can do is please her, or she will move on. A woman now has options to get what she wants sexually and not care for you.
no, i can't see that happening, honestly. i don't associate with people that would antagonize me like that. and if it's well meant fun, than fair enough. i'm fair game for that. again. no issues for me. i understand you see it differently. that's ok.
i don't personally care much about a womans partner count. and i don't a woman less as a person just cause she has had sex with a guy more xD if you are after such guys, more power to you. your choice.
"how does that make me a manwhore?" One she isn't your wife. Two, what it translates to a woman is that all you have to offer is your penis, a child she may not want and disease. Three, there are many penises out there and now sex toys. Why is your penis the only thing she can have and care for?Four, you send your penis to a girl you like. That's like prostitution. Matter of fact, it IS prostitution, you're just not doing it for money. They wouldn't call it sex soliciting if it wasn't. Five, if you're going to send your penis to every "girl" you "like", even though 9/10x you know jack about her, that's whorish.
she's not my wife. so? i am ok with having sexual intercourse with someone i'm not married to. do you not see how your judgements do not have much traction for me? i know they work for you and that's fine. but for me they don't, cause i don't share your opinions :D
I am not after such guys. I'm a virgin for a reason. I care about loving a man. If I WANTED to use you, you basically gave me permission to do so out of your consent. I would have done so as a child. I am not interested in loving a man's penis. I care about him. He has a penis for a reason to procreate and to bond and become one sexually with one woman. Your penis isn't a free for all, but that is your choice. if you don't care, then according to you, there should be no such thing as cheating then.
That is no opinion. That is facts. I am nobody's whore or harlot and neither do I want to be seen or presented as such. if a man is asking that of me he doesn't love me. He is there for sex and to use me for sex because he cannot love or respect me or my body. This is why men have no respect for women because women are now told to disrespect themselves.
"she's not my wife. so? i am ok with having sexual intercourse with someone i'm not married to. do you not see how your judgements do not have much traction for me? i know they work for you and that's fine. but for me they don't, cause i don't share your opinions " So you would rather disrespect her because your desires for her trumps over her desire to love a person who may love her? I don't care if my judgement tract you or not. I just want to know where your mentality is and how do you find this okay? This is why women now don't care about men. It's not just my opinions as I told you once before. You can do whatever you want, but if a woman takes advantage of you, remember you let her. If she gives you an STD, remember you let her. If she leaves you for another guy, remember that was your decision. But makes sure it's with women who choose to whore around. Not women who seek and desire love. Because in the end she will blame youfor lying and ruining herlife.
i'm not trying to take your values or preferences away from them xD you can keep them. if that works for you, great. no issues. i do what i prefer. simple as that. and i know you will judge those things differently than i do. that's totally ok.
what you think is bad is not what i think is bad. the consequences you imply are not granted. if i knock a girl up, i'll marry her and take care of the child. that's the consequence for me. i'm ok with that.
i'm confident that i won't get a girl pregnant without intending that. but if i do, i'm ready to face the consequences.
Here is the thing. Where is your judgment call? Why ask this question if you can't handle the answer? You not taking morals from me, you can't anyway unless I am stupid enough to do so. What I want to know is why it is any of your business what we feel when you just said basically that you don't care?
"what you think is bad is not what i think is bad. the consequences you imply are not granted. if i knock a girl up, i'll marry her and take care of the child. that's the consequence for me. i'm ok with that." As the story of my conception to this world I AM NOT okay with my parent's sins, and neither would many kids born similar. You only care about what you want but not for the welfare of your child. Your child may God forbid pay for what you do, as well as the woman. That is how you end up in divorce and why so many people are divorcing. "i'm confident that i won't get a girl pregnant without intending that. but if i do, i'm ready to face the consequences." Let me tell you something. At your age, with this mentality. No your not. That is why your single and have no woman right now. Because you're a risk and your not somebody many women would want to mother children with or marry because of that risk. I'm just being honest which is why I bet why your sexual standards are so loose. Your driving up the divorce rates and unintended births in this world with that mindset. Women aren't stupid. It just sounds like they are avoiding you but like the attention.
"Where is your judgment call?" i don't judge. i decide for myself. does that mean i am not allowed to hear or understand other peoples views and opinions? i'm curious about other peoples opinions. i'm not forcing anyone to tell me theirs. did i force you to tell me how you think about this? it was your free decision to tell me your opinion. thanks for that. just cause i don't share it or "adapt" it, doesn't mean it's of no value to me. what makes you conclude i "can't handle the answer". i asked for opinions. you gave me your opinon. that should both sides be satisfied. what's there for you to be dissatisfied with? did you expect that i agree with you and apply your views to my life as a consequence of hearing about them? i mean that is certainly a possibility. but i decided not to. what's wrong with that?
and also: i don't force any women to be after my liking. they can be with me and accept me for who i am or they can not like me and not stick around. that's how everyone finds their mates. you do and i do. there's a customer for every product. i'm not forcing anyone to by the product that i am.
"Where is your judgment call?" i don't judge. i decide for myself.", <-- Do you not see where the problem is with this. You don't judge yet you decide for yourself. That's judging. Your judging for yourself. "does that mean i am not allowed to hear or understand other peoples views and opinions?" That is up to you. You have freewill. You have to make that judgment. " i'm curious about other peoples opinions. i'm not forcing anyone to tell me theirs." And this is a judgment. Your judgment is you are curious about other people's opinions. Because if you cannot judge that, you would have no choice but to listen. But you do have a choice. "did i force you to tell me how you think about this? it was your free decision to tell me your opinion." Your right. I told you my opinion as well as the facts. That is the judgment I chose to make. For I didn't have to answer if I didn't want to. That is also a judgment. ""thanks for that. just cause i don't share it or "adapt" it, doesn't mean it's of no value to me. what makes you conclude i "can't handle the answer"."Well for starters, you saying that you don't share or adapt it is prove of why you cannot handle the answer. That isn't how life works without consequences. Everybody reaps what they sow. What you sow you reap. And if you reap this how can you say you will marry and have kids as if it is that simple and easy? It isn't. It will be much more difficult and frustrating because this was the choices you and that person made in ignorance and now a child has to pay for it. As if it isn't a big deal when it is. Ascribed status is doing to what you do as is generation curses. You are who you are not by accident, but by both choice and the generational choices, your ancestors and parents made. What you think you only do may have been what your father has done, your grandfather, or whoever that started that. It is not all on your own which is why many people ask about anchestry.
" i asked for opinions. you gave me your opinon. that should both sides be satisfied. what's there for you to be dissatisfied with?" You not understanding anything and yet you're doing the very things that hurts others besides yourself. You quoting that it's just my opinion. Yet I have to deal with the choices my parents made. I didn't ask for this. But I have to deal with it. "did you expect that i agree with you and apply your views to my life as a consequence of hearing about them? i mean that is certainly a possibility. but i decided not to. what's wrong with that?" Well, that is for you to answer because it is your life, your choice. It isn't for me to force you to do anything you don't want. But the things you complain about are the things you sow and produce. I say what I say even more, because the last thing I need is a man who does what you do, and bring misery to his family and to me. I will not make my parent's mistakes or follow what you do. The last somebody else needs to suffer out of ignorance yet you don't care. Because you think you're not hurting anybody, and yet there is so many hurt by what you do and did. Many of you don't want to pay attention or take responsibility.
The decisions i make for myself are not of any consequences got anyone that does not share my opinion. Can we take a step back and think about what this conversations goal is? I feel like I learned what your opinion is. That was my goal. I don't quite understand what your goal is. Help me out. I'm willing the cooperate within reason, so that you can get out of this conversation what you had hoped for.
"and also: i don't force any women to be after my liking. they can be with me and accept me for who i am or they can not like me and not stick around. that's how everyone finds their mates. you do and i do. there's a customer for every product. i'm not forcing anyone to by the product that i am." The PRODUCT that you ARE? No, you made that decision. When you're sending those pictures, you are forcing us to see something somebody may not want to see. Or need to. It is not about acceptance it is about respect. And it is not respectful to either you or the recipient. And that is not how people find their mates. But whether or not you should or shouldn't. Mates have to do with choices and proper ones. Otherwise, those are not mates. Those are people you laid up or trying to lay up with. Therefore they are sexual prospects or sexual partners, but they are not mates.
I am not certain I have hope for somebody like yourself. All I am going to say you're going to find out the hard way.
You do not understand, once a woman experiences and see if she CANNOT UNDO it. It will hurt her from bonding with a man she does want. It's the same with sex. Once a woman experiences that outside of marriage and with multiple people, it is hard for her to settle with one. That is biological, NOT RELIGIOUS. There is evidence to proven your brain changes on sex. You're a risk factor to a woman's health and overall wellbeing. That is how much sexual responsibility you men have over a woman. This is why so many women cannot find stable partners and have the many they do. No woman in her right mind ASKED for that. She only asked for 1 and to only be with that 1. That is now becoming unachievable.
I don't know if you realized but our differences are extremely fundamental but complex at the same time. Like you've thrown a LOT at me that i disagree with on so many levels. But we're at a point now, where I'd probably have to write a minimum of 20 pages to identify all the fundamental disagreements that we have to them explain my position. That's why I keep not answering all the individual things you brought up. I see that frustrated you and I'm sorry. We're discussig at a scope larger than I can handle in a few short words. I don't see much of a point in doing it like that anyway, cause at this rate, the content of our discussion grows exponentially. We can try to start out with very isolated and short things to find out where our most fundamental disagreements are if you want. But i can't do that with so many things at once, cause that's just too much for me.
"I don't know if you realized but our differences are extremely fundamental but complex at the same time. Like you've thrown a LOT at me that i disagree with on so many levels. But we're at a point now, where I'd probably have to write a minimum of 20 pages to identify all the fundamental disagreements that we have to them explain my position. That's why I keep not answering all the individual things you brought up. I see that frustrated you and I'm sorry. We're discussig at a scope larger than I can handle in a few short words. I don't see much of a point in doing it like that anyway, cause at this rate, the content of our discussion grows exponentially. We can try to start out with very isolated and short things to find out where our most fundamental disagreements are if you want. But i can't do that with so many things at once, cause that's just too much for me."It doesn't frustrate me. I can talk day and night and for years with this as I always do. But you still get it. It doesn't matter what you disagree with. Lust and sexual sin is still sin. A woman pays for those costly mistakes as you pay for the costly mistakes you cause on a woman and yourself. You can write a whole chapter. I don't care about length. I care about communicating and tell you where you say you don't know or understand. It is not that hard. It's deep, but it is not that hard like you are saying it is. You have to be willing to understand that you may be wrong with this, which I can prove. But you have to be paying attention. And I am telling you to be with statistical evidence or not.
The lifestyle your having is stopping you from having the life you think you say you want. I am telling you, that is not how you get there. But because you experienced way too much sexually, it is hindering you and it's to your detriment. Not your benefit. Many of these girls cannot tell you that answer because many are in a group think. They cannot properly think without getting judged for what is morally right and what they say they actually want. Many women do not like this. But they will pretend to like it if it means they get your attention and society's acceptance in the end.
What lifestyle do you think i want/have? i had sex with one person in my life. Once. I'm 35. What do you really know about what I want and what my lifestyle is?
I refuse to live a sad and miserable existence where I am not a person with feelings and desires of my own but an object to be used like so many young women getting raped, forced to prostitute or think prostitution is the answer and they get dismembered like meat at the meat butcher. You didn't think of these women as people or humans before when they were alive. how then did they achieve being human when their dead and murdered for a man's sick pleasure. How is what your doing not murder? Because there was no blood? Or you expected that when a woman's virginity lost or badly raped to the point she bleeds to death? You people talk about how good and human you are yet you don't even understand the human condition. Only when it benefits your life.
"What lifestyle do you think i want/have? i had sex with one person in my life. Once. I'm 35. What do you really know about what I want and what my lifestyle is?" I believe that you wanted something permanent but you gave that up for a lie so you prostitute yourself by sending d*ck pics. You become like the woman, desperate for a woman's attention because you don't love yourself as you felt when that relationship ended. Because unless that person died, it either because you picked the wrong woman or she left you. One of the other. It changed your perception of love and sex, now you act like you don't care anymore. When deep down you do and your afraid and scared to be alone. So to feel wanted, to feel desired, to still feel needed, you do this. To try to remind you that you still worth something. And yet, your still unhappy. You sadly gave that up. I didn't do that dispite my heartbreak, and my sorrows, and my pain. But I still had hope and I STILL held on to the things of God because I know be it if I died alone or not, that that is the way to achieve what you truly desire. You just have to be faithful to God first as is to yourself and your HEART. Before you expect for somebody else to be faithful to you. But you gave that up.
Are you serious? How does any of all that shit you just said have anything to do with what i litterally just said. You're leading a conversation with yourself now. You created a strawman of me that has nothing to do with reality anymore. You can lead that conversation alone. Obviously you don't need me for that.
You asked me a question. I told you the answer. It's not a strawman, it's obviously true and you're too much of a coward o admit what you truly want! Your 35 and made those choices. I didn't. So it has nothing to do with me. I do not have to answer for your choices. You do. You asked that question of your own heart because you scared to love and you scared to be vulnerable and actually DO what you truly DESIRE to do! Which is to truly LOVE A WOMAN and have a family of your own! Your lying with this question and to other people and to yourself! I'm not afraid of you. You already showed me your heart. You desire a wife! But is scared because of your practices, you scared other men will call you gay, a simp, a wimp, and women mocking you for something that is every part of your human right! That's not strawman, that's you being a coward and hiding. How are you going to be married and have a wife and children with a stable family if you're doing this! What you doing right now hurts women! You men who think like this breaks our hearts with it because your stubbornness and pride keep you like this.
So I am VERY SERIOUS. I am NOT SCARED or afraid, to tell the TRUTH. And I stand by what I sad. My foot is put down on the ground and will not MOVE until you prove me and yourself WRONG. Only cowards do this. A real man owns up, change and go after what he really wants. Not run and hide and then wants to know women run, hide and avoid you. WHY? Because you do the same thing. And this is why you're single. Stop lying to yourself and abusing your heart. If you want love, say that. If you desire a person to hold, say that you want somebody to care about you, treat you right, think of you, want to be with you, say THAT? What the hell is with you people so scared of saying what you WANT? Who are these people, God? No, they are not. But when God blesses you with opportunities to turn around you blame God for your problems. But denying and ignoring won't solve anything. You can disagree with me, curse at me, block me, whatever. But one thing I refuse to do is tell you a LIE.
You have made your judgements about me disregard of any facts about me. You are assuming your word is gospel, probably cause your religious concessions make you assume that you have to be right, cause that's part of that decision. Condescending to other girls that are in a "group think"... Take a look in the mirror. None of your words are your own. All is taken from your religious doctrine and from people that told you how to judge. And you have no hopes for me? I see different opinions for what they are. I do not see women as objects at all. I see women as beings with their own free will and if what they want and what i want aligns, then we can be thogether. That how that works. Not by calling people sluts and by judging them from a position that automatically assumes to be above them like religious people as you tend to do. I don't think our conversation has a point anymore. You're trying to put square me in the round hole that you carved. It doesn't work like that. We can't communicate like that. The goal of this conversation for you is not to learn about my opinion. But to ignore my opinion assuming I'm bad or wrong so that you never have to risk questioning if you're right. So bye. I will not respond to this conversation anymore. That doesn't. Mean i resent you. Maybe we can have a more Fruitful attempt at having a conversation another time. Bye.
NO. It is from me because I know me. You cannot tell me who I am because your not God. I know me and so does God. I look in the mirror every day. And I sad to myself I wasn't going to do this to myself anymore! I don't have to ignore your opinion. I didn't have to crave anything. All I did was say what was already there in you. You say what you say but your words don't line up with your actions and what you say.
You think everything is the truth is religion. So no, it is a lost cause. It is sad. But you're lost as a person. For you to think all of that shows you literally know nothing, and it's very sad. Because you think I think I'm better than somebody when I am not. There is a wrong and a right to things in life. If any of what you say is true, as I said we would not have all of these problems and mess. But it is again your choice to keep it that way. I will not have somebody as you rob me of my personal happiness.
Here is what you refuse to see. It is not because we cannot communicate. You don't want to communicate. You already made up your mind.
No boyfriend would ever see you naked, huh? Good luck with the single life.
@rillywilly I am not a man's whore. You don't even treat 1 woman right and can't even keep one. Other girls want to foolishly hurt themselves, let them. I am not. There are men who will and do respect their women. I am not looking for somebody like you. You show you there for sex. Tell the truth.
Lmao you’re fucking psycho
If he loves me, marry me. That's it. He is not entitled to see my body and neither am I to him. Best to weed you out early. I'm been single all my life thank God. Not worth the hell and drama you people do. Any woman who can show her body like that to her "boyfriend" often does it to other people. Really. And you want to know why women cheat and desire other men.
@rillywilly No. Your psycho. Can't keep 1 woman, don't want to marry her, or love her? Just tell her and stop lying to women. Otherwise, it's on her if she wants to be used and abused by people. That's why the same women can't even respect a good man and you call him gay. Look at your psycho self.
well in this case, it ended up on his phone, as a wallpaper xD
i actually know a very good friend of mine, who had nude pictures of his obviously sleeping girlfriend. i know cause i found those pictures on a laptop that he gave me with the words: "here, you can have it. keep it, if you manage to fix it. i don't need it". i like fixing stuff and i succeeded. found the pictures on a completely nondescript "new folder" right on the desktop xD
That's beyond creepy. I'm out of words.
well... what can i say. those things evidently happen.
i even confronted her and she said she knows he had some nudes of her but she didn't know of the particular ones i had. they are not together anymore xD
I absolutely agree with that. This is why all the messing around should only go down in person, save from some potential sexting.
@EmotionOfFear meh. i never show around pictures unless if have explicit permission. and even then i may not. i tend to trust my judgement on people. and if they end up making it public, i'm like "whatever". i didn't spread them, so they are incriminating themself and either way nobody cares to see me naked XD so i really couldn't be bothered to even give a shit.
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yeah i was assuming that to be the prevalent answer. i think it's weird as well. though i do know smome girls who actually like when their partner "brags" with them like that.
@IronLady6354Allow? 🤨. LOL 😆 You wouldn’t know
lol. nobody among the commenters here believes that girls who think like you exist xD
@wingattebaby16My girlfriend gave me the picture. She sees it on my phone and is fine with it.
well, i am also the kind of girl that asked guys out if i liked them.There are several on GAG like me... hella vocal.WOWgirl, Cheergirl39138, and Secret6620, and some others i can't remember their usernames unless i go look them up.and personally, as long as my husband does not go showing off the topless body to his buddies, i am cool with him having a daily reminder of me in his face all the time.I guess the commenters are just jealous or I don't know?I have been on GAG over 4yrs, and always get some yahoo jerks thinking they can bash me.. i dont care... GAG is a fun distraction for me. I am a housewife and mom and only come on here to get a laugh or kill time when i need a break from laundry and dishes and stuff.
what if she has cuck tendencies? is that called different when women have that by the way? what i'm saying is: what if she gets a kick out of being seen on your phone, making people know that she's yours?
In case she has cuck tendencies, then I would refrain my committing to her long term and see her only for someone to have a sexual relationship with. A woman who wants me to show her intimate parts off to the world is a woman who cares about the validation of the outside world more than her own partner. The same thing applies for women who wear provocative/recealing clothing while being in a relationship. Either you are modest and keep yourself for me (your partner), or we are nothing.
fair enough. you know what you want. good for you.
yeah that's what i've been thinking. yet apparently there's people who don't give a shit about that.
They'll probably Gossip about that at the next Christmas party about your computer and might even bring up so how's the girlfriend being sarcastic. It's not worth it. And what if she's with you at the party?
what if she actually was into her boyfiend doing that? cause that's the case in the example i saw irl.
That's a real long shot. Facing your parents grandfather's and uncles at the Christmas party real serious people that's extremely embarrassing oh I remember oh yeah I've seen you before
oh XD you were talking about that sort of Christmas party. yeah that would certainly be awkward. i was thinking of a work related one for some reason. mayjor derp on my side.
Work related your colleagues will probably tease you about it
i could live with that. i'd just say: oh yeah? well your opinion doesn't matter, cause i get these tits to grab later xD
I wouldn't want my girlfriend on my wallpaper at all. I don't like that whole trend tbh
@7771999 it's a "trend"? never heard of that.
It seems to be so
i mean i don't assume it has to be disrespectful. maybe she likes it. who knows. i'm just asking how people see it.
What are the chances of someone else looking through your phone? I turn my phone out in public all the time.. last thing I want is my girl tits displayed to the public.
i know one particular girl that actually likes that idea XD i agree that this is not normal.
you should know by now girls like many things that don't make sense..that same girl will call you a creep if she doesn't like you.
lol boudoir is just like nudes but you chickened out :D like why hide your exhibitionist tendencies behind a vail of artistry? xD just own up to it.
Lol it's not nudes you have on clothes🤣 hahaha
also i said it's "not" nudes :D it's "like" nudes but you chickened out :D
yeah, as i saw that on someone elses phone, i kind of assumed that is exactly the point tho.
xD man if you'd know what effort it's costing me right now not to make a mean comment about that. all good. you do you.
I respect how bold you were to say this.
@EmotionOfFear Me or him?
@Dinosaursandanime65 You. His... comment wasn't up when I posted mine.
i guess that's the point of that xD
Why would I want people to see my s/o nude
what if she likes that idea and is turned on by it? being bragged with by her significant other?
Then I wouldn't be with her. That is shallow and gross
fair enough. everyone is entiteled to their own preference. no judgement from my side.