Why do guys act like jerks around their friends?

[NIallersGirl93]

My boyfriend is a tool to me around his friends. He always says really dirty and embarssing things when he's around he friends. I dont know what to do. he's more or less a sweet guy, but he's such a jerk. I feel as if im being used just for him to say he "taped that" which i've been told he has said. He says he didn't but i hear other wise. What do I do?

[EarthToKepler]

From my experiance:

Not all men act different when their with their friends.

If I'm talking to my girl and my friends are their or talking to me I wouldn't act any different.

But when It's just me and my friends (My attitude and personality change) so I go hypo and ungrounded as fuck.

When I'm with my girl I'm really grounded and relaxed.

When I'm with my family I tense up (their judgmental towards me)

But lately (I've been having a mental fuck up) i've just emotionally flat lined if you catch my drift

[EarthToKepler]

Thankyou for mho

[NIallersGirl93]

thank you

[HorrorFan]

Guys aren't going to do or say things in front of other guys that make them seem weak or sensitive. You should just have a talk with him and maybe he'll ease up on it.

[Anonymous]

Why would yu Stay with a guy who acts like that thats immature

[Lala2311]

accept it or leave cause its not gonna change sorry

[Ihav2fart]

We don't act like jerks around out friends...

We just act civilized when we're alone with you.

[Anonymous]

brocode dictates that being soft around your bros is lame

[NIallersGirl93]

does that mean he has to comment about my boobs every minute? and that he's "banged me" aand we havent? or is that brocode too? not meaning to be a bitch but it hurts.. i not that kind of girl.

[Opinion Owner]

stfu i answered ur stupid question

[Anonymous]

Talk to him about this.

[NIallersGirl93]

I have. he dosn't care. he says he doesn't mean to it just happenes.

[atomique]

Sometimes a mob mentality develops