In a marriage should the husband be the primary decision maker or should he allow his wife to have an equal voice in making decisions? (Page 2)

[Surely]

To me it depends on who will benefit or use the decision the most. Say kitchen items or layouts or lawn mowers. Things like vacation homes and trips would entail some mutual agreements.

[exitseven]

My wife is the boss. She knows it and I know i.

[LadyKitty]

50/50 Nobody should have more say than the other.

[Nice222]

Luckily my wife and I agree on many things and decisions. Sometimes we talk and debate certain decisions. But they almost never turn into arguments. I would say it’s not 50/50 but very close and it works for us.

[LiamJHayden]

One needs to have the final word, but the person who disregards the concerns and input of the partner is an idiot

[Anonymous]

There is always a leader and a follower in any relationship, and that includes marriage. Having said that, female led relationships are rarely healthy or successful in the long run.

[Anonymous]

50/50. it's a team, not a one man decision.

[Quigly]

Depends on the person, some people have poor judgement and decision making skills.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

The wife should have a say in the matter but ultimately the husband has the last say in the matter.

[MrDaveAPSI]

She should be heard but he should make the ultimate decision

[Lionheart69]

Decisions should discussed and agreed upon or a compromise agreed.

[laly520]

they gotta discuss it n decide together

[Sharkstealth]

Why does the woman take the man's name?

[Nikki1989]

Many don't.

[Jennz6]

@Kelly1 it’s a man’s DNA 🧬 to be Dominant

[TallAnon]

Whatever the couple prefers

[Jennz6]

@TallAnon but he makes me agree with him

[TallAnon]

If you are ok with that, then that's fine; If not, change how things are.

[KrakenAttackin]

No ship has two Captains.

[IslaTheWitch]

fortunately relationship is not a ship and partners are not a captain and his crew

[Anonymous]

I think it should be 50-50.

[OtterMan68]

equal say