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How do you feel about holding hands on a first date?

I know that some people expect to have sex on a first date and holding hands means absolutely nothing to them, but other people don't even kiss on...

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Have you ever reunited with an ex? How did that work out?

Sometimes, people break up when they will be separated by distance for a long time: they are going to college in different states, one is going...

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Have you ever broken up/taken a "time out" to work on individual problems/personal growth and then re-united with a partner?

When I hear someone say "We are taking a break (or a time out) on our relationship to work on personal problems," I am always skeptical that both...

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Have you ever dated or had sex with someone at least 10 years older than you?

In 1978, I was 23 years old and had a brief relationship with a lady who was 46 years old (yes; twice my age.) It was brief and not particularly...

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How often do you double date with another couple?

If you do not know what a double date is, I will explain. You and your SO invite another couple to share a date together. It could be going to a...

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What is the all-time worst first date experience that you have ever had?

First dates can arouse some anxiety. What will they be like? How will they act? Are they loud and obnoxious? Etc. If you have not previously met...

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Ever met someone years later and been horribly disappointed?

In high school, I was friends with a girl named Laura. She was absolutely beautiful: blond hair, blue eyes, great physique, athletic, friendly, a...

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How soon do you want the second date?

If the first date went well, how soon do you want the second date to be?

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Receiving a text a few minutes after the end of the first date: needy or endearing?

You had a first date and it went very well. He/she looked like his/her pictures online. He/she was on time for the date. Both of you quickly...

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Should your companion ask for permission before kissing you on a first date?

When a date goes well, many people want it to end with a kiss. If there is no kiss, they walk away wondering if maybe you felt no chemistry with...

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Girls, what is the most common turn off in a guy's online dating profile?

It seems that no one admits to doing online dating but there are a ton of online dating sites that stay in business so. . . somebody is using...

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When you are in a committed relationship, do you occasionally feel attracted to someone else?

I occasionally see posts from girls complaining that their boyfriend has actually LOOKED at another girl. I am not defending the behavior...

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What was the most important lesson that you learned this year?

The time and the tides wait for no man (or woman,) and despite our culture's obsession with holding on to youth, each new year's eve should remind...

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What are your plans for New Year's Eve?

This year, I am doing New Year's Eve right! I will be taking my girlfriend to dinner at a nice restaurant in the Omni Hotel downtown. After...

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Have you ever developed a romantic or sexual interest in someone who was already a good friend?

So many people say that they want their SO to be their best friend but, if their best friend says "Hey, let's try to be more than friends, we...

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Girls, if a guy shows up with flowers on a first date, are you flattered or freaked out?

At one time, when I had a first date with a woman, I would bring her a single white rose and explain that white roses are a symbol of new...

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Would you ever leave a partner because they gained significant weight?

It is PC approved to say that appearance doesn't matter and OF COURSE we shouldn't "fat shame" anyone. That means that you aren't supposed to have...

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Native German speakers, can you help me?

I have recently started dating a woman who was born and raised in Hessen, Germany. She has been in the US for many years and her English is very...

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Dating an only child: does it make a difference?

For two years, I dated a woman who was an only child. I was tolerant of many little quirks and idiosyncrasies. She was a picky "food snob" and...

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What is your "pet name" for your boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse?

I call my girlfriend "Miss Cutie." What pet name do you have for your main squeeze?

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