So you guys I’m short and I know it but I’m fit n confident in my looks.. only thing is that I’m considered short so at work I tend to wear high heels and big shoes like the type of Stella McCartney’s... How can I just accept my height n how short I am n be confident about it.. cause I can feel how men look at me when I have a few extra inches on me in contrast to when I’m wearing a regular sports shoes that reveals my height.. it’s like they’re not interested n they look at me oddly or think of me as a child.. I’m 24 by the way
A pic below is from the internet “NOT ME” 4’11 against 6’8 😱
In the end, friends leave, lovers die and memories fade. But throughout life, we have one thing that stays with us. And thats our relationship with ourselves. We're our own best friend.
It a real shame that people go through life not loving themselves and constantly wanting to change. So kudos to you for taking the first step in trying to love you for what you are.
I believe it all starts with owning yourself. Accepting that there's somethings you can't change and that you shouldn't. Telling yourself over and over how great a person you are until it becomes second nature, and being mindful when you notice your thoughts going to a bad place.
On a lighter note, i find short girls more attractive than regular heights. And there are plenty of guys out that feel the same.
I don't see the problem. If you're short then you are short. I've never met a man that would have a problem with it. Everyone has something about them that they don't like. Embrace it. Sometimes it comes in handy lol I was at Disney with my friend. She's 4'9" and she was able to squeeze herself through every crowd and got everywhere quicker. I had to wait a long time to use the restroom. She got there within seconds.
I'm short too, 5 feet. I also have ben in professional situations where my height has sort of made me feel like I wasn't taken seriously. Or a male professional has remarked on my height in a... well, not in a mean way, but sort of teasing. It doesn't feel good. You just have to BE professional. Do your work. If you build up a good reputation, no one will care about your height.
I just commented on a 4'11 post Lol I myself consider myself short, perhaps not normal but guys don't mind actually I think they like that I have to look up to them. But me giving the first kiss is out of the question because I would probably need a ladder or a sturdy box Lol
Most guys dont care about height and either way want a girl shorter than them, especially a girl who can wear heels and still be shorter than them lol I guess you have to learn to be happy with yourself, you only have 1 body so work with what you got (: I'm sure you will find a guy out there who will be more than willing to put you on his shoulders to make you feel tall lol it's also a cute thing to do haha
I've never heard a guy say he doesn't want to date a girl who was too short. I have actually heard some guys say they don't want to date girls who are too tall.
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