The answers aren't realistic thus far so I stepped in.
People have friends with benefits . That's sleeping around. People hook up and have OnS all the time, with or without drugs, alcohol, or straight cash and a sexual reputation.
Do I do any of that? No, but other people do even though they tell you that "the right guy just hasn't come along yet". Almost all of us want a companion, but there's an honesty vaccuum when it comes to putting your whorish ways to the forefront.
True, but just because they are sleeping around doesn't mean they prefer that than being in a relationship. I've slept around and I was more interested in a relationship, but the girl wasn't gf material and we both wanted sex that night, so we did it. Some people sleep around because they rather do that than be in a relationship, but others sleep around because they haven't found the right person to begin a relationship with, so at least they get the sex.
They are such the minority that the question just seems like a circle jerk for "saints", and they feel good about being whorish because their end goal is to not be whorish. Not buying it.
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Sleep around. All the benefits of a relationship without being in one, none of the drawbacks.
So the only benefits of a relationship is sex?
In today's world, yep. Nothing else they offer I can't get elsewhere, but they sure as hell can drain a guy of what he has. Why deal with it?
If much rather be in a relationship, casual sex isn't appealing to me at all.
Relationship because it is stable and also because sex is intimate
In a relationship. Because i want real love an something long lasting in my life.
Be in a relationship and build intimacy between the sheets.. a greater thrill by far.
Be in a relationship and then you can have better sex than sleeping around. Just saying
I agree, but some people don't think that way.
You don't have to see it that way, it's a fact. Sex is way better if you're in a relationship with the person.
I know, I know, but some people may not think that way and just don't like repeating.
I totally agree with you :)
If (Lover == True) { Relationship }
Else { Sleep_Around }
// i dislike break ups
There was never a time in my life where I wanted to just sleep around.
I don't ever want to sleep around.
Relationship for sure
Relationship. I don't have it in me to want to have sex with someone I don't care about.
Being in a relationship, cause having sex is a small part of life but having someone who loves you , supports you and cares about you feels better :D
relationship. sleeping around can be dangerous. plus I like commitment. it's not everyday you will find a great partner I guess.
I want to be in a relationship because I do not ever intend sleeping around with different girls in future. That stuff ain't for me.
I just got out of 6 years of a nightmare so a relationship is definitely out of the question. I just want to enjoy everything life has to offer.
In my whole life I have never slept around. I'm not about to start now.
Why not both? I'd love to be in a relationship with a woman and we each can still sleep around, with the occasional threesum.
I'd rather be in a relationship. Personal experience, I am not willing to explain.
Right now I'd rather sleep around but too shy for that kind of lifestyle so I say neither...
Relationship because 1) people where I'm at really don't know how to keep things to themselves & 2) it takes majority of the worry out of things
I'd rather sleep around, forever and ever.
Why?
Where's my upvote?
I already gave it to you -_-
The answers aren't realistic thus far so I stepped in.
People have friends with benefits . That's sleeping around. People hook up and have OnS all the time, with or without drugs, alcohol, or straight cash and a sexual reputation.
Do I do any of that? No, but other people do even though they tell you that "the right guy just hasn't come along yet". Almost all of us want a companion, but there's an honesty vaccuum when it comes to putting your whorish ways to the forefront.
True, but just because they are sleeping around doesn't mean they prefer that than being in a relationship. I've slept around and I was more interested in a relationship, but the girl wasn't gf material and we both wanted sex that night, so we did it.
Some people sleep around because they rather do that than be in a relationship, but others sleep around because they haven't found the right person to begin a relationship with, so at least they get the sex.
They are such the minority that the question just seems like a circle jerk for "saints", and they feel good about being whorish because their end goal is to not be whorish. Not buying it.