Why is it socially acceptable for a girl to reject a guy solely because he is short? (Page 2)
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It's "acceptable" for women to do a lot of stuff men can't if a woman touches a guys penis she's being playful but if a guy touches a woman's boob/vaginia it's assault and that's just one out of many examples so don't take it personally
Ahhh very good point.
Its not women's fault most men are desperate enough to like a random groping his dick.
Women have enough decency to not want a stranger touching their *private* areas
I'm just saying women can do it without getting trouble but men can't
@been_waiting But y'all have the small mental capacity to not realize that height and assertiveness don't correlate.
@Red_Dragon pls tell me how the fuck what I said relates to height.
@been_waiting It doesn't. I'm just pointing out the female shortcomings... and it relates to the question so...
@Red_Dragon it was just extremely irrelevant to what I was saying. But... you do realize even men see huge guys and think "woah better not fuck with them" and even Amazonian women are regarded as able to defend themselves well even it they're weak as shit
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Hahaha there you go with that again. Remember when I told you that people seem to fear me? People would rather pick at the tall big talkative guy than the short quiet "weird" guy.
"even it they're weak as shit" <---- So you admit that people are sheep?
In general most people would sooner pick a fight with a 5'5" dude than a 6'3" dude. Lesbihonestdoe.
Um yeah I'm admitting strength isn't necessarily connected to height. A taller person could have an advantage but I've seen short dudes kick some tall guys asses.
@been_waiting Lesbihonest is a term used in a lesbian coming out the closet such context.
Anyway, because society says so. Exactly. Society influences them. Are you ready to admit that? It's a false illusion and when they decide to pick on that 5'5 guy and he beats their ass then they'll know it's not about height.
Tall guys don't necessarily have the advantage either. They have to punch down instead of up. That's hard to do and you lose power that way. Now in MMA reach advantage works because typically everybody is the same height or close to it.
@Red_Dragon I'm aware, I still find it funny in all contexts. Why so serious.
And you're kidding yourself if you think the only reason girls like tall guys is because they think he can fight better. Being big does give the impression of being a better defender (regardless of sex!) But that's not the sole reason girls are attracted to tall guys.
@been_waiting I don't know it just sounded out of place lol.
Well me and you have been talking about this over and over again and I've yet to see any other reason. They keep saying over and over and over "protection", "security", "defense", etc. I again ask protection and security from what? Aren't they adults? Aren't they grown? If someone wants to get them they will regardless of who they are with. They'll shoot him and still get to her. I just don't understand it.
@Red_Dragon this is actually the second time :p
but like I said it isn't just protection.
Why do so many guys like big boobs/big asses? They can try to rationalize it but a lot of attraction is innate and biological.
But if I must try- tallness is associated with masculinity. Traits that are characteristically masculine will be attractive in men same way characteristically feminine traits will be attractive in women.
Also a lot of women enjoy feeling a lot smaller than their guy.
I'm not saying only tall men are attractive though.
@been_waiting I understand that. However, that goes back to what I was saying before about people blaming nature. Hell if we want to give nature excuses then why do we punish people who kill and steal if what they are doing is for the sake of survival? We are humans. Not animals. This is my point. People let nature combined with society's nurture define them.
I don't just like big asses and big boobs. I like small little asses just as much so long it belongs to a female. And tits I don't care about so long the girl has tits. They don't have to be big.
I guess I'm more open than most people, but I've also noticed that people on here are more conditioned (combination of nature and nurture) than the real world really is.
@been_waiting While the world is bad it's magnified on here.
@Red_Dragon attraction is different from actions.. actions that hurt people. How do you not see the difference?
@been_waiting What if actions are based on nature?
@Red_Dragon
no guy can help the fact that his dick gets hard when he sees certain traits.
Same way *some* people might have the urge to steal but that is easily overcame. Obviously you don't steal because it is morally wrong. Attraction isn't morally wrong.
@been_waiting I know, but again the brain is the most powerful organ. It controls everything else. Everything. However, the human brain is more prone to nature and nurture more than anything else with a brain. If it's nature then why can I get attracted to thin girls too? Why does small butts attract me too? Why do other races and girls of multiple height attract me? What's wrong with my nature? I guess I'm not as natural? Does that mean my brain isn't as good? Since it controls all these things.
@Red_Dragon not all people are attracted to a wide rang of body types like you are. That didn't make them wrong nor does it mean anything other than you happen to appreciate a wide range of body types.
Wtf pardon my typos. Sleep deprived af.
@been_waiting No I'm saying it means I'm not as natural as them then. I'm not as natural and nurtured right? My brain isn't as natural. Right? My brain is lesser than theirs is.
@Red_Dragon that's a weird way to look at it. Many factors determine attraction, probably even ones that we don't know about. So no not really.
@been_waiting Then explain to me how someone who has "closed" preferences (only want someone who is their race, only want someone who is a certain height, etc.) is not more natural than someone who doesn't care about those?
Also, if nature is going to define us then why do many girls on here say "size doesn't matter"? Now I know most are inexperienced but explain... is this nature too?
@Red_Dragon nature is a factor. Who says it has the final say?
And penis size preference has less to do with attraction and more with experience.
Not saying girls with lots of experience prefer larger ones, I'm just saying it depends on her sexual experiences. Not necessarily the amount though.
@been_waiting So you'll admit that people are conditioned into attraction and that they can help it? That it's not nature? Which is it? LOL
Penis size from a biological standpoint and natural standpoint makes sense. If the penis is longer it has a better chance of successful reproduction. Let's not even debate on the sexual stimulation advantages. If "bigger is better" then why isn't penis size (something that literally has to do with sex) not also included into the "natural pool"? I'll tell you why. Because people choose what nature they want to include and what they don't include. Even if it's subconsciously.
@been_waiting So when a girl says she only wants a tall guy it's a choice due to nurture and some nature but it's something she can help. It's something she in her mind chose. It's not something where it's like "Oh well she can't help it." Yes she can.
@Red_Dragon like I've already said. Nature is part of it. Nurture is another. And I'm sure there's many others.
@been_waiting Then it's no excuse to just say "it's natural". It's more complex than that.
@been_waiting I think we both agree on that at least.
@Red_Dragon well you have a habit of asking people why they like what they like physically and its easy to say nature. Considering you can't really pinpoint why someone is attracted to something.
@been_waiting LOL yeah I agree.
For the same reason it's socially acceptable for a man to reject a woman for not having an ass. Because preferences...
It seems to be a requirement, not a preference.
Plus, it's not socially acceptable for a man to do that...
It's socially acceptable to have your own preferences.
Life isn't fair..