Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
My husband said his friends are more important than me? (Page 3)
Anonymous
(18-24) 
Click "Show More" for your mentions
Most Helpful Opinion(mho) Rate.
Learn more
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
59Opinion
You were probably being bitchy at the time so he said it out of anger. I don't think your husband would ever put friends before family
How you gonna assume I was being bitchy? Do you live in my house? do you know me? Do you hear me and my hubbys conversations? Do you know my husband? Without knowing that you can’t give that opinion. Nice try though
Why would he tell you that his friends are more important than you out of no where? Sorry to dissapoint you but you and your husband are not a unique couple and your fights are the same as every other couple's. You gave him a hard time about him hanging out with his friends and he had a burst out
@Asker Wait a sec, if @Morrowlow can't make an informed comment because he doesn't know all what's going on in your home or hear the CONVERSATIONS between you and your husband, how can any of us make an informed comment hearing ONLY what you say? Sorry, it sounds like you're looking for others to confirm your own opinion on the matter. Not trying to be a b*tch here.
How about you mind your own business? Ain’t nobody talking to you so I don’t need you to type essays byee
Now i understand why your husband would rather spend time with his friends than with you. It's your crappy attitude. It's not a surprise to me that he likes his friends more than he likes you, but i'm surprised why he's married you.
I think he made himself clear, why are you still there?
Ask him if his friends would have his babies and do the things that you do for him!
You give him sex anytime he wants and he still thinks his friends are better?
He's gay.
@Juxtapose Dude, really? Homophobia in the 21st century? That's so not cool. A straight man can honestly prefer being around other straight men than his girlfriend or even his wife. To suggest otherwise is beyond reason--like all human beings must feel the same. Wow.
No he is not right for saying that. he doesn't love u
Was this in an argument? People say dumb things during arguments.
Right or wrong is subjective. Now you know where you stand
Write and wrong is objective given all the variables and all the information and all the context.
@Codywow subjective based on values and moral compasses
Would you say canibalism is objectively wrong
Or is canibalism okay if you believe it is.
Will if you take what you've seen and read about cannibalism from the media out of the equation what is technically wrong about it?
Huh, i was not expecting intelectual concistancy there.
To go into the problems. First, humans are very unhealthy to eat, obesity and related complications, chemicals, i would assume at least westen people's diets yould make them taste bad. Then there are instincts that tell us that canibalism is bad, from killing to eating human meat. A teacher of mine's sibling was once unknowingly fed human meat and had to get their stomach pumped because of it. The basic laws of survival.
So clearly those instincts are inconsistent or else cannibalism wouldn't exist at all. Second point is that if you look at it from a survival perspective, I think each and every one of us on this planet would do it if we had no other option.
All the reasons that we could agree or disagree on in terms of cannibalism being right or wrong fall under social constructs and moral compasses. Much like everything else in this world. Just because you are I wouldn't do it doesn't make it wrong. Even if 1 billion people on this planet would do it doesn't make it right.
Instincts can be overwritten and that is the case with canibalism. Just like a normal person doesn't commit suicide or harm themselves even if they have intent to but once that instinct is broken it is dificult to put back. Instincts say dont eat your neighbours so it is wrong to eat your neighbours.
That proves my point that it falls within a moral compass. If you had to, you would
Just because you can override your instincts doesn't mean you should, your instincts exist for a reason, to prolong your life and pass your genes. Morality is not whats right and wrong morality is the tiny grey area of things that are right but you personally dislike it. Right and wrong is natural and you are born with it.
That's called a moral compass.
Which can change over time because its influenced by social constructs.
Your instincts aren't your moral compass, you can have morals that go outside of whats right but that doesn't make it right. Just like killing someone is wrong, some people find they like it but that doesn't make murder right that makes the murderer wrong.
You can use any example you want. Doesn't matter. Back to the original question: is it right or wrong that he doesn't prioritize his wife? Who's to say. His instinct says its ok. She doesn't necessarily agree. He's not wrong; neither is she. They need to work it out. That simple. If their moral compasses are similar, they will.
To say your wife is your #1 priority is a social construct. Especially without knowing the circumstances.
That's my opinion. You can have yours too. They don't have to be the same either.
On that note, we're done here
THANK YOU! There are actually commenters here suggesting something is inherently wrong with the husband because of his FEELINGS! If the wife recognizes she can't live with the husband as he is and has respectfully shared this with him but he can't or won't change, then she has a choice to make. This isn't about "right or wrong." It's about the chance we all take on a contract that the other party will want to change the terms.
@Codywow Really? So you're saying there is an objective universal morality?
@AiahZ no, im saying right and rong is objective, like killing someone, or being charitable. Morality is in the right side just on the edge of being wrong. To visualive it draw a line and divide it in two and lable right and wrong on each side, not go on the right side and devide it into three. Starting on the farthest from the wrong side put right, good, morality. Morality is entirely in the right side. If there is something stolen, broken, or someone injured it is in the wrong. Morality is right but some people dont like it.
I'm willing to bet he wanted to go out one night with his friends and you're blowing it out of proportion.
He goes out every night with his friends and I don’t have a problem with it. This ain’t got anything to do with going out.
My husband for 8 years he treat me like shit and he either treat and talk his friends so nice then he snap on me for no reason. Give me feedback what do I'm very of the shit.
You sound like a great wife... you deserve better. Anyway, you have your children, be happy with them.
Well he is disrespectful think u need some time with someone that will worship you babe xx
That it is why it is very important that everyone is financially independent
How old are you?
I have money, did I say I don’t have money? What’s that got to do with my question, money isn’t a problem and its not got anything to do with my question
Why are you with such an asshole then? Do the same thing. If the fucktard think, his friends are more important, dont care about. Only have sex with him for yourself but dont spend any time with him, ignore him
Sounds like you’re not being appreciated. Sounds like he’s trying to have his cake and fck you over.
Because he is thinking about them instead of you he was using you for his pleasure
Tell him he can go get married to his homies then, you deserve so much better
your husband is too stupid to realize that honesty is not the best policy
he take you granted if you accept life turn horrible stand for yourself
He ain't a husband.. he's an ass!
Do you yell at him for stupid shit? But iv been fucked over by so many women id say the same thing
Well, if it's really how you paint it then you're not good at picking men.