My girlfriend wants me to move in with her. What should I expect? (Page 2)
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you know the woman...
It's kind of like living with a guy room-mate, except they have boobs, often smell better and are probably more amenable to morning sex...
The key is communication, you guys will have to work stuff out, and if you sit on issues and let them fester, they will.
Do you mean move in together or move in with her?
I don't live with her, we either live together or she moves in with me. They start off being very nice, but then add a shit ton of rules based on how you do things. I rather know the rules upfront.
Also, they are more willing to kick you out if it's her place.
Apart from that, it seems kind of fast, but since, she's older she ain't got time to waste. I'd expect babies soon. lol.
First off, only move in with her if it's something you are ready for and want to do. Don't move in if you're not fairly sure you'll be together long term (ie you're on the trajectory for a life long partnership).
You should expect to get to know each other's living habits
You may discover that she is messy of neat and you will argue
I have never cohabitated with a boyfriend because I believe in sex after marriage but that is what people who have cohabitated told me
35 ... make sure you keep your condoms in a safe.
She's baby crazy at that age. Wtf are you doing with a 35 year old? Dude. That's way too serious for someone your age. I would just tell her, no thank you, you're not ready for that yet.
We agreed and said it was too soon.
Plus we have sex everyday lol
She's totally serious dude! might also convince you in getting married.
Well that's not happening yet. We haven't been together for an entire year yet.
doesn't matter for how long you've been together
you should expect being and feeling so lucky to get to have a girlfriend who wants you with her in your life.
Ohhhhh no! She's way too old for you, and you're going to regret it. In about 3-4 years she's going to start looking like a grandma, mean while you'll be missing out on meeting girls around your age.
I have dated a few women my age and it just didn't work. I have been with this woman for 6 months.
Fair enough. Do you feel like you'd be okay with her visible physical aging features that will drastically start to show in 3-4 years? I'm talking wrinkles EVERYWHERE, saggy body, and loosing the youthful appearance?
She isn't old at all I prefer women her age anyways.
It's true though I will only last with an older chick for as many years as she can keep herself hot especially since we have a decade in age apart
I'm pretty sure that you'll dig younger gals when you get to her age bud but in the meantime bang the shit out of her
@yololoyo I'll see her in the morning and intend on doing that lol.
She may like to hand wash her bras, or, even if she doesn't she may wash them in the machine on the delicate cycle and then hang them on hangars to dry. You may see them on the shower curtain rod.
You don't sound like you really want to move in with her, so you should expect to be miserable.
Bitter?
I think that's not enough time to be moving in together. I think it'd be safer to wait at least a year.
just probably passion and her to get maybe shy randomly but other wise intimate time.
Six months is too short in my opinion to move in with her.
that means she feels comfortable near you. expect? just go with the flow and let her see the real you, without pretended.
Cooking
Washing
Cleaning house
Working and pay stuff
(...)
apart from the sex, the whole experience would be horrible.
she will be pregnant, then you will marry and then who knows
What it's like to wake up with the same person everyday and really know what quirks and annoying things you each do
More sex perhaps and maybe commitment
Sex every day for the first little while :)