Your thoughts on this? Would you feel comfortable with your spouse alone in a office or conference room with the opposite sex?
This is a sore subject with me as my husband hates this. I work in a field with a lot of men, I’m also high up in my company and in my field so often I’m one of if not the only women in the room.
my husband hates when I have conversations with any man, and it pushes me off. It’s not like I’m gonna risk getting fired by having sex at work. It’s just silly and annoying. I mean texting exists, why would I risk doing it at work, surely I could just text? Try to meet up after? I don’t think but it’s annoying, it’s my job, men exist. What am I suppose to do?
when he visited me last time he decided I’m too nice and talkative to men, and I seem too interested in them. From my end, I’m not interested, I’m not even attracted, I’m just trying to be nice as an introvert.
i tried saying it’s not even real niceness, im forcing myself out there because in reality, I’d rather just be alone. But I need to be friendly and nice as I work with people. I smile and listen and that’s about it. But he says even that is too flirty 😒
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If she is going to have a job it would have to be that way. What draconian laws are you quoting now? If God wanted men to be alone he wouldn't have made Eve to be Adam's "helper". We are not living under the Old Testament anymore and it's laws.
Seems a little restrictive and is based on a lack of trust. Perhaps we could use this thinking as a general rule or aspiration but I don't think it's realistic. Unless we train a whole lot more professionals based on sex profiling.. We could call it positive affirmation..
That's an unrealistic rule. Often, at work, a man and a woman are working together on a project in an office together, with no one else around.
Someone who makes such a rule has self- confidence and trust issues.
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Why? Is rape culture really so strong that just a few minutes alone with anyone is widely recognized as dangerous?
Good god that’s a lot of insecurity. Such a healthy dynamic in a relationship. 🙄
Terrible advice and extraordinarily impractical.
they should have their wedding rings on
Unless its immediate family, I agree
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