Saving a girl's life: Does this girl owe him a shot at dating and does she sound genuine to you when she says they'd be BFF? (Page 2)
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what does a relationship have to do with him saving a girl's life? he may not even be into her like that. if someone saved my life and asked me out it would depend on if i liked them or not. i won't date someone because of something they decided to do. thanks for saving my life but i dont owe you anything. no one owes anyone anything. if someone decides to do me a favor no matter how big or small THEY were the one who wanted to do it. not me. so i dont owe them anything lol
The question was, "Would you reject or accept his offer?" if he saved your life then asked you out. It's not about owing him anything. I would say yes because you owe it to yourself to see if there are any feelings there. Going out on on a date is how you explore whether there are feelings there. It seems like too many of the opinions here are assuming a date means kissing/touching/or even fucking, which it definitely doesn't. It can happen, but it has to be natural.
Every one already said that "no she isn't obliged to do it hur dur" so I have nothing to add except maybe that she should seriously consider it. I mean c'mon... what's one lousy date in comparison to him nearly dying to you? Are you that stubborn with your "women don't owe men anything" mentality that you'd refuse a guy who nearly died for you? C'mon...
That's a sweet story and it's actually what anyone would do for a good friend or loved one. She should be grateful to have such a wonderful friend but just because he saved her life doesn't mean she's obligated to date him.
If someone saved me, I would thank them for the longest but doesn't mean I'm gonna date him. Nope, she doesn't own him a date. Saving someone's life, esp someone you care about should be a selfless act.
Saving my life does not merit a romantic relationship. You cannot trade heroics for sex. I doubt this guy would even expect that. I will be your dear friend because it takes a seriously selfless person to do what he did.
If she has feelings for him, that is up to her, but should not be expected.
He's probably in love with her and she is going to slowly rip his heart out through his asshole. I guaranty after that he will never put his ass on the line for another woman again in his life, poor sap, some lessons just have to be learned the hard way.
No she owes him nothing, obviously, would be kinda dickish if she wasn't at least grateful to him though.
Maybe they'll be life long friends. I'd value that more than a relationship, it will last longer.
Roostah you're black. You got that image online from a video, I seen it on the Bodybuilding forum and Roostah is actually Rastah for the black men in trinidad.
Lol, catfishhhhh!
No.
If feelings for him were there then I would say yes, if they weren't then I'd find the words to let him down gently. Just because someone saves your life doesn't mean you have to date them..
Plus you may know their personality on a friends basis but then what happens once you're in the relationship he turns out to be a controlling abusive ass and from reading half the answers on here it seems like people believe you should still stay because he "saved your life" goddamn.
She doesn't owe him anything other than gratitude. Just because he saved her, doesn't mean she has to enter a romantic relationship with him
No he doesn't deserve at least a bj.
As all good actions you are only labeled as a good person when you don't want to get rewarded by it.
So being a good person comes with not being treated equal to your behaviour, better ask yourself if you rather want to be someone else than that
I love how she was texting on her phone during the interview at 00:53 in the video..
"He was just being a man because my life flashed before my eyes and haha I am so glad I didn't die or get hurt in anyway... hang on lemme take a selfie."
I think if I was a chick I would consider dating him, guess all these other hoes don't believe this is enough for them.
No she doesn't. She definitely owes him her gratitude but she doesn't owe him a date unless the feelings are mutual. I feel it would be even worse if she were to give him a chance if he is into her because in that case it would just be a pity a date.
Thanks gratitude life anything... but date or romantic anything... no
I don't think a guy like Cameron would do that JUST on the grounds of "saves ur life babe, lemme in dem guts!"
And i think the decision should still be treated like normal, judging content of character and compatibility.
In short, i don't think the two things are related
"Not save ur life babe lemme in dem guts" but give me a chance as a romantic candidate and don't outright reject me/friendzone me by going out on 1 date with me.
There seem to be confusion here by people thinking I mean the girl should have outright have sex with him.
Only if I was actually interested in a relationship with him. If not then it's a no.
She doesn't owe him jack dating-wise. To suggest that she has to acquiesce to dating him disgusts me, honestly.
If it ends up that she wants to be with him, cool.
she owes him her gratitude and thats its. she does not even have to be friends with him unless she wants to. regardless this is an awesome story.
They probably will be friends... but dating? Why have you brought that up and lowered the tone here? One person saves another person's life and now there's this bullshit about him somehow being 'owed'?
She doesn't owe him zit.
But the fact that she clearly won't should be a real eye opener for any boy and young man looking. Take notes and realise how attraction actually works before giving yourself away (figuratively or literally).