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Stop that, forget about your dark past, think about bright present
I really wish it was that easy 😣 many people here are saying that you'll never forget what happened I think to look forward maybe I have to look backwards first if that makes any sense
@zaharuh, stop looking behind, otherwise you will loose your peace of mind, forget that bad accident,
It happened to me 6 years ago and I have not even gotten close to forgetting. How am I just going to forget about it?
@zaharuh, were you in Kurdistan at the time of this accident and you were raped by ISIS militant?
No I was in America but it would have been much worse out there I can't even imagine 😣
@zaharuh, so you were raped in USA, but there is big punishment for the rapist in USA, did you reported to police?
There is punishments for them but it's a long story, I never reported to the police
It can really help. Any therapeutic thing can. It has helped me.
How long until you felt normal with your situation?
You don't, ever. You just get over it.
Hopefully I can get over it then
Hopefully.
Another 6 depending on what closet they open in therapy
I've never had therapy, but not a bad idea to give a try.
Yeah it's a good place to start I guess
All you can do is give it a try.
Especially if you don't have strong family support at home. And even if you have that support, it can be easier talking to someone outside of your family.
I don't really have family to support me but yeah I think maybe just talking through the whole situation with someone could maybe help me I don't know yet
Well I hope you find something that helps.
Thank you
You're welcome.
I definitely do think it can help. Not spl therapists are good, and not all are a good fit for everyone. So if the first one doesn't seem like the right one, don't give up.
I believe it can if you apply yourself and believe it can help.
I hope
👍👍👍
I think therapy can help, as well as putting those who abused you in jail.
I hope it can and I wish they were in jail 😣
you didn't make the report?
assuming you have evidence of the crime... of course
I didn't make a report and it's one of my biggest regrets..
then therapy will help you because probably unconscious you probably associate all men with these criminals, this needs to be undone
I don't understand what you mean tbh like are you saying I see all men as like sexual abusers?
is it possible… potential sexual abusee…
*abuser
Do you follow any religion?
I don't see all guys as that way but it has affected me a lot like I couldn't even begin to explain. I used to be muslim but I don't really follow any religion right now.
Well, I've been through bad things in my life, of course not as bad as what you've been through, but what helped me a lot was my Catholic faith
Honestly I find it really hard to follow religion I'm not sure why, maybe I've never given enough effort but like nothing has ever clicked with me. It's good that it can help other people though.
everything has its right time under the sky
I think honesty is the best thing here you should have the ability to change or else no one Will Change you generally girls at your age still likes these things I knew a girl in similar condition. I called her Chernobyl she was more toxic than Chernobyl reactor itself and she didn't really want to change she kinda liked to be used and abused
Okay well just to let you know like it's pretty normal for a girl to like being used and abused after. Maybe that's hard for you to understand but it's part of it. I know I'm like that and I know other girls that are like that.
If you truly want to change then pray first and if you have bad friends who sleeps around cut them off and go to good therapist prefer old therapist usually they have more experience and have seen more cases so it's easier to them to solve or at least help you get out from that. Go there and talk you will feel better. And understand sometimes you don't have control over things things happen and you're probably not alone. Good luck
Well I just want to feel okay with things again and normal I don't know and people that have casual sex are not bad people but like I know what you mean. A few people now have told me I should seek out a woman counselor, do you think that's a good idea? Thank you.
Casual sex less pair bond later more shitty life ending with 50 cat at home anyway that's not our topic.
I think you will feel more comfortable with woman counselor give it a try but make sure she's known for her ability to listen and good attitude also I think it's good idea to for someone that's 35+ years old the experience play role in such case.
I don't like hearing that it kind of freaks me out like do you really think someone won't be able to love another person because they had sex? I don't know like it's hard to believe for me but so many people have said it. I'll try to look for someone more experienced
The right therapist can definitely help you. I have used them. and they taught me so much about myself
You don't have anything to lose by trying out therapy and see how it goes.
Good luck!
Seek help. It's not healthy to hate yourself. I hope it will help you.
There is trauma therapy that would help you. All the best to you.
I don't know about these areas but you should definitely overcome whatever's holding you down.
Good luck
Yes it can help you. You should definitely seek professional help
Yeah it can help along with meds. It's helping me
I think if they recommend that I take meds I'll probably take them but I want to look at like what it does to me and like side effects
Understandable
You are way too stubborn and defiance but it's always worth the try anyway
You don't even know me 🤦♀️
Oh yes I do and I know where you live
Go to YouTube and type in loveline, keep listening and you will find all the answers you need there
This is the only time I've felt bad for a low self esteem woman
I'm so sorry for the idiots in the comments... I wish I could personally beat them
🤗 I wish you get healed my friend.
Thank you
Your inner shut wants out of your repressed fake goddie two shoes body.
this girl was a slut long before she was even abused 🤣
@Derwood What do you mean?
You think that you need therapy? They just listen to you and ask you how you feel about things you talk about. You sound like your having sexual fantasies that you think are bad and that it's because your uncle Joe bounced you on his lap. You go girl... you do whatever you want. Your gonna end up fucking guys like a 2 dollar whore anyway and uncle buck don't have a thing to do with it you just don't know it's normal to want to be a dirty cock loving lady you just gotta learn how to do it on the dl
@Derwood Well I need something because doing nothing has not helped me it just made me develop like worse habits. I don't think my sexual fantasies are bad but I know other people that find them weird. Okay you have no clue about my situation so please don't downplay it like that. Also having casual sex does not make someone a whore 🙄
@zaharuh u are a slut please cut the bullshit, u been with 16 dudes at ur age, admitted u rarely use protection since ur on birth control I dont even got to name the other shit u said before..
If I say shut or whore please don't take it as an insult I do not shut shame women. It just sounds like you are on a poor me... my life is so messed up I need help because Trama trauma trauma... you can always just hate men and let a woman show you how to have gental loving sex and become best friends because you can do crafts together too.
I'm not kidding about what happened to me, why would you even think that?
@zaharuh PLEASE a ignore these guys! Look at people’s accounts! When you see Xper-1 or Xper-2 or even sometimes Xper3’s with zero followers they are just TROLL accounts! These are the type of guys who have likely been kicked off multiple times before, they are just here to hurl insults and offend! When someone is an Xper-1 with NO followers and a 0% MHO it means they have contributed NOTHING of any value, EVER!
@Derwood & @adolfohittando why don't you two useless trailer trash shut up? Filthy disgusting vermin.
@BlackBeauty90 Fuck off, why are you advocating for this girls poor behavior? She is disgusting and is getting treated that way because of her lifestyle and poor choices.
@BlackBeauty90 Both reported for trolling.
@adolfohittando Rape isn't a choice you worthless cocksucker
@adolfohittando and learn to read you worthless piece of dogshit. I am not advocating anything, least of all the options of vermin like you @Derwood. Damn shame your cunt mothers wasted their lives bringing filth like you two into the world
@BlackBeauty90 whatever u say
@Derwood it's such a shame your mother wasn't born sterile. But then she's probably such a worthless whore she fucks stray dogs
@BlackBeauty90 the only sluts I see here are you and @zaharuh but I guess we should glance over the obvious. In my opinion its abysmal that either of you are able to have a child, they should require some kinda IQ test before u can do that
@Derwood shame your mother wasn't born sterile. But then she's probably such a whore she fucks stray dogs. I mean it's very very obvious that you & @adolfohittando came from nothing but prostituting crackhead drunkards
@BlackBeauty90 You can keep attacking my mother if you'd like, at least my claim has more of a base
@adolfohittando ROFL. Go suck the family dog's cock. You're so worthless and ugly it's the only thing that cares for you. Not even your own mother can stand the look of your filthy disgusting face. Reminds her too much of a rodent
@BlackBeauty90 Oh is that so? I think you need to stop talking and find your daily dose of dick or maybe you'll get some withdrawals...