Is it a red flag if he talks about his ex's all the time? (Page 3)

[lareina05]

I don't want to hear about them at all

[Anonymous]

Maybe he wants more sex or his girlfriend was just better at it.

[cupidkisses]

he is still not over her

[Anonymous]

how long has he been broken up from his last ex?

[Asker]

I think it is about 1 or 2 months ago

[Opinion Owner]

He shouldn't be jumping into another relationship so quickly.

I recommend laying him down with gentle hands. Tell him that he needs some time to figure out his own issues before dating someone else. Be honest that you don't appreciate hearing about his exes. It's one thing if he brought it up once or twice but ALL THE TIME is disrespectful. But I don't think he's purposely being disrespectful.

[Asker]

I understand what your saying, thank you

[Opinion Owner]

I say this from personal experience. I dated a girl for 9 months last year and I had some very deep unresolved issues with ex before her. I was well aware that nobody wants to hear about "exes", especially the person you are dating. I only brought up the issue once to her (after we dated 7 months) but it was impacting me. She then ghosted me 2 months later without warning. So the painful ex cycle continues...

[Asker]

I'm sorry she ghosted you, that's very nasty of her. She should of at least told you why. Even if you think you know why.
I can understand how it feels to have unresolved answers.

[Opinion Owner]

I wasn't that hurt, just disappointed. She even blocked me on FB. However what my ex before her did was 10 times worse.

It's getting harder and harder to trust women.

[Opinion Owner]

Anyway if you have a honest conversation with this guy you will have done right. Obviously his complaints about being lonely will only make him more lonely lol. But it's disrespectful that he's doing that to you.

[Asker]

I was disappointed too, my ex before this guy blocked me on Facebook too.
I tried everything but I guess I'm the end he just didn't love me and I guess I understand why. I find it hard to trust guys sometimes, but I know there is one person who isn't like the rest and I hope they find me.

True, I'll have a good talk with him, I told myself I'd talk to him tomorrow. I just couldn't because he was in a bad mood, I didn't want to make him worse.

[thatttguy]

Yes it's a red flag.

[JacobAS]

leave

[Maxine_Payne]

Yes, red flag.

[Anonymous]

A huge red flag

[almadafie]

You should move on and help him move on as well

[Anonymous]

yes, red flag.