I don't know much about other people's opinions but I don't really oppose any of that, however I think it should all be done in moderation. To explain my take on each of your examples one by one: Earrings are nice but gigantic 10 inch interlocking hoop rings are over the top Makeup is nice until it starts to actually hide what she looks like, then it becomes either deceptive or downright ridiculous Heels are nice but 8 inch one are over the top Nails being done are nice unless they are super long or a really weird color, then they look tacky or distracting
We know how the woman is the most beautiful (completely naked) but how we can't live in that beautiful world. We must stand with those things which sometimes are an art, and I like the art, but others are just a way to express insecurities. I think that the second option is the one they are thinking when they read about make up. (In fact make up factories increased their sold with the crisis because women used it to get self-confidence)
In conclusion: to make things of girls are good for you, give self-confidence, and help to present the best version of yourselves, but for us, there isn't anything as beautiful as your eyes when you are really in love with someone
They (the majority of men) say they don't like skirts and makeup because they are told by society that beauty is unimportant and should focus more on the inside... so they jus go along with that rule like sheep without thinking about what they really like (probably cos they're too dumb too realise this)
But me... personally.. I love girly girls who wear make up and shit cos I don't give a fuck about societys stupid little rules,
The only time I don't like feminine characteristics is when they are on a male
Well I think the answer to that is rather complex I like femininity I do not think I "bash" makeup but I am not a fan not big on high heels either and many of the things you mention though I do like dresses I think I probably would see femininity conceptually different than you might I don't see makeup as being feminine I see it as disingenuous for example But even with makeup and all the other stuff to some extent it can be a matter of degree Less is more sometimes and I think often when men speak out against these things it is with the way over the top examples in mind and not the tastefully done examples When I see a woman with a pound of junk smeared over her face walking around in shoes she can barely keep from twisting her ankles in and smelling like a chemical plant it is just too much and it is repulsive
The majority of men don't do that. I have noticed that the ones that do that are mysogynist, men (that they are attracted to women) that want to be like a woman or be treated like a woman, and gays. ... in conclusion, men that just hate females and feminity or they are jealous or envious of women. PS. If a men say that they appreciate or prefer a girl that, for example, doesn't wear too much make up... that doesn't mean they hate make up or something, they just want to show the girl that he like her just like she is naturally :)
Nah this is definitely a thing. Guys oogle girls who are 'put together' makeup, shoes, outfit, nails, hair on fleek and then bash them when they realize how much effort she puts into looking that way. It's hypocritical to enjoy the outcome without respecting the process.
For the stereotypical man to be socially accepted by other men, he needs to constantly demonstrate his masculinity. One way they do this, is by openly condemning or mocking things that are feminine. Men typically enjoy feminine qualities in women, but that is different than a man enjoying feminine things themselves.
An example:
A person might dislike all varieties of nuts, but when it comes to peanut butter they might enjoy it. Even though the peanut butter is made of nuts, which they don't like, they can still enjoy something that is made out of things that they dont enjoy.
I don't know why because I'm in that number who's a huge, huge fan of all those girly girl touches. A woman who has gone to all the trouble to add those girly touches is telling me that she values her femininity and wants to do all she can to look her very best. There's nothing sexier that a very feminine woman who's an assertive, accomplished professional and a willing submissive with a masochistic streak in bed. I've been with lots of them and they are amazing women.
I don't know why that is. I love a girly girl that sort of thing seems to be in short supply these days. A man should be there to protect his girly girl. Just my instinct. But there is a happy medium. I don't want her incapable of doing anything tough. Lol
Being a guy most of us have a habit of telling woman what they want to hear or what we think they want to hear cuz any man knows a mad woman is not what we want to deal with so if your feminity 9 out of 10 guys especially if interested in u will side with your side of the opinion but honestly which I am I will say what I think if people like it hate it I don't give a shit it's my outlook on it I sometimes like a really dolled up girl and sometimes I like that chilling at home no makeup thing but if it's my girl I want to fall in love with the real you not the plastic version of you
I've seen this rarely, One, in situation where girls thing being girly girl is acting dumb, Two, when acting girly makes them act superficial. Three, when a guy likes nerds because they do some boyish stuffs and want girls that share more boyish stuffs
well as a guy of course i like when girls wear dress and makeup etc but most guys want to be able to show the girl they like that they are truly beautiful to them and not just because of the makeup or anything artificial that the girl truly means something to them personality-wise and emotionlly. Us guys don’t ever want our girls to feel like they are ugly because to us they never are.
I don't think femininity is about the clothes you wear. I think men just like an all-natural, feminine beauty. Long hair, soft skin, feminine silhouette, etc. I think it's a bit silly to say that you can't love femininity and not like heels, make-up, etc, because those things aren't what make a girl feminine
Usually its used to bash someone else, like another guys tendencies. But to directly bash it, it's more about not understanding why, even though we appreciate the outcome of the why, as in, how good a woman looks after using makeup or doing yoga or getting a facial...
There was a point in time when makeup didn't exist. Neither did high heels or jewelry. These thing often compliment the the female figure. But that is not what makes a person a woman. Just as a man can't just put on some eye shadow and lipstick, grow out his hair, spray on some perfume, and put on a dress and high heels and now he is a woman. That is an insult to women. Saying all that makes them a girl is something anyone can do.
Again, there was a point in time where men still found women attractive enough to want to reproduce, even without all the modern things women do to feminise themselves. I'd argue that this is this same for all of us guys who enjoy a natural woman in her natural state
Interesting point. Hm, now that I think about how much of mens fashion was designed by men, and not women influencing men based on what they found attractive. We know women love abs, so what if they in some way could have had Roman gladiators fight shirtless in the arenas? And how much of their armor was structured off of that, to please women? Did they chisel and make all their statues based off of what women thought was the ideal male physique? And when corsets were introduced, I thought I remember hearing despite the problems, many women chose to wear them, because they loved how it enhanced their waist/hip ratio. I wonder how much beauty and fashion trends men created for women, that women chose to let live on throughout the ages, because they themselves loved it and chose to wear it because they loved their femininity and womanhood. And vice versa
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I don't know much about other people's opinions but I don't really oppose any of that, however I think it should all be done in moderation.
To explain my take on each of your examples one by one:
Earrings are nice but gigantic 10 inch interlocking hoop rings are over the top
Makeup is nice until it starts to actually hide what she looks like, then it becomes either deceptive or downright ridiculous
Heels are nice but 8 inch one are over the top
Nails being done are nice unless they are super long or a really weird color, then they look tacky or distracting
We know how the woman is the most beautiful (completely naked) but how we can't live in that beautiful world. We must stand with those things which sometimes are an art, and I like the art, but others are just a way to express insecurities.
I think that the second option is the one they are thinking when they read about make up.
(In fact make up factories increased their sold with the crisis because women used it to get self-confidence)
In conclusion: to make things of girls are good for you, give self-confidence, and help to present the best version of yourselves, but for us, there isn't anything as beautiful as your eyes when you are really in love with someone
They like femininity, but they don’t like prissy or high maintenance. The two are often confused and sometimes even used synonymously.
They (the majority of men) say they don't like skirts and makeup because they are told by society that beauty is unimportant and should focus more on the inside... so they jus go along with that rule like sheep without thinking about what they really like (probably cos they're too dumb too realise this)
But me... personally.. I love girly girls who wear make up and shit cos I don't give a fuck about societys stupid little rules,
The only time I don't like feminine characteristics is when they are on a male
Well I think the answer to that is rather complex
I like femininity I do not think I "bash" makeup but I am not a fan not big on high heels either and many of the things you mention though I do like dresses
I think I probably would see femininity conceptually different than you might
I don't see makeup as being feminine I see it as disingenuous for example
But even with makeup and all the other stuff to some extent it can be a matter of degree
Less is more sometimes and I think often when men speak out against these things it is with the way over the top examples in mind and not the tastefully done examples
When I see a woman with a pound of junk smeared over her face walking around in shoes she can barely keep from twisting her ankles in and smelling like a chemical plant it is just too much and it is repulsive
well are these women feminine?
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nothing on the world is sexier to me than this type of girls
The majority of men don't do that. I have noticed that the ones that do that are mysogynist, men (that they are attracted to women) that want to be like a woman or be treated like a woman, and gays. ... in conclusion, men that just hate females and feminity or they are jealous or envious of women.
PS. If a men say that they appreciate or prefer a girl that, for example, doesn't wear too much make up... that doesn't mean they hate make up or something, they just want to show the girl that he like her just like she is naturally :)
*Your* definition of femininity is not the same as what *other* men’s concept of femininity may be.
Some guys including me like girls with nail polish, high heels, long hair etc.
Some of these aren’t even considered ‘feminine’ in some cultures, so most of these are social construct
Nah this is definitely a thing. Guys oogle girls who are 'put together' makeup, shoes, outfit, nails, hair on fleek and then bash them when they realize how much effort she puts into looking that way. It's hypocritical to enjoy the outcome without respecting the process.
The only time I don't like girly or feminine things is when it has to do with other guys. But in regards to women I have no issues.
For instance I have nothing agaisnt makeup so long as it's not overdone, and is used correctly.
Anything in excess or overdone can be bad that includes normally good things.
Your nice, I like you 😂👍
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For the stereotypical man to be socially accepted by other men, he needs to constantly demonstrate his masculinity. One way they do this, is by openly condemning or mocking things that are feminine. Men typically enjoy feminine qualities in women, but that is different than a man enjoying feminine things themselves.
An example:
A person might dislike all varieties of nuts, but when it comes to peanut butter they might enjoy it. Even though the peanut butter is made of nuts, which they don't like, they can still enjoy something that is made out of things that they dont enjoy.
I don't know why because I'm in that number who's a huge, huge fan of all those girly girl touches. A woman who has gone to all the trouble to add those girly touches is telling me that she values her femininity and wants to do all she can to look her very best. There's nothing sexier that a very feminine woman who's an assertive, accomplished professional and a willing submissive with a masochistic streak in bed. I've been with lots of them and they are amazing women.
I don't know why that is. I love a girly girl that sort of thing seems to be in short supply these days. A man should be there to protect his girly girl. Just my instinct. But there is a happy medium. I don't want her incapable of doing anything tough. Lol
Being a guy most of us have a habit of telling woman what they want to hear or what we think they want to hear cuz any man knows a mad woman is not what we want to deal with so if your feminity 9 out of 10 guys especially if interested in u will side with your side of the opinion but honestly which I am I will say what I think if people like it hate it I don't give a shit it's my outlook on it I sometimes like a really dolled up girl and sometimes I like that chilling at home no makeup thing but if it's my girl I want to fall in love with the real you not the plastic version of you
I've seen this rarely,
One, in situation where girls thing being girly girl is acting dumb,
Two, when acting girly makes them act superficial.
Three, when a guy likes nerds because they do some boyish stuffs and want girls that share more boyish stuffs
because they assort it with high maintenace or don't understand the thought and effort to look "feminine".
I laugh when I hear a guy say they don't like make-up but obviously go for girls who put on make-up, or think that nude make-up is no make up
well as a guy of course i like when girls wear dress and makeup etc but most guys want to be able to show the girl they like that they are truly beautiful to them and not just because of the makeup or anything artificial that the girl truly means something to them personality-wise and emotionlly. Us guys don’t ever want our girls to feel like they are ugly because to us they never are.
I don't think femininity is about the clothes you wear. I think men just like an all-natural, feminine beauty. Long hair, soft skin, feminine silhouette, etc. I think it's a bit silly to say that you can't love femininity and not like heels, make-up, etc, because those things aren't what make a girl feminine
Usually its used to bash someone else, like another guys tendencies. But to directly bash it, it's more about not understanding why, even though we appreciate the outcome of the why, as in, how good a woman looks after using makeup or doing yoga or getting a facial...
There was a point in time when makeup didn't exist. Neither did high heels or jewelry. These thing often compliment the the female figure. But that is not what makes a person a woman. Just as a man can't just put on some eye shadow and lipstick, grow out his hair, spray on some perfume, and put on a dress and high heels and now he is a woman. That is an insult to women. Saying all that makes them a girl is something anyone can do.
Again, there was a point in time where men still found women attractive enough to want to reproduce, even without all the modern things women do to feminise themselves. I'd argue that this is this same for all of us guys who enjoy a natural woman in her natural state
It's ironically the men that made so much of the cosmetics and fashion accessories (like heels) today for women.
Interesting point. Hm, now that I think about how much of mens fashion was designed by men, and not women influencing men based on what they found attractive. We know women love abs, so what if they in some way could have had Roman gladiators fight shirtless in the arenas? And how much of their armor was structured off of that, to please women? Did they chisel and make all their statues based off of what women thought was the ideal male physique? And when corsets were introduced, I thought I remember hearing despite the problems, many women chose to wear them, because they loved how it enhanced their waist/hip ratio. I wonder how much beauty and fashion trends men created for women, that women chose to let live on throughout the ages, because they themselves loved it and chose to wear it because they loved their femininity and womanhood. And vice versa