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In a sense, but some don't want to get married or aren't very lucky to look nice.
No I think people who are over 40 divorced with kids are left overs..
That is ridiculous; what makes you think everyone wants to get married?
I do want to get married because I am bored of being alone in my home.
@Vivaldi Get a dog.
A dog at home?
@Vivaldi You are bored of not being nagged, denied sex, being able to keep the wealth you produce?
@KrakenAttackin
I am just a 30 years old man who looks 40
No. If you get attention from acceptable looking people.
Men aren't evaluated by their age, only women. Men are evaluated by bank account
Not true!! That's only true for shallow women and the same can be said for men
@girlzruleboyzdrool No men, or barely none, refuses to date a girl just bc she's broke
women are way harsher on men than vice versa
Not from where I'm from!
@girlzruleboyzdrool which is?
@AFellowWeeb did you knew that today 1/3 of relationships the women make more money?
Did you knew that as soon as they leave college on average girls make more money than guys?
Leave that age old mentality in the past where it belongs.
@ThisIsMyOpinion i can't. I make 6 figures working part time. Never met a girl on this level appropriate to date. Usually old ladies. Eww. Thats why i have an 18 year old girlfriend.
@ThisIsMyOpinion yes!! Thank you! Women are just as educated and are capable as well
@bamesjond0069 yeah that you spank for misbehavior. You clearly feel you're above everyone
@ThisIsMyOpinion Also why more and more men quit dating due to extremely high standards for women, check japan for exemple
@bamesjond0069 suuuuuure. Even if I believed you, if you enjoy the company of an 18 year old makes me think you have the maturity of one.
@girlzruleboyzdrool yes they are.
@AFellowWeeb I have no idea how dating life is going in Japan.
@ThisIsMyOpinion men quit dating all toghether in japan bc japanese women wanted equality, so they received it, fair is fair, so now they also work like men do, and their standards had risen so much that men just dont even bother to deal with that bs anymore, its exaclly whats happening here in the west
@AFellowWeeb did you knew that in Japan women have been allowed to take part in major decisions meetings just now? As long as they are shut up? I am not joking this is real!
news.sky.com/.../japan-women-allowed-to-attend-ruling-partys-meetings-as-long-as-they-keep-quiet-12220891
So my guess is that women want to work and equality, but they are not allowed to
Yes, this is what I believe.
@aliali8
wouldn't say that everyone has diff goals in life
I look good. I plan on staying single for life. Many women are disappointed. Sorry to sound cocky thats the truth
Women yes, men no. Men age like wine while women age like milk. A woman expire somewere between 25 and 30. Exactly when depends on the individual.
I'm 39 and definitely don't feel expired. I'm just entering my prime and I love it. Age is a number and that's it
you're just saying that to make yourself feel better. Because most girls in their 20s have no interest in an old man in his 40s. Even women in their 30s are reluctant to date a man in his 40s.
Why Do Women in Their 30s Not Want to Date Men in Their 40s?
www.evanmarckatz.com/.../why-do-women-in-their-30s-not-want-to-date-men-in-their-40s
I used to say this. But I only reserve this judgment for women past 30 who still think they can get away with being bitchy, fickle and just as big as a pain in the ass as they were at 19. They think acting like a cunt makes them “look younger” and it’s pathetic. THOSE are the immature women I’ll stick this concept too.
But I’ll never mock a single women in her 30s or older if she’s an overall decent person. Ever.
@guesswhoseback the truth is, you will find more bad seeds dating at 38 than dating at 28.
Until your my age and actually experienced all of this yourself than you are in no place to judge. Quit using articles and chit chat like it’s the ultimate truth and written in stone or something.
I only judge people with shitty and antagonistic attitudes (regardless of age). I’ll never had nor never will disparage an older single man or woman if they did nothing to me personally.
I remember a 40 yr old cougar who was banging my then 24 yr best friend (I was 24 at the time too). I had no interest in older women at the time but he did.
But she had major issues being raised in an abusive family and she lost her brother from a drug OD. She could be very bitter/depressed at times. But I never once saw her “take it out” on someone directly.
I also never at anytime gossip or disparage her. I felt sorry for her at times but that’s different than judging. I was able to do that when I was YOUR age at the time.
@guesswhoseback well you're 39 years old, so im not surprised you're pissed off at my question. But its the truth.
Not true at all! One day you'll understand.
And me being 40 in a few months makes me more of an expert than you. You haven't been through your late 20s or 30s yet. I havebpioes of friends that dated and even married older men. Sometimes we like men, not boys.
That article is only one opinion. If you dig around you'll see there are contradictory articles
@guesswhoseback totally agree. She's just a 25 year old so no life experience yet. Give her another 12 to 15 years lol
It's the truth to a 25 year old. You can't really answer for us at our age. We are both disagreeing with what you say so clearly that doesn't apply to everyone. Especially, us who itts about
@girlzruleboyzdrool My parents 60 years old, much older than you , told me that those over 40s are in fact left overs
@aliali8 my parents told me a lot of things that didn’t turn out to be true. Not because they were delusional but because they grew up in a much different time era. They didn’t have radical feminism, abundant porn, hypergamy culture and a digitized/social media culture warping everything. They taught me what worked for them. But they were unaware and naive by how radically different the times would change for my generation and especially your generation. Both birth control and higher education is making women put off marriage.
Do I hate my parents? No. I am frustrated that they were wrong but I love them nonetheless. But do I take everything they said as scripture? Nope.
I take the world from my own perspective and YOU SHOULD TOO. Formulate your own god damn opinion and do it by realizing you do NOT know what life can be like for some people.
@girlzruleboyzdrool she’s got other issues going on upstairs. Admittedly I occasionally said things in my 20s I later regretted but never to this extent. I wasn’t close minded on differing opinions. I didn’t judge other people UNLESS they judged me first.
Originally I thought she was debating a romantic ordeal with an older man. Maybe she was thinking to herself “why is this guy single at his age”. That would semi justify her obstinate opinion on this. Maybe an older guy broke her heart or something.
But as it turns out she claims that’s not the case. So why bother putting all this effort into just judging and shitting on older people?
by the way @aliali8 I have ZERO interest in dating you. Zero. I have dating and hooked up with many young women close to your age. I hooked up with an attractive 22 yr old just two months ago. It as completely genuine and treated her nice but I was NOT a sugar daddy.
I’m not saying that to brag (for real am not) but it’s also proof it’s not “game over” for my life. Getting married is another story but older people who have their shit together, take care of themselves and know how to communicate/listen to the opposite gender are still sexually viable.
But just because I’m older doesn’t mean I’m going to tolerate a real shitty judgmental attitude from young women. Girls your age can be naive and unknowingly nasty but most them aren’t haters.
While I do expect younger women to say stupid things out of lack of experience I also know the difference between youthful ignorance vs. hostile antagonism. You have shown nothing but latter on this entire post and all that shows is there is a deep problem with YOU.
Just quit the bullshit. This isn’t helping your own prospects for dating and marriage by the way. Your looks/youth will only take you so far.
Sure sure...
I am sure that fat 20 year old guy will be so much more desirable than the 20 year old girl who workout regularly by the time they hit 40.
@ThisIsMyOpinion exactly. Most 20 year olds have to TRY to be a fat ass at that age. It takes a special shitty diet and lack of motivation to be in shape when your body’s metabolism is firing on all cylinders and your hormone balances are perfect.
Then you meet fit people in their 30s and 40s (including fit moms and dads). That takes a special discipline, motivation and drive to be in shape. It also shows they most likely had a lifelong devotion to health. They are also sexually viable given that they have GOOD GENES. A girl in her 20s will know that if she gets knocked up by an athletic good looking 40 year old guy that there is a good chance her baby will inherit good longevity genes. Women subconsciously think about this when they have sex with guys (whether they intend to get pregnant or not). What genetic code is he contributing?
@guesswhoseback I’m sorry I triggered you so much. If you hate being a left over , why not just get married?
I’m not delusional that all younger women are going to want me by the way. Some will and some won’t. I know I don’t look as good as I did at 24. But I’m optimistic at least.
I know some younger girls prefer older guys and others want to nothing to do with them. I respect the latter’s opinion and never push it. But I have no shame about accepting the former.
Just let people do their thing and mind your own business. Unless someone antagonizes you first you have no right to judge.
@guesswhoseback
No, they don't have to try. Depends a lot of your genes, what happens to you if you don't workout.
Except she will prefer to date the 20 year old guy instead of someone almost old enough to be her father.
@ThisIsMyOpinion and that’s her choice and I respect it. But her shitting on other older guys (who never did anything wrong) is not okay.
At most I’ll say a simple hello to a younger woman and see how she reacts. But I definitely approach that much more carefully now vs. when I was their age.
Unfortunately there are some (aggressive) older creepy guys out there. That’s completely unacceptable and I’ll never act that way. I’ve called out guys on that before.
But I can see why she feels defensive if she has dealt with that.
@guesswhoseback yea old men on here think that just because young women like older guys then that means we also like old uncles or grandpas. It doesn’t work that way. I like older guys, but just 3-6 years older, not 13-16 years older
Well, hopefully some attractive girls would still find me attractive when I'm older. And no I don't have a girlfriend now either :P
@guesswhoseback I agree with that. It's her choice and no one should bash men who want to find a younger partner.
@aliali8 you and I are not going to agree. But can let’s at least TRY to agree on two things:
1. It’s NOT okay for a an older man to aggressively pursue a much younger woman (I’m talking about a 40 yr old pursuing a 19 yr old... much different than him pursing a 31 yr old woman).
Okay that’s wrong and creepy. But him just smiling and saying an innocent hello isn’t aggressive. But if she shows no interest he’s needs to move on (quick).
2. Whatever older single guys and women do and don’t do is nobody’s business. No one knows their full story and experience. If they mind their own business than just stay your lane. Keep your judgment to yourself.
Is that complicated?
@guesswhoseback Most women in their 30s do not want to marry men in their 40s.
Why Do Women in Their 30s Not Want to Date Men in Their 40s?
www.evanmarckatz.com/.../why-do-women-in-their-30s-not-want-to-date-men-in-their-40s
Men in their 40s are seen as old, and way past their prime. A 30 something yr old woman would only marry a man in his 40s, only if she cannot get a suitable partner thats closer to her age.
@guesswhoseback so whatever your exaggerations are about how most young 25 yr olds are marrying 40 yr old men. its just your imagination playing games with your mind. Its extremely rare that this ever happens. And usually if it does happen, she is in love with your money, not you.
You're weird. Your post can not speak for all women. I also find it a very odd thing to post
People fall in love thr way they're meant to and cross paths. For you to say 30 year old women (like your post above) do not like guys in their 40s is a load of crap. Come back to this post in 10 years and see if you feel differently
Why do you feel that women would not be attracted to an older man? So if you're 24 and you end up marrying someone at 29 , are you saying at 35 and he's 40 you won't love him anymore?
Relationships are not solely based on looks.
You can have the hottest guy around who's a complete asshole or so unintelligent that that is a huge turnoff. 😳 relationships are being in love with someone that you enjoy being with, laugh with, grow with, settle down with. You love them and it just happens. Compatibility is not solely based on looks.
Maybe to you. Which is shallow.
I find men of all ages attractive
If he's hot, he's hot. You're 25. I'm almost 40
I've been 26 27 28 29 30 and all the way to 39. I can speak personally, on my own view, that do not agree with your statements. I can do that because I've been those ages.
You can find articles that say the complete opposite at what you post.
So for shallow, selfish, arrogant, narcissistic females, like you. Yes. You wouldn't find someone older attractive because you think you're the hottest thing in the world.
I can't wait until you get older
I love being 39. I absolutely love it.
I have a freedom, friends, someone I love, who is attractive, and feel we have it all.
You make it seem like aging is a bad thing.
How sad you'll be when you're older
And if you marry and lose a partner for divorce or death, you will see your self as left overs... in my mind , you will be sloppy seconds.
@guesswhoseback well said
@ThisIsMyOpinion yup. Depends on the person
@girlzruleboyzdrool
Well according to research and statistics, women are marrying men 3 years older, on average. Not 13 years older.
Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conway-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them.
In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men.
Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
www.psychologytoday.com/.../what-we-know-about-age-gaps-in-dating-love-and-marriage
@girlzruleboyzdrool According to this link, the average age when a woman gets married is pretty similar to man's age of marriage. This pretty much means most couples are similar in age.
www.insider.com/when-people-get-married-every-state-2019-1
@girlzruleboyzdrool you're also much closer to 40 than 30. I can assume you have no problem dating a guy in his 40s.
@girlzruleboyzdrool thanks. I hope your doing well with whatever you are up to.
Yeah probably since 30s are considered prime
They aren't leftovers.
Unmarried women 40+ are absolutely leftovers.
Not all. But most, if they have never been married, will never get married. Being in that realm, I am very suspicious of women who have never been married. Why haven't they been married? How unappealing must they be that literally no man wanted them? And no, "engaged" doesn't count. Most of those women will never get married. Formally married women have a much better shot at finding love again than never married women of the same age.
@Floppy2112 They never got married because they are either too "picky", were too busy riding the cock carousel until the music stopped and the cocks went on to younger pussy, or no man could tolerate being with them long enough to get married.
I am betting you are very correct...
@Floppy2112 What "modern" women don't realize is that once they hit 25 the demographics begin to turnaround on them. At 25+ women begin to outnumber men and by the time they are 40+ demographic shift is significant. Women think they can party, party, party, spending their youthful Sexual Market Value like drunken sailors, when in fact they are spending their greatest asset.
Women have no one but themselves to blame.
Correct. Complete facts.
I am an unmarried 30 year old lefover as a man.
@Vivaldi 30? Your not in the ballpark of leftover. Men get into their peak of attractiveness in their 30's and 40s. You are nowhere near done. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
It's better to be alone than in a bad relationship. Waaaay better.
@Floppy2112
I am 30 years old but people on GAG say I look 40.
@Vivaldi And? Forget what these very young bitties are saying. They have no clue about life or relationships. The funniest part is they think they have control over relationships, but they don't. Men control relationship, women control sex.
Men in their 40's are the most attracted demographic of men. And there are a lot of things you can control. You can control your physical fitness, how your dress and your hair-do. And if you have money, that's the slam dunk.
Men date based on attractiveness, women look at resources. Ugly, rich dudes have a line of women around the block. I am sure your probably more handsome than many of them.
You can test this theory. Go to a known hook up spot, dressed like a shlep and see how you do. Then go there dressed like you have money (don't over do it) just look put together in such a way, indicating wealth. A good fake Rolex would help, just don't be flashy with it. You will see it with your very eyes!
@Floppy2112
![Do you believe unmarried men / women over 40 are "leftovers"?]()
I am 30 years old. Do I look nowhere near it to you?
@KrakenAttackin And what makes you think young women in their 20s want a man in his late 30s? According to research and and statistics, women tend to marry men 3 years older.
Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conway-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them.
In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men.
Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
www.psychologytoday.com/.../what-we-know-about-age-gaps-in-dating-love-and-marriage
en.wikipedia.org/.../Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
So your day dream about how most 20 something yr old women going for 38 yr old men is just a fantasy to make old grandpas feel better about getting old
@Floppy2112 Just take a look at the statistics posted above
@aliali8. This is not about me. I have been married and will never, ever, participate in the ritual sacrifice of my soul again, NEVER. No man should.
The point is that in their 20's woman can pick almost any man they want and build a life. The problem is women get so arrogant and "picky" not to mention obsessed with the cock carousel, that their most valuable years pass them by. When you party hard through your best years don't expect anyone to have sympathy for you when you are the crazy car lady.
@Kraken
I agree with pretty much everything you’re saying.
@floppy2112
I agree with everything your saying with one exception. I feel like the quality of girls in terms of looks and lifestyle I could get when I was younger was higher due to being better looking then as opposed to now. I’ve been in my 2nd marriage for 2 years now. Prior to that I was seeing so many girls I had to cut a bunch of them. It is true that now I’m way more stable in my career. I have money. Really the world is my oyster right now. I’m in the prince of life. I have way more wisdom than in my 20’s. It’s true in my 20’s I did have to try harder to get girls because they could get anyone they wanted and now I don’t even need to try, with the exception of one thing. I do have my pick of the litter of girls between say...33-60 years old, but I can’t get girls in their early 20’s anymore. Let’s face it, looks do count and no one looks better as they age. That’s the difference. So, yes, in many ways men do become more attractive as they age and gain stability and resources and acquire money and property. They are more attractive because they’re wiser. They are more attractive because if they’ve played their cards well they have it all going for them from 35-55 and baring a major set back can just coast. However they loose their looks. I’m not ugly now. I wasn’t in my 20’s, but hands down I was way better looking in my 20’s. I’m not out of shape now, but hands down I had a better bod in my 20’s. They myth men get more physically attractive with age is just that. A myth, with few notable exceptions.
*prime of life
@Exterminatore
Over 90% of the time, the only reason why a young woman would date a man 15-20 years her senior is because she is a gold digger. Men on here like to think that as he gets older, the more money he makes so the more likely he's gonna attract women.
Here is the truth:
no woman is going to be happy dating a guy she is not physically attracted to. And there is no way a 22 yr old is gonna be able to relate in any way shape or form with a 45 yr old man. The only thing she can get out of dating him is his cash. Yes, sure you can attract young women. But once you stop spending on her, she will disappear in less than a second.
Women in their 30s grow financially stable too. So as she gets older, the less likely she is to marry for money. Women hold professional careers, just like men do.
Most of us young women are looking for a young man around our age to spend the rest of our lives with. We aren't looking for an old man who is about to rot in an elderly home in a few years. Can't spend the rest of our lives with someone like that.
@Exterminatore live it to the fullest my man! I am happy for you. It sounds like you have the world by the balls. Give it hell! Salute!
@Vivaldi you look rugged. Look dude, don't put yourself down. Lots of people will be happy to do that for you. You look fine to me, but I am not a good judge of guys. You don't need all the girls to like you, you just need one. And if you want a woman and you prioritize that, you'll find her. Just don't settle for a nag just because you don't think you can do better. Respect yourself and others will respect you.
@KrakenAttackin As a young woman in my 20s, I cannot say that any girl in her 20s can get absolutely any guy. Most of us women can get a guy's interest easily, if we are decent looking. But young men tend to be pickiest. Older men usually have lower standards in terms of physical attraction and they also tend to be more desperate for young women. Younger guys tend to be less desperate and more picky.
But from my experience, most guys in their 40s usually have no interest in 20 something yr old women. If they do tend to pay any attention to 20 something yr old women, its usually because they want to use us for sex. 40 something yr old men tend to like 30 something yr old women. As they are more mature and can relate better to these old guys. Older folks tend to date older folks. Because they can understand and relate to each other better.
I'll be honest with you, I am 25 years old and pretty mature for my age. I have nothing in common and struggle to get along with anyone over 35.
@aliali8 "I'll be honest with you, I am 25 years old and pretty mature for my age." Lol! No the hell your are not!
The delusion is strong with you...
@Floppy2112 haha there was nothing immature about what I've said. I was just being plain mean to sexist woman haters.
I wasn't talking about what you said. I don't have time to read all that shit. I am talking about you. They way *you* act, not what you say. For being mature, you sure *act* immature.
Don't worry about getting married, nobody in their right mind would even consider it! So go on and get knocked up so you can read about your kids in those stats. Then get a male dog, because that's the only man who will stay with you.
@Floppy2112 This is definitely not the way I act towards regular people. This is only the way I act towards women hating bullies such as you , on here. Continue your woman hating rampage, and I will continue mine.
@KrakenAttackin "This is not about me. I have been married and will never, ever, participate in the ritual sacrifice of my soul again, NEVER. No man should."
LOL! That was poetry, man! Well said...
lol! That shut you up. Thanks for deriding me in 3 sentences rather than 3 pages... I'd be mad too if I were you. You seem miserable to be around.
@Floppy2112 I certainly love making you miserable.
@KrakenAttackin. I can understand why you would say that any woman in her 20s can get any guy. This is actually not true. There are plenty of young guys who don’t think the average looking young woman is good enough for him.
But it is true for old men. Old men are usually very desperate for young women. He would accept any young woman Because he knows he is out of his mating prime and his chances of getting someone and having children is growing slimmer and slimmer.
A 25 yr old woman who looks like a 5 out of 10 to the average young man, would look like a 7.5 out of 10 to an old man.
But you also have to figure out why these old guys are still single at their age. Usually it’s because he's a bad seed that nobody wanted during his prime. And usually if he’s quite shallow , that could be the reason why he's a bad seed.
No. I’m 23. I love older women.
I actually like older women way better than the girls around my age.
so you're saying you would date an old wrinkly 45 yr old woman?
@aliali8 not everyone is wrinkly at 45, some people age very well. If she looked good, and treated me good then yeah I would.
actually its pretty hard to find someone who ages well these days. I never find men over 40 to be attractive.
@aliali8 that’s not true lol. I like young women too but older women I can skip all the games and bullshit and that’s what I like.
well most people don't find old to be attractive. you're just one of the rare abnormal ones
@aliali8 your funny
True! I'm almost 40 and am physically the best shape I've been in, established in life, my kids are older, I've got good finances and loving life!! I'm happy with how I look. I feel bad for this young girl. Haha wait til her wake up call. Age is a number. And aging isn't bad at all! It's fun.
@girlzruleboyzdrool do you really think most 40 something yr old women look 26?
@girlzruleboyzdrool be my girlfriend?
Not everyone is attracted to 26. I for one am not interested in 26 year olds. I am attracted to men in my age demographic. Of course there are nice looking 20 30 year olds hit there are also nice looking 40 and up. Until you hit our age you won't get it. Not everyone is attracted to the same thing. And I know men that are more attracted to women in the same age demographic and older because of more mature bodies, more curves, more experience, more mature and intelligent. They're attracted to it. When I was in my 20s I was attracted to my boss who was 40. He was hot. He actually ended up marrying a friend of mine that worked there too. She was 3 years older than I. Fast forward and they're still married 16 years later and they're still married.
Why is looking like 26 something you have in your mind that is hot... let me guess. Bc you feel you're hot.
I've had more modeling jobs in the past 10 ,15 years than I did in my twenties bc ibdeveloped more of a figure, developed more and continue to work out and take care of myself. Being attractive is good hygiene and often people are attracted to people in the same age demographic bc its physical, sexual, intellectual, humor, adventure and friendship. That's what marriage is. Not a hookup
I married one of my guy friends on our group. We've known each other since we were teens , still dated others in between and got married at 25.
You're view is noted but only one sided
Awe hahha lol ❤ you're cute.
I'm married 😎
@girlzruleboyzdrool 🥲😇
@girlzruleboyzdrool hun Very few people are physically attracted to older women. Older men tend to date older women around their age because they cannot relate to someone 15-20 years younger. It’s highly unlikely a 45 yr old man is going to be able to relate to a 25 yr old woman. Sure he might find her attractive but no romance or marriage will result.
I disagree
Some of us were not built to find love.
some of you just weren't built to get along with lovers.
whatever it is
Not me I’m just as pure as I ever was
No. That's not a good theory
Man no not really but females YES
I knew this opinion would show up! xD I am still scrolling you won't be the last for sure.
@ThisIsMyOpinion it isn’t true. My aunt lost her husband when she was 40. So that means there’s something wrong with her? My BFF was in a horrible marriage and got out of it. She was in her early 30s. She had to start back in the dating scene again. It wasn’t until she was 40 she found someone.
@Teenybop of course. People can find love at any age
im not sure, probably depends on the person
No thats just societies BS standards.
mentally ill <- me
women yes. men not necessarily.
I am 30 and a leftover.
do you realize women in their 30s do not even want to date men in their 40s?
They may not WANT men in their 40s but what other choice do they have? men can date women years younger than them.
actually no, here are some research and statistics:
www.psychologytoday.com/.../what-we-know-about-age-gaps-in-dating-love-and-marriage
Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conway-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them.
In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men.
Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
www.google.com/search
Just like women can and do date men younger than they are.
Women can date any man any age if they want because they have pussies.
@Vivaldi they may be able to have sex with any man any age but there's no way they can date them.
You would be surprised.
From my experience, attractive woman at any age can get dates. This goes for both genders. I know men on here love shitting on older women. But its the truth. If you can manage to look hot into your 40s as a woman, you WILL get dates.
The reality is that the older a man gets, the less likely he is to have children. Once he is still single and unmarried by 40, it is unlikely he will ever have kids. Women typically do not tend to look for old men to have kids with.
"Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conway-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them.
In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men.
Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years."
www.psychologytoday.com/.../what-we-know-about-age-gaps-in-dating-love-and-marriage
Obviously not.
Of course not
Women yes, men no.
im 25 and I don't find old ugly guys to be attractive. Sorry. Nobody wants your subpar sperm.
@aliali8 I dont know why they think it is ok to men to be much older. Most young women do not like to be with older guys. I am 30; now I like guys in 30s. When I was a teen/in early 20s not at all
To both replies... I've seen the exact same copy and paste replies all over this site on other posts.
If you want to be insulting, at least try to be original.
I haven't copy and paste. That's for sure. May be our thoughts are same. That why it sounds familiar. Which is true in case of your opinion too. I didn't think it was "insulting" 🙄. If it is there are many comme ts much more insultinh to aging women
*insulting
@Rashnaa he’s just trying to get his hopes up. He thinks that just cus young women like older guys then it means we also like old uncles or grandpas. I only like men 3-5 years older , not 13-15 years older. Not into old uncles. Sorry
Most women in their 30s are reluctant to even marry a guy in his 40s. If she does it’s usually because she is settling and can’t get anyone better
I was just trying to trigger the feminists... because it's so darn easy and fun and it works so well. 😉
I wasn't triggered. I was just trying to clarify up your misunderstanding.
here's proof:
Empirical evidence has also accumulated in support of women's preferences for older men, and as you might expect, the data often overlap with those data supporting men's preferences. As this sample of Conway-Beam and Buss's (2019) review suggests:
Cross-culturally, women report wanting partners who are (on average) 3.5 years older than them.
In online dating, women make the first contact with older men at a greater than rate they do younger men.
Marriage records show that women are marrying men who are older than they are by about 3 years.
www.psychologytoday.com/.../what-we-know-about-age-gaps-in-dating-love-and-marriage
en.wikipedia.org/.../Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
Bla bla bla... I get all the younger women I want.
quit lying. most young women like men in their prime. Not some old fat uncle like you.
Keep dreaming honey. You know you want me. 😉
do you realize people over the age of 45 are undatable?
Tell that to the women I am dating.
you probably don't have a dating life. Most men in their 40s don't.
I was going to respond, but sorry, I died of old age first... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Even a hot 18 yr old feminist wouldn't want you.
You know any? 🤪
Only a pervert like you would date an 18 yr old. My dad would beat your ass all the way to africa.
LOL
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you're the reason why dads are obsessed with beating up their daughter's boyfriends.
way too many perverts running around preying on young girls.
You know you're not too old to spank! 😎
Most of us young ladies are not attracted to you.
Okay... prove that you are not by not responding to this and ending the conversation.
haha pervert.
SEE! That's a response! Prove you aren't interested by NOT responding.
im just saying unmarried men over the age of 40 usually have something wrong with them. Most are bad seeds.
I definitely have something wrong with me.
Okay... now show your lack of interest by ending the conversation and I will not post here again.
@aliali8 "do you realize people over the age of 45 are undatable?" Sounds like you and people over 45 have something in common... lol
@Floppy2112 There are many people over 40 who are bad seeds. Its not hard to find a bad seed within that age range. You will find that a lot of these people usually have mental issues , immature, can't handle conflict, shallow, have unusually high standards, or the type of guy who only dates teenage girls then dumps them when they turn into women.
And usually folks after 45 are not physically attractive at all. This makes up most of them. I call them undatable due to this.
She has a point!
![Do you believe unmarried men / women over 40 are "leftovers"?]()
Embrace being single dude
I do! I do!
Wait a second... maybe a bad choice of words. But the point is still true. 😉
Are we still chatting?
I guess I’m the only young woman to have paid you attention in a long time right?
Sorry to burst your bubble, but that would be no.
Not at all
No, not at all.
Nope