Probably because when they have one guy they get exclusive access to all his resources (financial and emotional) but if they have multiple guys, there's a good chance none of them will dedicate resources to her and they could withdraw their support at any time. It's less stable for them.
Because when women reproduce it takes a lot of physical resources, time and dedication. Men can just splurge all over, mating with multiple women easily.
Because they never learned to share when they were in kindergarten and grade school. Just don't bother with relationships and go to Backpage, that takes care of all the anti-monogamy.
I am serious. I have to settle myself. I have to get a good job, a healthy life, a good person to be with. I have a lot of things to do. I also want to reciprocate to my parents' deeds. :)
Okay. So that's not fun or exciting to you? Then make it exciting. Tell people how much you've learned from the process of handling your parent's estate.
@Dinotracks love and lust can be very similar they are often mistaken for each other because both are strong emotional attractions to a certain person. the mistake that people make is thinking that these two things are completely unrelated but they are actually very closely intertwined. lust is a sub genre of love because if you do not have lust in a relationship it can't be healthy (unless you're asexual) it just can't. gotta face the facts ;) if you think love and lust are unrelated you are sadly mistaken
@gigi5678 Gigi that is a very astute comment. You are very observant. One thing however I believe love is a subset of lust not the other way around. Without lust you have no love as you said. So Lust is actually the dominant emotion (we see this today with women demanding to "fall in love" with athletes and male models) it's just most romantic literature is written from the point of view that lust is a given and that love is a universal binding agent that is rare and special... but why if it is supposedly the dominant emotion in sex is it so rare and special in these romance novels?
*** Generally speaking! Women are emotional based and therefore expect men to be as well. They are unable to separate sexual pleasure from emotional connection.
As men we seldom attach sex to emotion, we can love and cherish our partner and sex with them is more intimate, but we can have sex that means NOTHING other than pleasure.
THats what our society has set as the default relationship. It's against against the law to married to multiple people. SO you see it's not only women who believe in this men do too
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lol because its easier to know who to demand child support from after lol
Because you love that guy and he loves you. If you are lucky you can find a love that makes you not want another guy because you just click so well with this one.
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Probably because when they have one guy they get exclusive access to all his resources (financial and emotional) but if they have multiple guys, there's a good chance none of them will dedicate resources to her and they could withdraw their support at any time. It's less stable for them.
Because when women reproduce it takes a lot of physical resources, time and dedication. Men can just splurge all over, mating with multiple women easily.
I mean, most people like monogamy in some way.. Lol... If I get somebody I ain't sharin...
Because they never learned to share when they were in kindergarten and grade school. Just don't bother with relationships and go to Backpage, that takes care of all the anti-monogamy.
Because it's hard to connect with or feel loved at all by someone who is sleeping with 4 other women...
Life is not for fun.
I believe in monogamy strongly and I do want someone who's monogamous.
I really believe in true love.
Life is not for fun? Why do you live then? For pain?
I am serious. I have to settle myself. I have to get a good job, a healthy life, a good person to be with. I have a lot of things to do. I also want to reciprocate to my parents' deeds. :)
Okay. So that's not fun or exciting to you? Then make it exciting. Tell people how much you've learned from the process of handling your parent's estate.
My life is already exciting, thanks! :)
What if true love was a crowd of people?
Then, it is not love, it is LUST.
And that is bad, why?
Oh and what is lust then? Really you tell me the difference between it and love.
@Dinotracks love and lust can be very similar they are often mistaken for each other because both are strong emotional attractions to a certain person. the mistake that people make is thinking that these two things are completely unrelated but they are actually very closely intertwined. lust is a sub genre of love because if you do not have lust in a relationship it can't be healthy (unless you're asexual) it just can't. gotta face the facts ;) if you think love and lust are unrelated you are sadly mistaken
@gigi5678 Gigi that is a very astute comment. You are very observant. One thing however I believe love is a subset of lust not the other way around. Without lust you have no love as you said. So Lust is actually the dominant emotion (we see this today with women demanding to "fall in love" with athletes and male models) it's just most romantic literature is written from the point of view that lust is a given and that love is a universal binding agent that is rare and special... but why if it is supposedly the dominant emotion in sex is it so rare and special in these romance novels?
Simple. Animal instinct.
*** Generally speaking!
Women are emotional based and therefore expect men to be as well.
They are unable to separate sexual pleasure from emotional connection.
As men we seldom attach sex to emotion, we can love and cherish our partner and sex with them is more intimate, but we can have sex that means NOTHING other than pleasure.
THats what our society has set as the default relationship. It's against against the law to married to multiple people. SO you see it's not only women who believe in this men do too
lol because its easier to know who to demand child support from after lol
Lol! Amen to that!
cause you can´t focus as well on many people as you can on one. therefore having one partner at a time is the best for most people.
I like monogamy because I don't like sharing a girlfriend/wife and I want to know I'm the father to any offspring that come into the picture.
Because you love that guy and he loves you. If you are lucky you can find a love that makes you not want another guy because you just click so well with this one.
Boys like you are the type to be sidepieces, not commitment worthy
Uhhhh maybe because they want a serious relationship? It's selfish to cheat on your partner. Why do you think it's okay?
Women like to pretend they are monogamous. The vast majority of them are not.
The female does not want competition for access to the man's resources.
Because we don't.
And I don't know why anyone would want to be with you either.
Why not? I'm nice to my friends.
Females want a male to help look after and provide for their offspring until it is viable to survive on its own.
Monogamy is just the default setting. Women are taught that it is a main goal in life and that men are dogs, and all sorts of other screwed up crap.
I agree it is screwed up. You should be able to do whatever you want with sex.
Lol five honestly sounds exhausting. Do you take supplements? XD
Yes!