Why can't I like anyone romantically?

[Idkmate]

I haven't had a crush on anyone for about 6ish years now. And when I think of all the crushes I've had (the very very few of them) they where all in primary school and I only liked them because they were nice and shared an Oreo with me at recess.
And it's not like I don't want to have a relationship. Honestly the only thing I know I want in my future is to be married and have a family and all that jazz. But I just can't get myself to like anyone. And whenever a guy approaches me about liking me I shut down and am all nope, nope, nope. And I always feel terrible because I know I've turned down a really great guy (and some douches) but I feel nothing towards them and feel even worse if I don't turn them down, like I'm just dating them to waste time.
And I know I'm just a teenager but I look at all my friends and there either dating, have crushes, or pining after someone that they haven't even talked to. And I can't help but wish that was me. I wish I could just have the feeling of liking someone even if they don't like me back. I know that sound unhealthy and I'm kinda fearful that I'll end up in an unhealthy realationship because of this, but the feeling of falling in love with someone sounds nicer than not liking anyone and constantly turning down guys, ruining our friendships.
I feel as if I have an incapacity to feel romantic towards someone, and I hate it. I feel so lonely and I know I put it on myself but I don't know what to do. Can anyone relate or help me out know what's going on?

[HMisCrush]

you're only 15? it's nothing to worry about. honestly, some of my best years were ones that I wasn't feeling romantic. it let's you really get to build friendships on a deeper level than you might usually. you will find the right guy, just wait. I find it's best to wait until about 18 to start dating anyway. don't worry, there isn't anything wrong with you. it seems like guys like you and that you are a really friendly person, and that you really care. guys love that, and one day you'll find one of those guys who you also like back. 😊 keep livin!

[OlderAndWiser]

All of us have the ability to love but sometimes life experiences intervene and cause us to resist because of a perceived need to protect ourselves. Have you had an experience that left you feeling devastated in the past?

[RJGraveyTrain]

You're only 15, so not being into dudes for 6 years is totally 100% normal. Believe me I didn't start giving a genuine fuck about guys romantically much later on. Lol. 15 year old boys (no offense) often can't offer shit, and neither can 15 year old girls half of the time.

[FissionStockMaster]

You're 15... when I was your age I didn't think of dating at all. My focuses were school, minecraft, friends and food. Just calm yourself, you've got a year or two before dating should be a major concern.

[sarath1997]

lol you are being childish... don't worry it will go with time... and you might get someone who is at least 200% more attractive then me... I hope that is enough..😂 just be patient..

[sarath1997]

and I don't get it.. you just came lol and already 2followers and it took me 3days..

[godfatherfan]

if your really 15, you should only be getting into boys the last couple years. So WTF? your too young. Give it time.

[Daniizaguy]

dont worry about it. My brother is 22 and hasn't had a real crush since the 4th grade. The right person will come. Just wait. also you'l see how much your mind changes when you grow into an adult trust me.

[LJRex]

You're only fifteen, so you have the majority of your life ahead of you to find someone.

[guilly18butnot]

You are 15. Just by that fact, your question is invalid to me.

[Barrabus_the_Free]

Lucky you. I wish I'd been like that when I was younger.

[NullNight]

We are too young, chill back and enjoy while you can

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Maybe your not ready to like anyone romantically that could be it.

[Justinaveragedude]

At some point, give someone a chance. Sometimes it takes time for that emotional connection to build.

[TheSpartan]

It happens. I had to wait five years before I was able to love anyone again; the wounds and scars can take a very, very long time to heal.

[red07net]

patience is the key. and I have never had a crush still I got chicks. so just wait a little and you would never need to get a crush.

[Sammy2616]

it's only that you haven't found the right one yet just wait and let father time take his course

[rick1204]

is it maybe some kind of subconsious fear of getting attached or opening up to someone?

[Anonymous]

I'm the same , maybe we didt come across with the right person yet

[Anonymous]

It's just not in you. You were created for breaking hearts in half.

[The_Kitchen_Sink]

Because you're 15. Give yourself time

[aleko123]

You're only 15. It'll take some time.

[eagle1951]

maybe you are just picky

[ChrisMatau]

You are 15... Just relax... ;)