That's just ridiculous. Rape and child molestation includes someone getting attacked without their will. Comparing A raping B, to A having consentual sex with B without necessary C's permission - what's wrong with you? Not that I agree on cheating.
No, you're comparing apples to grapes, so she doesn't have to. That's like comparising enjoying smoking to enjoying car exhaust, because they both kill. You're missing an important part.
The difference is whom you harm and lack of consent of someone inside the bed. One sex is unagreed upon by your love, other sex is unagreed by someone in the bed. Cheating causes emotional harm for "absent" one, rape causes emotional harm (and more) for a present person. Not to mention that in cheating noone is forced to have sex.
In that noone is forced against his will. If someone fails to keep a promise of being only with you, it doesn't make you go or do against your will. As awful as cheating is. In rape you have nothing to say on what happens. Someone is forcing you into sex and you are 100% inside the situation, and you have no steering on your behaviour. Your will means nothing.
Exactly not this. They are in control of THEIR actions. Hmm, it's a bit like with gossiping and with being called names. In first case, you're in a way 'outside of gossiping', in second case ypu're fully in the situation. It confronts you. I might not be the best at explaining...
Of course not, I never claimed otherwise. Are we talking about the same thing?
A[cheating is ok because pleasure stuff] - this is dumb, I think we agree on it B[cheating in this case is like sadism because both mean harm to one person which is bad therefore cheating is bad] - is that what you're trying to say?
@OliverStunt Cheating is like sadism or sexual violence because they are both selfish acts aimed to pleasure the perpetrator with no regard for the harm they could cause to other people.
Coming from a beautiful woman like you ( im guessing ) that makes sense but it depends on the situation & how that person reacts if they feel cheating is bad or not
Cheating is a bad person why you want to cheat on your girlfriend or wife or boyfriend or husband and you say cuz of pleasure that's bad that you don't need other ladies with other men to make you happy
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Are you stupid? Why even be in a relationship if you can't control your urges? You're hurting a person for no reason. I hope life really knocks you on your ass one day.
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Does rape make you a bad person? How about child molestation?
Everyone has needs, therefore it is totally A-OK.
That's just ridiculous. Rape and child molestation includes someone getting attacked without their will. Comparing A raping B, to A having consentual sex with B without necessary C's permission - what's wrong with you?
Not that I agree on cheating.
@OliverStunt How does that matter at all?
OP is excusing a behavior -solely- on the basis that it brings pleasure to the perpetrator.
Logically, she has to agree that rape and child molestation are also 100% ok.
No, you're comparing apples to grapes, so she doesn't have to.
That's like comparising enjoying smoking to enjoying car exhaust, because they both kill. You're missing an important part.
I agree that excusing cheating based on pleasure reasoning is awful, just that example doesn't hold ground.
@OliverStunt It does, there is literally no difference in the principle.
The difference is whom you harm and lack of consent of someone inside the bed. One sex is unagreed upon by your love, other sex is unagreed by someone in the bed.
Cheating causes emotional harm for "absent" one, rape causes emotional harm (and more) for a present person. Not to mention that in cheating noone is forced to have sex.
@OliverStunt In other words, in both cases there is one victim who is caused emotional harm against their consent.
Where exactly is the difference?
In that noone is forced against his will. If someone fails to keep a promise of being only with you, it doesn't make you go or do against your will. As awful as cheating is.
In rape you have nothing to say on what happens. Someone is forcing you into sex and you are 100% inside the situation, and you have no steering on your behaviour. Your will means nothing.
@OliverStunt So what you are saying is that people who get cheated on are in control of the situation and get cheated on according to their own will?
Exactly not this. They are in control of THEIR actions.
Hmm, it's a bit like with gossiping and with being called names. In first case, you're in a way 'outside of gossiping', in second case ypu're fully in the situation. It confronts you.
I might not be the best at explaining...
@OliverStunt "I might not be the best at explaining... "
Maybe because your argument is just very weak, or no argument at all.
Whether they are "in control of their actions" doesn't really change anything on whether they are being caused severe emotional harm.
Of course not, I never claimed otherwise. Are we talking about the same thing?
A[cheating is ok because pleasure stuff] - this is dumb, I think we agree on it
B[cheating in this case is like sadism because both mean harm to one person which is bad therefore cheating is bad] - is that what you're trying to say?
@OliverStunt Cheating is like sadism or sexual violence because they are both selfish acts aimed to pleasure the perpetrator with no regard for the harm they could cause to other people.
In this regard, yes.
Thank you for your time.
Coming from a beautiful woman like you ( im guessing ) that makes sense but it depends on the situation & how that person reacts if they feel cheating is bad or not
Bullshit
Yes cheating is wrong but it doesn’t make you a bad personality at least it’s not murder or something
Cheating is a bad person why you want to cheat on your girlfriend or wife or boyfriend or husband and you say cuz of pleasure that's bad that you don't need other ladies with other men to make you happy
Are you stupid? Why even be in a relationship if you can't control your urges? You're hurting a person for no reason. I hope life really knocks you on your ass one day.
I believe it is a form of treason, of betrayal. You betray the one you love by fucking someone else. Cheating is 100% bad in my mind
Cheating makes you an untrustworthy liar.
it makes you a bad person because you have to think about how the other person feels
Andddd you’re a piece of shit. 🤷🏼♀️
It 100% makes you a fucking cunt
Serial killers take pleasure from killing people. Are you saying serial killers are angels?
If you cheat lose your trustworthyness.
Not bad, just liberated. And a feminist waste basket filled with cock snot.
It makes you less trustworthy
Yes rotten to the core
Yes.
It makes you an awful person
No it makes you a good person
No, just worse person
Noppeee
Yes.