YES. I had the same problem with my ex it was a nightmare! We'd have a huge argument about it, I'd try to just nip it in the bud but he'd blow up over it, but eventually agree to stop. Few months down the line, he'd do it again! I'd try to stop him, big argument but he stops, then did it again. It was just a constant circle and for over 2 years it never stopped, and I don't think it ever would have (he used to have arguments about it with girls in past relationships too!). Unless they're really committed and sorry about doing it (although they always seem sincere at the time.. its why we forgive them...) they won't stop. I think it shows a disrespect to the relationship, especially when they KNOW it will upset you and yet they do it anyway! Why would you do something you KNOW would upset your partner? It's inconsiderate, selfish, disrepsectful and just... Ugh. Get rid. They never learn. Sorry to hear you had a crappy situation like this, but you had much more courage than me to do it earlier!
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If you felt like it was the right thing to do, then don't look back. Overthinking it and second-guessing your decision could just make you end up right back with him and in the same situation. After 6 years, it's unlikely that he would have changed. I'm not going to say whether or not it was wrong for you to break up because of him liking another girls' picture. That's not my place to say. But what I can say is, if this has been a consistent issue throughout your relationship and it bothers you when he does things like that, then you did the right thing by ending it.
You made the right decision. You had a valid reason to be upset, and as a boyfriend he should have comforted you and assured you it wouldn't happen again, even if he truly didn't mean the "like" in a flirty way. The fact that he let his relationship with you end so easily shows that it wasn't meant to be.
I'm sorry it ended this way, especially considering how long the two of you dated for.
You made the right decision, giving his nonchalant attitude after the breakup. A genuine loving boyfriend would have earnestly sought to win you back with a resolve to stop flirting with this girl. In fact, the relationship lasted that long as a result of your effort, not his unfortunately.
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Liking a girls photo is a little severe to break up over but as it sounds, there was probably a lot more going on then you have said within the message. If you feel like it was the right thing to do then stand your ground. Don't back out of it. Follow your gut instincts. He should have at least acted like he cared after six years but he didn't. Don't sweat it. Get dressed up and go out with your girls. You deserve better than that treatment.
You did the right thing.
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