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This is very true... I've never been faithful.. and I've been cheated on too... I am in a committed relationship now, and I cheat bc i want to find a more suitable mate, and I've been with men who cheat on their wives not bc they want to leave her, but bc she isn't putting out or bc the sex life is now boring. . some cheat for validation... their Mates don't make them feel desirable so, they cheat bc they're being made to feel better and important and attractive by someone else. I whole heartedly believe you can push someone to cheat. The reality is, we fall in love with people for who they are and how they treat you, if that person decides to start treating you different and becomes a different person then why is it that you're the one to blame when you go seeking those traits you once saw in your mate from someone else. Fact, cheating isn't black and white... people change, thus making monogamy difficult
No. Men cheat because they're selfish and women cheat because they're selfish. It's so annoying when people try to justify it or find excuses. Like no, man or woman, nobody who loves or respects you will cheat. People who love somebody or even just have any respect for them usually tend to try to not hurt that person, and some even make conscious effort to avoid doing things that can me misinterpreted and hurt the other.
Lack of love, lack of respect, lack of morals, selfishness, horrible personality, those are the real reasons somebody cheats.
People with morals, or people who respects the other, they'll either walk away from the relationship or they'll talk to their partner and try to work it out together.
Only cheat because deep down they are unhappy and seeking happiness elsewhere... rather than being adult and talking things through as what an adult would do they seek the cowards way of getting comfort elsewhere and that is for both men and women...
A truly happy and loved up person would not seek sex elsewhere...
There are lots of factors to take into consideration... bottom line is that people who cheat don't love or respect their partner. If ur unhappy then leave don't play mind games or string people along and get their hopes up for nothing... it's as simple as that - it goes a long way to be honest and open
Both genders cheats for one reason: insecurity, however when a woman cheats it´s more likely that she ends the relationship and keeps with her lover, why? Womens tend to be more emotional and they´re not gonna be having something with two guys at the same time (less likely 3 and more), if they feel more emotionally attached to one over the other sooner than later a break up will happen. Not the case for us, male cheaters rather don´t créate any emional bond with their lovers, and they cheat till the end, till they get caught, however I gave a general example, they are always exceptions.
I think there's a lot of truth to that. If men in a sexless marriage simply wanted out, they could get divorce. But many of them choose to cheat precisely because they don't want out of the marriage. But they need sex. Women often do not understand that it is a need.
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u People cheat because they don't respect their partner, they don't feel obligated to honor their commitments, and they are concerned only about their genital pleasure. Everything else is just a rationalization.
Men cheat because often fucking the same pussy forever gets old. It's like eating your favorite pizza. Sure you love it but eventually the luster wears off and you want to try something else.
Women cheat because they ARE HYPERGAMOUS. A woman's loyalty is only there as long as a man is her best option. If another male she "perceives" as better is serious about dating her then she will start shifting her attention towards him and will most likely cheat to get commitment from him.
I will agree that most men who cheat doesn't want out of their marriages. They are in a sexless marriage and they just want the sex that they aren't getting. I tell my friends who aren't interested in sex anymore... that there husband's could cheat if they dont have it with their husbands. They dont believe me...
Yes.
Men can love a woman completely and be happy 100% with her as a partner. But if she does not give sex, then he will go elsewhere to get it, not because he doesn't love her or isn't happy with her but because sex is a need for a male that has to be filled. We can have sex without emotional attachment and it is basically just a pleasurable activity which reduced stress, so we go back to our partner without the animosity or pressure for them to give sex. And we are happy being with our partner for all the other stuff.
Women attach emotion to sex and if she is in a sexless marriage she feels undesired and needs to find a male who makes her feel "loved", she will start to lose interest in wanting to stay with her partner and will "test the waters" outside of the relationship. If she has sex and it makes her feel it's safe to leave, she will. If she feels guilt or like it wasn't worth it, she will stay and "realize" she wants to work on the relationship.
People cheat cause it's awesome. There's no other reason really. Have you ever cheated before? No? Then you don't know how awesome it is. You should cheat yourself and find out. If you have cheated before, don't you remember how awesome it was? It was like having superpowers.
I see the video from www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2183461-why-don-t-women-place-as-much-importance-on-sex-in-a-relationship
is starting to go viral now on GaG ! :)
If it is a sexless marriage, then I would think whoever is denying sex to their partner should expect them to go elsewhere for sex or just break up.
They need to offer it at least once a week (unless they are sick or something, that is an exception).
makes sense for a 'sexless marriage,' but if the wife is making an effort to be fulfilling and the husband cheats anyway, it's not for the purpose of keeping the marriage together - it's because he simply isn't cut out for monogamy.
It's called being selfish or cake eating. Leaving an unhappy unfulfilled marriage is better than inflicting emotional pain of betraying some one. You just don't cheat on your spouse but you kids and in laws.
I think sexless should be replaced with extremely unhappy. I read that lots of sexless couples are faithful... they say thry are anyway. But otherwise I agree with this.
Men separate sex from feeling. I can easily have sex with a woman that I don't have feelings for at all. Starving a man of sex in a marriage and asking that he remain faithful is a recipe for frustration and anger. I almost cheated because of this. I felt it was my right. If she can't get up for full on sex she should give HJs and BJs to give relief to the guy. If you are too lazy or self centered to not do that then you risk his going elsewhere.
If a guy is dating a girl for 3 months that he loves... and his ex starts messaging him up again even though she has a boyfriend. And he gets confused and tells her he loves her also...
Is this cheating?
Anyone who cheats is just a selfish scum bag ass hole. There's no reason for cheating, it's just to rationalize their bad behavior so they don't have to accept they're a piece of crap person.
It's possible... perhaps cause if there's a divorce the woman is the one that wins XD
Nah. Both genders cheat cuz they're a piece of shit. 🙃😂
I would agree with this. Men cheat to avoid the cost of a divorce while attempting to make life livable withing their current prison.
Women cheat to find a new man they think will provide them a better life.
The fact of the matter is people all cheat for different reasons, everyone is saying oh your just a selfish piece of shit if you cheat. While I don't agree with cheating you have to understand a lot of times the spouse that cheats was pushed into doing so by the other spouse
Cheating is bullshit. If you made a commitment, stick to it. Otherwise get the fuck out of a relationship. Justifications have no place in lack of integrity.
Cheating really comes down to selfishness. Who became selfish first. Their is not more or less of who does it more than the other sex or reason.
I can't ever imagine being in a sexless marriage, I think women and men who cheat are immature and don't know how to properly communicate between each other
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