Obviously. There's no reason not to sign a prenup unless you expect to take their shit.
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No but the man is really selfish, prenup in my country is generally use when a man marry a second time (he doesn't want his wife to have money, the house, etc... because he want to give it to his child) if it's first marriage he's just selfish.
Pre-nups... hardly hold water in court. But I know of something I'm doing that is solid as concrete. In 97 , it worked 100% in my favor.. during divorce. So yes you wouldn't be asked to sign anything
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I don't think they are gold diggers, they just don't understand why one would ask for it. Probably because asking for a prenup makes her think you don't trust her. which she probably thinks defeats the purpose of marriage.
Thats actually a good test of her character if she loves you for you then she would sign it if it would make you happy and then get it rid of it once you confirmed her intentions. I probably do it myself but i am not if there are preups in the uk.
Yeah I don't see why she wouldn't want money to go back to the way things were before marriage unless she wanted to take some of it
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I wouldn't be quick to judge but I would take it as a yes. If she feels entitled to my stuff then that's not a good sign. You keep your stuff, I keep mine too. No need for a fuss.
No... it is an insurance policy., counting on a failed marriage. It is also a sign of distrust. If you have to sign a prenup, it is a sign he or she doesn't trust you... why get married then?
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Obviously. There's no reason not to sign a prenup unless you expect to take their shit.
No but the man is really selfish, prenup in my country is generally use when a man marry a second time (he doesn't want his wife to have money, the house, etc... because he want to give it to his child) if it's first marriage he's just selfish.
Pre-nups... hardly hold water in court. But I know of something I'm doing that is solid as concrete. In 97 , it worked 100% in my favor.. during divorce. So yes you wouldn't be asked to sign anything
I don't think they are gold diggers, they just don't understand why one would ask for it. Probably because asking for a prenup makes her think you don't trust her. which she probably thinks defeats the purpose of marriage.
My plan is to ask my fiancé to sign one, and I'm expecting a fight.
When she signs it, I'll tear it up.
Thats actually a good test of her character if she loves you for you then she would sign it if it would make you happy and then get it rid of it once you confirmed her intentions. I probably do it myself but i am not if there are preups in the uk.
I think that some women see it as a man's way of saying that he doesn't trust her or that he thinks she's a gold digger, which is hurtful.
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Yeah I don't see why she wouldn't want money to go back to the way things were before marriage unless she wanted to take some of it
I wouldn't be quick to judge but I would take it as a yes. If she feels entitled to my stuff then that's not a good sign. You keep your stuff, I keep mine too. No need for a fuss.
Is it even marriage if your partner who you love with all your heart makes you sign a prenup?
TBH lets be real, Sandra Bullock make her now ex-husband sign a prenup that if he cheated on her she would collect all the assets. Go her!
No... it is an insurance policy., counting on a failed marriage. It is also a sign of distrust. If you have to sign a prenup, it is a sign he or she doesn't trust you... why get married then?
Nope. I don't want to sign a pre-nup and I'm nothing close to being a gold digger.
Yes I do think that. Any woman who cares about you wouldn't want to see you lose all your stuff in case of a divorce.
I'd make a man sign a pre-nup.
Fuck marriage go MGTOW. ✌
ofc if the preenup is fair
They would tend to be, yes.
I think men who refuse to sign prenups are dumb.
Yeah, because there is no reason not to sign it.
What about men?
Men, who refuse to sign a prenup?
The woman still gets to claim his assets. Her advantage and his disadvantage.
@Unit1 That's not true !!
Opinion owner. What about men?
@Djaaaay goes both ways. Equal parts gold diggers regardless of gender.
What's yours is yours. What's theirs is theirs. Should just walk away with what you came with and any mutual purchases be sorted split.
That's it pretty simple.
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