My boyfriend and I got into a hugeeee fight yesterday. It was almost entirely my fault and I feel bad. But he also acted really badly. He yelled, cursed and told me not to call him. We have been together for 2 years and recently we have been fighting a lot more. He is going through a tough period which doesn't allow us to see each other very often. It has put us through a lot of stress. He hasn't contacted me since yesterday. I am worried a bit, I want to make sure he got home OK yesterday. I don't even know that. And I know he needs time to cool off and will be OK after. But how much time? It's been 24 hours. I'm getting anxious. Do I call? He usually sleeps off his anger and is OK the next day.
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I really messed up ... but he acted so angry. I was scared and started crying.
Fights are inevitable as lightning around a storm. Stressful events are the fuel. If you were the precipitator, apologize and take your share of the blame. He will probably acknowledge his share of the blame and you can have make-up sex and put it behind you. If it's been 24 hours you can probably call any time.
If you said some personal hurting thing, it could be a long time before you're back to normal.
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I would try to call and/or text, but don't be surprised if he doesn't answer. If he lives with a roommate I would text/call them to find out if he got home OK. But then leave it at that. If you guys are fighting a lot maybe it's time to call it quits?
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