You may say: leave him if you don't feel him being stimulating! Well, the problem Is that I suffer from contrasting emotions. From one side, I see him not to be my "complete" man, from the other side I love our relationship, besides the little competition, and... It may sound hypocritical, but I love his soul.
It's like I love his person, his essence beyond the appearance and performances but... don't feel complete attraction (low sexually attraction from my side, great mental bond but average esteem... And so on). What do I have to do?