We have been living together because we're gonna get married next year and we got into a huge argument today because she was out with her friends and I saw a picture of her with a guy, she said it was her friend, I got angry and jealous and we got into a huge argument and I started yelling at her and I could tell she was about to cry because her voice cracked and her eyes were getting watery and we kept fussing and I lost my temper and punched her in the nose and she ran into the bedroom crying. I ran after her when I realized what I had done and her nose was bleeding and she went into me and was crying and she said she didn't want to leave me and still wanted to be with me but she wants me to go to anger management classes but I will not. I love her and she's so sweet and I hated that I did it to her and I said I was sorry and she said she forgave me and we hugged for the longest time but as we were hugging she flinched. Sometimes I want to just punched her again and slap her. I check her messages without her knowing too. I don't want her to be afraid of me or nervous around me, how can me and her both overcome this issue together?

you go to those anger management classes and NEVER hit her again

Real man dont hit women. You must be an insecure ass

i'd have my crew to fuck you up real good

I punched my girlfriend and made her cry, what can I do to overcome this problem?

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You should never hit a woman especially her face. If you want to do it, do it on the hip or the back but never on the face. And it is best to loosen up. She will not get afraid.

Sara413

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How about never hit your partner, PERIOD? What the actual fuck...

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AmeerX

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@Sara413 That is much better but if she is doing I would have hit her as well. She has me. And not act like a socialite.

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Sara413

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What?

If your girlfriend acts in ways that you don't like, then maybe she just shouldn't be your girlfriend? OR, you need to loosen the fuck up.

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AmeerX

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@Sara413 I wouldn't loosen up. She is mine and I am hers so act like one. No need to throw strings at other guys and ruining the relation if any.
I would only forgive her one time not again and again.

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Sara413

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Forgive her for what?

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AmeerX

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@Sara413 it is a guy thing you will not understand but I tell you. Do you like if a guy goes after and talks to girl and is your boyfriend? I am 90% sure you will not. Why is other way round okay?

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Sara413

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Just talks to other girls? I really don't care.

My boyfriend has plenty of female friends. He even sometimes hangs out with them alone. GASP!

It's called trust, Bro. And being a grown up. Grown ups understand that males and females are capable of interacting without ending up in the sack...

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AmeerX

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@Sara413 really now. Well that is very nice but don't come crying here for advice when he loses interest in you.
When you have your guy let him do the talking with the guy. Unless you think he is a girly boy who hides and wants to meet girls all the time.
I ain't buyin it. I wouldn't mind if you have a guy friend but I would mind if you had a guy friend with whom you were more confiding than me. And giggle with him and sweet talk to him when you are with me. So, no I am not going to be okay.
I understand if it is a mutual understanding but not when it is only one sided.

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Sara413

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You have a lot of growing up to do.

For the record, of my three closest friends, two are straight guys and one is a lesbian... my boyfriend trusts me and trusts them and has no issue with me hanging out with any of them. If he did, we wouldn't be together.

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AmeerX

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@Sara413 I prefer to stay like this. I don't believe in the bunch of beloney that people say here.
Like, "casual sex is okay", "no letting your girl have male friends", "sleep with your girl and marry another person and try try again". All of this is non-sense. What seems off to you is normal to me. So, I think the person did the right thing. Though he should not have beaten her to a bloody pulp.
And I uphold his action well. If he is sacrificing so should she.

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You should never hit a woman especially her face. If you want to do it, do it on the hip or the back but never on the face. And it is best to loosen up. She will not get afraid.

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- Sara413
  
  +1 y
  How about never hit your partner, PERIOD? What the actual fuck...
  
- AmeerX
  
  +1 y
  @Sara413 That is much better but if she is doing I would have hit her as well. She has me. And not act like a socialite.
  
- Sara413
  
  +1 y
  What?
  
  If your girlfriend acts in ways that you don't like, then maybe she just shouldn't be your girlfriend? OR, you need to loosen the fuck up.
  
- AmeerX
  
  +1 y
  @Sara413 I wouldn't loosen up. She is mine and I am hers so act like one. No need to throw strings at other guys and ruining the relation if any.
  I would only forgive her one time not again and again.
  
- Sara413
  
  +1 y
  Forgive her for what?
  
- AmeerX
  
  +1 y
  @Sara413 it is a guy thing you will not understand but I tell you. Do you like if a guy goes after and talks to girl and is your boyfriend? I am 90% sure you will not. Why is other way round okay?
  
- Sara413
  
  +1 y
  Just talks to other girls? I really don't care.
  
  My boyfriend has plenty of female friends. He even sometimes hangs out with them alone. GASP!
  
  It's called trust, Bro. And being a grown up. Grown ups understand that males and females are capable of interacting without ending up in the sack...
  
- AmeerX
  
  +1 y
  @Sara413 really now. Well that is very nice but don't come crying here for advice when he loses interest in you.
  When you have your guy let him do the talking with the guy. Unless you think he is a girly boy who hides and wants to meet girls all the time.
  I ain't buyin it. I wouldn't mind if you have a guy friend but I would mind if you had a guy friend with whom you were more confiding than me. And giggle with him and sweet talk to him when you are with me. So, no I am not going to be okay.
  I understand if it is a mutual understanding but not when it is only one sided.
  
- Sara413
  
  +1 y
  You have a lot of growing up to do.
  
  For the record, of my three closest friends, two are straight guys and one is a lesbian... my boyfriend trusts me and trusts them and has no issue with me hanging out with any of them. If he did, we wouldn't be together.
  
- AmeerX
  
  +1 y
  @Sara413 I prefer to stay like this. I don't believe in the bunch of beloney that people say here.
  Like, "casual sex is okay", "no letting your girl have male friends", "sleep with your girl and marry another person and try try again". All of this is non-sense. What seems off to you is normal to me. So, I think the person did the right thing. Though he should not have beaten her to a bloody pulp.
  And I uphold his action well. If he is sacrificing so should she.
  
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you go to those anger management classes and NEVER hit her again

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Real man dont hit women. You must be an insecure ass

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i'd have my crew to fuck you up real good

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buy her a mercedeS g63 AMG

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let her beat you up.

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Go see anger management?

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