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Anonymous
1 y

Why do people catfish (not scammers) on dating apps?

I guess it must be a matter of not being happy/confident with their looks (it's an insane thing to do, don't get me wrong). They are happy enough with their personality... if only they looked... Dating

Anonymous
1 y

How do you react to your boyfriend getting fat?

Yea...30 pounds is significant. I think you should say something, guage his reaction. Be gentle about it. But yea, I think that you're justified in bringing it up. If you're thinking about it, and... Dating

Anonymous
1 y

Am I being too needy?

The problem here is that you and he never discussed what you two are. Are you in a relationship? Are you seeing each other? Are you just friends with benefits? Does he even want a... Dating

Anonymous
1 y

What is the secret to having a girlfriend?

Shit man. You were in an abusive relationship. That can mess people up in terms of getting them to become accustomed to being treated badly. It's good you got out of that man. Seriously. There is... Dating

Anonymous
1 y

Alternative words for boyfriend?

Shnookums? Pookie? Darling? Pumpkin? I think any alternatives to the usual are bound to end up being stupid. "my person" makes me actually physically cringe. Nobody should ever say that... Dating

Hghhhhhhhhhh
1 y

Philophobia experience?

I just had to google that. But yes I do believe that exists. I've seen it several times myself (on here). I think it's not uncommon for everyone to go through (at least) one period of feeling this... Dating

Anonymous
1 y

Does dating ever get easier in your opinion?

Yes. It sounds like you're experiencing a fairly universal nervousness when first dating someone (you don't know each other) It's silly, but it is normal. Both of you are trying to put your... Dating

Anonymous
1 y

How can you stay in your league when people have overinflated views of themselves?

I donno. It just sounds like a girl who you consider "out of your league" thought more of herself than you thought of her. I don't think that should shake your confidence about which "league" you... Dating

DaphneJ
1 y

Does a guy being particular about who he dates mean he is picky?

Yes that is exactly what "picky" means in this context. It means he will only date certain specific people who meet his specific criteria. Now, traditionally that means "he only dates the hottest... Dating

Lisia
1 y

How do you stop overthinking in a relationship?

I think that it's great you're able to recognize that your feelings are "irrational" (to the situation with your current boyfriend). It's also good that you aren't "taking out" your... Relationships

Anonymous
1 y

How do you date somebody with dwarfism?

I can answer this easily. I have never dated anyone with dwarfism. The answer to your question is: you two communicating, trying it this way vs that way... but you figure out all the... Dating

CaitlinSims25
1 y

What are your thoughts on making friends before getting a new relationship?

I think we've talked in the past (but you had a different username that also had Sims in it?) It is definitely easier to be friends first. The problem is... once you're an adult... that... Dating

Anonymous
1 y

Why do tall women get garbage for preference in taller men?

Your friend is right. You are silly for expecting a guy to be taller than you to the point of not being interested in a guy you otherwise would be. Height should not be the thing that keeps... Dating

Anonymous
1 y

Individuals who have had several gfs/bfs in the past are often considered to be unfaithful/cheaters. Do you agree with this? Why / why not?

No. This is not true at all. You need to look at the guys track record in how he treated his exs. If a guy had relationships, but wasn't unfaithful in any of them, then you can be confident he's... Relationships

Anonymous
1 y

If false accusations don’t ruin men’s lives because some succeed, does a woman’s success mean being raped didn’t ruin hers?

I'm getting muddled in the way you worded your question. I may not be clear on what you're asking. Still: -False accusation of rape is inexcusably horrible. -Rape is inexcusably horrible.... Dating

Anonymous
1 y

If it's not me, then isn't it automatically you?

Yes. The traditional saying is: It's not you, it's me. If you got it the other way around... then yes... sorry dude... it is indeed you. Dating

Curiousandhavetoask
1 y

Have you ever been with someone ugly and liked it?

I have! There was a girl. She started new where I was working. I remember me and my buddy making comments to each other... about how notably ugly this girl was. (I was sometimes an asshole 20... Dating

Cyrus000
1 y

Guys would you date a fat, mid, taller, wealthy, high educated woman or a poor, shorter, less educated, pretty woman?

If I liked a girl (we clicked/had chemistry) I would have no problem dating either. I can't choose otherwise, because... Neither are ideal for different reasons. The only reason I would date... Dating

Ez-Bri-Z_v2
1 y

Have you ever had to deal with a "nice" guy/girl wanting to date you before?

I've dated nice girls before. In fact I think they were all nice. I think this is something more apt to happen to women. (guys are more likely to be the ones who pull this). It sounds like... Dating

Anonymous
1 y

Would you rather wait for your crush to make a move or move on?

This is super clear. If this guy is as shy as you know he is. What in the world do you think is going to change, for him to suddenly make a move? He has demonstrated that he's not able/willing to... Dating

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