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It was my PE teacher, she told that I "looked like an gorilla with big stomach and dirty face" I decided to take revenge I had a complete makeover which took me 2 years lost 40kg weight made mascular body and improve skin colour and was successful then I dated her daughter and even married to her as a result she always have to respect me beacuse I live in India where mother in law have to respect son in law like a god.
My adoptive father once called me a moral obligation when I was pretty young. He probably did not mean to tell me that but It has stuck with me through years nonetheless.
i am sorry about the statements people said to you, you aren't any of that. you are very likeable and beautiful just the way you are ok? and don't you even dare about hurting yourself, you don't deserve that.
Once, a friend of mine and I were outside the public library waiting for my mom to pick us up and two white women drove by screaming to me and my friend “go back to Mexico brown wetbacks” and one of them spit at my friend. I felt terrible for my friend and their hate, but thanks to that experience I learned more our our history and what has lead some people to act like that. It’s sad though. 😔
That's a terrible thing to say to someone. It says a lot about the person who said it to you
The only words that's ever stuck in my mind is when an ex boyfriend told me that at my funeral, he's gonna play the song from the movie The Wizard of Oz as my funeral song..." Ding dong the witch is dead, the wicked witch is dead"😂
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No one will ever love you again.
That’s awfull! I’m sorry someone said that to you! I haven’t had anything said to me, but I said it one time to a girl when I was a 10-11 yr old kid and we were friends and fighting! I said some not so nice things about her weight because of the fight and I was jealous of her! It bothered me into my 30s. I hadn’t seen her in decades but I went to the store and there she was sitting on the wall smoking on her break. I sat in my car making a huge moral descision to right my wrong and make amends by apologizing. I tell you what, it was an internal struggle. Do I tell her in case she carried that around all these years or do I leave it alone in case it didn’t bother her! I went and sat next to her said hi do you remember me ( as we all looked different) and she said yes. I said I owe you an apology as I started tearing up. I told her I was jealous of her and why, that I said those mean things out of spite not that I meant them, and told her if I hurt her I was very sorry etc... she laughed and said I forgot about that ( I don’t think she did but she played it off cool). I told her I didn’t and I’ve carried the shame of saying hurtful things out of jealousy over the decades and if it bothered her I was sorry, that it bothered me more that I said them. At this point I was crying wiping my tears away! She said ok thank you! I stood up and said I don’t want you to say you forgive me but can I give you a hug? She said yes. I hugged her and said I mean this and I smiled and left! It still bugs me today, but I hope my apologizing helped. I still don’t know if it bugged her but it did me, and it wasn’t really bad what I said but hurtful no the less! Please know it hurts the person who said it more if they are any decent type of human being, one can never take that being said back it’s awful!
As an Arab girl, I had to deal with black hair and pale white skin, so I got teased a lot for visible peach fuzz... so for this case, no real specific words besides the ol' point and laugh, or "this chick has a mustache"
You are a rude and ungrateful daughter that everyone in public thinks is innocent and nice but when you get married, your husband will hit you and your in-laws will be shocked with how low you actually are.
My sister told me my mom never wanted me to have me in the first place lmao
And my brother told me that my mom expressed at one point that I didn't skip a grade because I wasn't smart enough (I was in grade 8 at the time and that hurt me a lot)
I've been called stupid, childish, idiotic, naive, not capable of being mature and I've had my dad bang his head against the wall because he's incapable of understanding that humans make mistakes and learn from them.
They really strip you of your confidence and I was surprised that parents actually reassure their kids, even when they made mistakes... because my parents don't do that. They go apeshit and make you submissive with their insults and then come at you with affection when you don't trust them again.
I'm so messed up because of it
Life can be hard, I was told when I was raped it was my fault, I was told no one would ever love me and yada yada yada, it doesn't bother me at all now, four years ago I still cried about it and I was a teenager when it happened, today no, strong yet guarded. I knew at some point I was going to have to dust off and move past it, just because someone says it doesn't mean it's true. I was bullied in school and I'll be darn if I let their words bother me today, I have to be strong. If your skin is any shade but light, the go to is, you look like a monkey, if your lips are beautiful and full, the go to is, you look like a monkey, people say things to get a reaction. And some people will smile in your face, hug you and tell you to be strong when they are the very person to get with their"click" and belittle you. Think positive, be positive, believe positive about yourself! Smile 😁
Fortunately no one has told me to kill myself, but an ex from a coupe years ago did a number on me when we broke up by telling me one of the reasons was it hurt when we had sex and was uncomfortable for her. In her words “your penis is too big for me”. I may be bigger than average but I’m not huge or anything. Unfortunately now I continually worry whether the girl is actually enjoying herself or just pretending and it really hurts. This makes it hard to be in the moment. It’s crazy what people can say having no idea how it will affect you. The mind and the subconscious are a strange place the way they work latching on to weird things that in reality we should forget and let go.
"Kill yourself" -- that is bullying! I remember reading a story where a girl comitted suicide because of that same words repeatedly said to her by her bully.
I personally don't let words influence me that much, especially from those who don't matter in my life. Ask yourself if those hurtful words said by someone who matter, if they don't then please don't let it haunt you. If those insults said by random stranger online, treat it as irrelevant.
"Can't wait when u get into the real world outside of your father's walls and u discover treating people like shit isn't going to get you very far in life nor with me"
-My Mom over text after accusing me of using her credit card
Sheesh. The thing is, I didn't even do anything. I wasn't cussing her out or anything. I just told her that I didn't spend her money. This is just how my family works. The middle child (pathological liar) gets away with everything while the older child (me) takes all the blame.
“You’re good for nothing, worthless”
“Go back on your tree you monkey...”
“No one like you, I don’t know why you still don’t get it? I guess black women are just more dumb and stupid...”
It’s not just what people say it’s more about their actions. Their look and facial expressions.
I've had a few.
"Nobody will ever love or care about you the way I do."
"With the way you've been acting, if you wanted to date my brother, I wouldn't let it happen." (Spoken by a supposedly close friend when she didn't agree with my dating life)
"You should be glad I don't hit you, cheat on you, or curse you out."
I was once called an ape too, but I told him to go fuck himself.
The most hurtful one happened relatively recently - I overheard my mom tell my dad that she thinks that my little brother will get married and grant them grandchildren way faster than me.
I once told a friend I had a weird dream about how a girl who I was severely heartbroken over said “no” to me in a dream. He immediately responded with “you couldn’t even get her in your dreams” and laughed and then stopped and immediately apologized.
Also my 2nd last ex literally told me “tough luck you are ex” when I found out I was diagnosed with a HPV infection only 3 weeks after she broke up with me. I told her in person face to face (asked to meet up) because I was concerned about her health. She said “oh thank God I’m vaccinated” and did not show one shred of sympathy for my situation.
Most of the things my ex friend/ almost boyfriend said to me, which i am not even sure if he meant them or he just said them to pull me away. On any case, they are not justifiable regardless of the reasons. He told me I am not good looking and started to invent things like x person thinks that too and x girl is prettier... that he never cared about me and I am crazy for not realising he was joking, like how could he ever look at me?
Bully: “Do you have any brothers or sisters?”
Me: “Nope. I’m an only child.”
Bully: “Thank God!”
Me: “Wait... I know why I’d be happy about not having siblings, but why’s it a big deal for you?”
Bully: “Less people to feel sorry for...”
🤬🤬🤬
But that was all 11 years ago now, though I’ve rarely thought well of that classmate since 😒
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Nowadays I take insults as compliments. I act (or don't - as in ignoring/blocking) instead of responding back with more insults.
Sometimes however some acquaintances like coworkers may ask me "Have you lost your mind?". Me being from Europe, practically socially isolated for most of my life and stranded in the East I just respond with "Yes." or "Why me? Have you?".
"Find the next victim.. drain him and throw him away.. that will be my fate also?"
That's what my boyfriend told me at a fight we had. Later he apologised and said he was mad and he doesn't believe these things but I will always remember them. It was the most cruel thing he could say to me.
A lot most came from my mom, others came from racist people I was called a n** by this guy in 6th grade on the school bus I honestly didn’t even know the word just knew it was wrong. But I try to remain optimistic and ignore things because words can kill and I’ll never let someone take me to that point.
"You won't make it two more years, even if there was a cure, they won't give it to you because the healthier you are, the less money they make. You're going to die in no time and nobody's going to your funeral". That's what she said, which is why I attacked her recently dead mother and threatened to kill her if she said one more word.
Oh my god that’s horrible. What kind of person says that? I was just going to say the C word.
when i was 12 a man messaged me on facebook with the address of my school and told me he would be waiting for me after school so he could ‘take me and kill me like they killed the Jews in the holocaust’.
that’s stuck with me ever since. it turned into a police investigation.
Someone told me the exact same thing "nobody likes you you aren't worth s*** just go f*** off you little monkey bit of advice go into a dark room with a knife you will know what to do "
Its hurts a lot hopefully we can both forget it
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