Girls, would you break up with your BF if he was sterile? (Page 2)
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I would be really sad (I've always wanted kids) about it but if I really loved him, I'd find another way (adoptions, sperm donor).
I shouldve mentioned that sperm doners and adoptions are not options. Would you stay with him if you would never have kids?
Probably not. I want kids, and if he doesn't than we are looking for two different things in life
Well I don't want kids anyway, so I wouldn't mind at all.
Cool, thanks
No its fine :) Just as long he tells me so I don't get a surprise when we try you know?
How early should he tell you in the relationship?
When you pop the question about intimate relations. The girl will be aware that she can't get pregnant.
Then, you can ask about the future, how she feels...
Basically when things become serious (I can't really give you a time because it does depend from person to person) Honestly, you will find the right moment to tell her. As long as you're ready, everything should be okay
Nah I wouldn't do that to him. That just means plenty of dogs then! : )
Hahaha fair enough ;)
I have 2 little ones, so a sterile guy wouldn't be any issue for me. The question for me would be if he could accept my children as well as me.
Its not likely... but if he liked her enough, he'd give it a shot.
Understood. It must be a difficult place to be in, but I hope you will be wise enough to not let a good thing get away, even if she doesn't turn out to be the exact portrait you've painted out for yourself.
Yes, I'll keep that in mind. Thanks!
I would stay, I come from a big family and I don't want to have kids either.
If he was up front about it... We could talk about what options there are if we choose to get married and what not. I love kids so...
Girls, would you break up with your BF if he was sterile?
A. Break up
And when would be the best time to tell you?
Very early on as in the first few dates
Ok... thanks for sharing :(
It might be tough at first but there are plenty of kids that need homes!
Neither adoption nor sperm donors are options.
Oh 😁 then I don't know. I love kids but who knows. I guess if I really loved him I would stay.
No, I don't want kids.
Great! :D