you know i actually have no idea but i have had a girl with scars before and i would spend hours kissing them. perhaps i felt i somehow helped to make her better but like i say i dont know
You're only 18 and you've scarred yourself numerous times. Get help. You need your issues addressed and resolved. The scars aren't the turn off, it's your psychological and emotional issues that are.
no. you are a beautiful person. your scars show what you have gone through and how much you have grown since then. you deserve the same love as anyone else. anyone who is turned off by that should see that you are too good for them anyway.
Most people are ashamed of there self harm scars like I am... But you should not refuse to touch, love, or comfort some body because of them most times that's what people some times need the most is comfort and love
ahh I see. I hope they help. Just promise me you won't make any new ones and we're good. lol. But to answer your question, no I wouldn't be afraid to touch your body. I'd be excited though. ;) It would only be scary if they were new cuts because I wouldn't want to hurt someone by touching those.
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call me what you like but i actually find it quite sexy
Really? Why?
you know i actually have no idea but i have had a girl with scars before and i would spend hours kissing them. perhaps i felt i somehow helped to make her better but like i say i dont know
Awww
Are you sure it's not just because you are 51?
@BrianMerritt i haven't always been 51... ffs
I think scars look cool, but ones with a suicidal backstory... THAT'S what I wouldn't be all over.
You're only 18 and you've scarred yourself numerous times. Get help. You need your issues addressed and resolved. The scars aren't the turn off, it's your psychological and emotional issues that are.
repeat question from last week.
yes, it is a turnoff, as it indicates a set of issues with which most do not care to associate.
Yes they are a turn off. Not just physically but what they represent.
No, not good at all. Scars can be attractive, but when scars like these point to a suicidal past... that's not the kind of girl I would pick first.
We all have our demons as they say, so no it wouldn't be an issue.
No turn of, it could be distracting at first, but if I like someone I wouldn't care about the scars. It would probably trigger my protective side.
by the way why do you harm yourself? If the question is not to personal.
Message me
So what if you have self harm scars , you are still beautiful no matter what
To me self harm scars tell a story and I wouldn't be repulsed by them
Well yes because they indicate you may be mentally unstable and I wouldn't want that trait in either my spouse or children
no. you are a beautiful person. your scars show what you have gone through and how much you have grown since then. you deserve the same love as anyone else. anyone who is turned off by that should see that you are too good for them anyway.
Most people are ashamed of there self harm scars like I am... But you should not refuse to touch, love, or comfort some body because of them most times that's what people some times need the most is comfort and love
Okay
A. Stop self harming
B. Trust me Iām pretty sure that lots of people want to touch you. Carry pepper spray
Yeah, no, I'd be running away though I would hit it once first.
You have like, the perfect body and face otherwise.
Thank you.
can't lie. They are definitely a turn off. Means someones not right up there.
have u tried the creams and lotions to try and reduce the scars? And I'm just glad that you're okay.
I've tried that. But my scars are keloids. But I have been getting steroid injections.
ahh I see. I hope they help. Just promise me you won't make any new ones and we're good. lol. But to answer your question, no I wouldn't be afraid to touch your body. I'd be excited though. ;) It would only be scary if they were new cuts because I wouldn't want to hurt someone by touching those.
I don't mind the scars tbh. You're pretty sexy though 😏
I could deal with them, are you still cutting though?
No. But it's tempting. I used to hide my blades around my room and every now and then I'll find one.
Yeah I see it being tempting. If you want to message me about it you can.
i would love to add a few more but in a controlled fashion rather than out of anger
It's more of a pity thing than a turn off.