My boyfriend says that he can do better than me? (Page 2)

Question

Today my boyfriend and I were just talking about life... and then all of a sudden, the topic came to breakups... he was like "you know, this might hurt you but... I don't want you to cry over it but... I always thought that I could do better than you..." 

"I always get this feeling like, I could find a girl who's more awesome, funnier, more beautiful, smarter but the thing is, I'm crazy in love with you..."

Well, I guess that should be fine with me right? But I'm not okay after he said that... I just feel confused... He always tells me I'm so awesome and funny and beautiful yet he contradicts that by making that statement today... I feel like he's just settling for me. He always tells me he loves me, but what does he love about me? There must be a quality that made me stand out from the rest? Why does he has to say that? He was the one who asked me out first and he's always the one doing nice things for me.

i just don't get why he would love me if he feels like I'm average qualities?

WoodWizzard87 · Answer

I don't know if he's trying to play the "dread game" with you or what. Just a dick thing to say.

Zombie-Killa · Answer

Fuck, That's a total dick move :| Why are you still with that lol

Anonymous · Answer

I would give him a big FUCK YOU and proceed to dump his ass. Odds are, you are the one that can do better, not him

Anonymous · Answer

How funny, because after that, he proved you could also do better than him. So I guess you're both settling.

zagor · Answer

Wow, what a half-assed compliment. "I could do so much better than you, but I'll stay with you anyway"

Kylesar · Answer

Dump his ass If he's "settling" for you, you're not really wanted

ThisAndThat · Answer

My x girlfriend became my x when she told someone else who told me what your boyfriend told you.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell him you can always do better than him, it's just for his sake that you are still with him.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh my god your boyfriend sounds like the King of The Dipshits

PLLFan21 · Answer

Oh and why is he still your boyfriend?🤔🤔

JamesDylan1990 · Answer

I'd be like oh what a cowenceadence I can do better than yiu, then leave him lol

Anonymous · Answer

may be , he don't want to lose you, he is pretending that he don't care of you, if he lose you... thats why he said? my point of view as a men :)

Anonymous · Answer

he totatlly can do better than you isn't that a simple fact?

Finn1416 · Answer

CAN he do better? That's the question...

buttheadkakakak · Answer

Wow that's a dickbag thing to say

koko124 · Answer

Probably because you're good for the sex

Hannahannah · Answer

He's a bit of a shit isn't he

Anonymous · Answer

How old are you guys?

skeptic007 · Answer

what is better?

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